Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Men and women are fundamentally different.

As men, we’re more invested in maintaining families/relationships together, keeping things within the culture (ie. marrying women from your ethnic background), etc.

Women are the opposite. They only care about emotions and how they feel about you at the moment. No long-term planning/thinking, no accountability, no self-reflection, etc. None of that.

Initiating divorces not understanding the consequences of raising a child in a single parent household, moving onto another man rather than working on your current relationship, choosing bad boys rather than men that will care of you, etc. Do any of these actions sound like something a rational person would do? Nope.

This is the reality of dating women in 2021. Yes its sad, but the quicker men in here accept and understand this, the better off they’ll be.

So ALWAYS be ready to exit at any moment the relationship/situationship/marriage you’re in brehs. Doesn’t matter if its weeks, months or years. Enjoy the ride but when its come to a stop, hop off.

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But yeah if more men came to this realization early they'd be so far ahead. Nothing a woman does surprises me anymore. I don't get angry, sad , disappointed like I once did

 

[Bless't]

Why is it that way, but yet they say they want a man who is caring and kind and their favorite line...a man who is "consistent" or wants to "date with intention"

This shyt.

I've come to the point in my life that, for me, in the dating world... energy received is energy given.

If I come to the point of taking a woman seriously, she has a lot of boxes to check before I waste ANY energy on her.

Ce'est la vie.

 

[Bless't]

Because they would have to deal with heartbreak without you being there. The thing is women drop hints but most guys don't see it and stay around. Gotta go with your gut and put yourself first, look back at your former relationships when women ended it I'm sure you could see the signs, she's more busy than she was before, starting more fights etc.

Just like now even just when I talk to chicks if I notice short replies or I'm always the one making plans, texting, calling I just stop and I'm like steph curry at the free throw line rarely missing. Late last year to early this year I was talking to this chick we saw each other alot, talked alot etc. then i started noticing i'd message her and like 8 hrs later get a reply. I just stopped that was January it's now June and I haven't heard from her ONCE since then.

I'm 36 so just a little older than you and yeah we've all been through it, with years comes wisdom. I don't put anything past any women. I've been engaged adn seen one day excitement, tears, happiest day of her life to a few weeks later giving me back the ring and changing her mind and going on with her life.

Why you gotta put yourself first, enjoy your life being single, love your passions and hobbies because all you can rely on is YOU

All of this.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Sorry breh, but that's how it is nowadays.

It's like a job be there for 20 years and one day get called into a meeting and your services are no longer needed.

And that's how "cold" women can be one day you're the world the next day you're nothing. When you go from talking to someone every day and just like that they can stop. Like I always say when they cuddling, kissing you saying this and that how much they care about you they are slowly detaching so when they drop them thangs on you they make a clean break.

Thing is you didn't mess up, there is nothing you could have done differently. There is no magic formula at all. At the end of the day she just wasn't feeling you like that. A chick will break up with you for a reason she will give a guy she really wants to be with 1000 of passes if he did the same thing.

Deep down I kinda felt like she wasn't feeling me like that.

I was just good enough which kinda scared me but then there would be times where the things she did for me and the way she looked me let me know there was genuine love there. I still think she has love for me but I honestly think she thinks she can do better. I think she's going to be disappointed with what she finds out there but that's another discussion.

She was always so critical. She didn't liked the way I dressed. Me being from the east coast I liked Ralph Lauren/polo, she thought it was corny. She would pick at my flaws at times and it was strange. But the love she showed, the gifts she gave, it wasn't fake. I always got a sense she was just unhappy with her life too.

 

[MikelArteta]

Deep down I kinda felt like she wasn't feeling me like that.

I was just good enough which kinda scared me but then there would be times where the things she did for me and the way she looked me let me know there was genuine love there. I still think she has love for me but I honestly think she thinks she can do better. I think she's going to be disappointed with what she finds out there but that's another discussion.

She was always so critical. She didn't liked the way I dressed. Me being from the east coast I liked Ralph Lauren/polo, she thought it was corny. She would pick at my flaws at times and it was strange. But the love she showed, the gifts she gave, it wasn't fake. I always got a sense she was just unhappy with her life too.

Always goes back to what I said only deal with women who see you as number 1. There is no such thing as a perfect man but that's what some of these chicks are looking for. If a woman thinks she can do better than me then go ahead.

See and now you see the red flags, imagine if you were a simp and threw away all your clothes and bought a new wardrobe to appease her. Then now what?

