Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So, I actually messaged her. ended up on read :yeshrug: but she's still viewing my stories. So, it may be dead.

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So that’s my roster at the moment. But not even hurt, especially compared to how I was months ago.

Imma start going to a big church soon to find a godly women


Lmfao chick aint feeling you at all based on them responses
 

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Wanted to try my luck since she reconnected lol.
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Mmmhmm. U have a chance with this girl. But. But u need to stop being so accommodating. That screams desperation. Just ask her to come over randomly. Hey I’m gonna be at so and so bar at 6. Meet me there. If she says she can’t, leave her on read.

if a woman doesn’t give u the answer u want, stfu and remain silent
 

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So, I actually messaged her. ended up on read :yeshrug: but she's still viewing my stories. So, it may be dead.

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So that’s my roster at the moment. But not even hurt, especially compared to how I was months ago.

Imma start going to a big church soon to find a godly women

:stopitslime: Told you bruh.

She still watching your stories cause she gets some type of fulfillment cause you tried your luck with her again in a simpish manner. She feeds on your feed if you can catch my drift.

Only way to recover is to start posting stories with other attractive chicks on your arm. Like block everybody except her and her mutuals . Start posting oldies but dont let it look like you literally uploading them just to stunt. It needs to look in the now.

If I was in this situation I would quit her cold turkey, too much energy for me.

Good luck.
 

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So, I actually messaged her. ended up on read :yeshrug: but she's still viewing my stories. So, it may be dead.

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So that’s my roster at the moment. But not even hurt, especially compared to how I was months ago.

Imma start going to a big church soon to find a godly women

I don’t know how y’all getting not interested in this conversation. It seems like a regular conversation.

I tend to leave guys on read when the conversation isn’t going anywhere and you are just talking to pass time. Being left on read is very different from being ignored.


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Because we have met women who find us more attractive when we aren't only focusing on them. Or have other options.

Pump fake as in they have a roster but say they don’t or they don’t have a roster but pump fake like they do?

If it’s the latter then that’s because time and time again we get more traction with women when they see other women are interested.

Can’t tell you about how many times I’m out with Ashley and she sees that Carla is giving me eye and all of a sudden Ashley starts showing more interest. It is what it is.
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How do you know they’re pump faking? Would you honestly be attracted to a guy if he said he didn’t have a few women that like him at all?

Unless you mean a dude who just randomly tells you this without you asking.


He acted as if he had a roster. We hung out for a few months. Everything was cool. The last time we hung out, he mentioned wanting to enjoy his summer with others and date around. I created space between us and decided to focus on more important things in life. A couple weeks later, he sent a long sad text about how I hurt his feelings, etc and how he was exclusive to me. Mind you, he never said this. Our last convo was about him wanting to be single.
 
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Brehs, women are not naive or innocent. They know exactly what they do/are doing.

Lost count how many times women have told me they purposely ignore messages, lie about being busy, talk to other guys even though they say they aren’t, etc.

And these actions come from both unattractive and attractive women.

So watch what they do not what they say. Never listen to what they say. :ufdup:
 

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I don’t know how y’all getting not interested in this conversation. It seems like a regular conversation.

I tend to leave guys on read when the conversation isn’t going anywhere and you are just talking to pass time. Being left on read is very different from being ignored.


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He acted as if he had a roster. We hung out for a few months. Everything was cool. The last time we hung out, he mentioned wanting to enjoy his summer with others and date around. I created space between us and decided to focus on more important things in life. A couple weeks later, he sent a long sad text about how I hurt his feelings, etc and how he was exclusive to me. Mind you, he never said this. Our last convo was about him wanting to be single.
How that text make you feel?
 

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Brehs, women are not naive or innocent. They know exactly what they do/are doing.

Lost count how many times women have told me they purposely ignore messages, lie about being busy, talk to other guys even though they say they aren’t, etc.

And these actions come from both unattractive and attractive women.

So watch what they do not what they say. Never listen to what they say. :ufdup:
Reminds me of this dumb bytch I was talking to a few years ago. She gonna text me “guess what happened at my job today?” I’m like “what?”

Chick ain’t even respond, then she hits me up a week later asking why I don’t text her.

I’m like WTF. I keep seeing these threads about how nikkas should settle down, and I think should I? Then I remember all the dumbass broads I gotta deal with.

They don’t deserve my seed.

:russ::mjlol:
 

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My experiences with different types of Women.

Sistas - We instantly click. Soulful connection. However, I go for the naddies. Natural hair baddies. The type of sistas with a vibrational spirit. The sistas that have something going for themselves. Hoodrats? Urban women are cool with me. I HIGHLY avoid combative chicks though.

Cacs - It's a spectrum. A lot of them act entitled and neurotic. Don't get too comfortable, if you sense red flags. However, the best white women tend to be
Spicy Cacs/Mediterranean (Greek, Italian, Sicily), East European (Poland, Russia, Ukraine, etc), Central Eurasia (Armenia, etc). Anglo Saxons I mostly avoid.

Asians - Depends on location. Southeast Asians (Thailand, Philippines, Vietnam) are very extroverted, animated, outgoing. East Asians tend to be shy
Latinas - Spicy senoritas lol. Very passionate, hardworking, zealous, quick to fall in love. However, that temper can get you killed. Be careful:hubie:
 

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Any advice on how to maintain your frame when you meet a girl who you feeling?
Went on a date last saturday and hit it off with this chick who is my type and i'm already seeing her as a long-term :snoop:

I'm quite open and direct so if i like you i'll let you know that i like you but i feel like my frame changes and i become more of a "nice guy"

I'm still talking with other girls and going on dates but how do you keep that frame when its a girl you really like?

Don't get attached. Remain cool, confident and indifferent. Remember, women are going to test you. Just stay present and not phased.
 

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Why, and did it make him look weak?

Another question: You wanna be in a relationship with that dude?

The confusion came from why did you lie. I don't see him as weak, but more so manipulative because either a) you lied about your roster to see how I would respond or b) you are lying about how you feel to get me to come back.

Good question. I did, but that past few convos have been off-putting. Anyway, I committed some hours to my community and church.
 

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The confusion came from why did you lie. I don't see him as weak, but more so manipulative because either a) you lied about your roster to see how I would respond or b) you are lying about how you feel to get me to come back.

Good question. I did, but that past few convos have been off-putting. Anyway, I committed some hours to my community and church.
Lying or not, idk why he would tell you he has a roster, that doesn’t help him in anyway.
 

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Reminds me of this dumb bytch I was talking to a few years ago. She gonna text me “guess what happened at my job today?” I’m like “what?”

Chick ain’t even respond, then she hits me up a week later asking why I don’t text her.

I’m like WTF. I keep seeing these threads about how nikkas should settle down, and I think should I? Then I remember all the dumbass broads I gotta deal with.

They don’t deserve my seed.

:russ::mjlol:


:dead: Man...that passive/aggressive behavior that some women do. The moment I see that happening, I just cut her off.
 
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