Like I said before if she really was into you she wouldn't care what you wore, your flaws etc.

 

[Lord Bison]

So this PAWG I was supposed to meet up with a few months ago saw me DJing a couple of places on the weekend.

She hasn't contacted me since she said she would get back to me about when she was free.
First message "My friend is having a rooftop party on Friday, are you able to DJ there?"

The pure audacity of some of these hoes. Told her I'm busy.

Why didn't you charge her a premium? Golden opportunity to get that bread fam

 

[Apollo Creed]

Because they would have to deal with heartbreak without you being there. The thing is women drop hints but most guys don't see it and stay around. Gotta go with your gut and put yourself first, look back at your former relationships when women ended it I'm sure you could see the signs, she's more busy than she was before, starting more fights etc.

Just like now even just when I talk to chicks if I notice short replies or I'm always the one making plans, texting, calling I just stop and I'm like steph curry at the free throw line rarely missing. Late last year to early this year I was talking to this chick we saw each other alot, talked alot etc. then i started noticing i'd message her and like 8 hrs later get a reply. I just stopped that was January it's now June and I haven't heard from her ONCE since then.

I'm 36 so just a little older than you and yeah we've all been through it, with years comes wisdom. I don't put anything past any women. I've been engaged adn seen one day excitement, tears, happiest day of her life to a few weeks later giving me back the ring and changing her mind and going on with her life.

Why you gotta put yourself first, enjoy your life being single, love your passions and hobbies because all you can rely on is YOU

this is why as kids they told us “treat people how you want to he treated”. You match the energy given. If
You notice you have to carry convo, and they are getting short or dry then just ghost em.


Only woman you owe being nice to is your mama and ya daughter

 

[J Money]

Why didn't you charge her a premium? Golden opportunity to get that bread fam

That's what I would have done too lowery

Govier an outrageous figure and if she declines call her a broke hoe

 

[Lord Bison]

Because they would have to deal with heartbreak without you being there. The thing is women drop hints but most guys don't see it and stay around. Gotta go with your gut and put yourself first, look back at your former relationships when women ended it I'm sure you could see the signs, she's more busy than she was before, starting more fights etc.

Just like now even just when I talk to chicks if I notice short replies or I'm always the one making plans, texting, calling I just stop and I'm like steph curry at the free throw line rarely missing. Late last year to early this year I was talking to this chick we saw each other alot, talked alot etc. then i started noticing i'd message her and like 8 hrs later get a reply. I just stopped that was January it's now June and I haven't heard from her ONCE since then.

I'm 36 so just a little older than you and yeah we've all been through it, with years comes wisdom. I don't put anything past any women. I've been engaged adn seen one day excitement, tears, happiest day of her life to a few weeks later giving me back the ring and changing her mind and going on with her life.

Why you gotta put yourself first, enjoy your life being single, love your passions and hobbies because all you can rely on is YOU

I'm 36 as well and in my experience, whenever I see these signs I always make a point to dump her first. That's the main lesson to be learned is whenever these signs start to creep up, get her out the paint fast.

Doesn't matter the history yall have together, because women are far more ruthless and sociopathic than we give them credit for. Ideally you want to walk away with your dignity and by dumping her first and never looking back, you at least get an even tradeoff. She gets what she wants by getting you out her life, but it comes with the cost of a blow to her fragile ego.

 

[DapMeUp!]

Why didn't you charge her a premium? Golden opportunity to get that bread fam

Nah that's not how she was asking at all fam...She defo was trying to get it for the free she wasn't trying to pay.

 

[Lord Bison]

Nah that's not how she was asking at all fam...She defo was trying to get it for the free she wasn't trying to pay.

In that case


Maybe I'm just petty, but I would've at least gave her a price amount just to watch her jewelz her way to a discount. At least establish dominance on the way out and let her know your services ain't for free.

But that's just me tho

 

[RealAssanova]

She gave you gifts, said she loved you, cooked for you, did favours for you...but now she’s tired, not in the mood, busy.

You cannot understand why the change? You cannot understand how she went from being such a loving and caring partner/wife/girlfriend to someone so unemotional and detached.

You had plans for the weekend, next month and next year but now those plans are put into doubt.

Its over brothers. Don’t ask or stress yourself out with the why and definitely don’t ask her why. Don’t seek counselling or any other forms of help either.

We are men and men act. Its a masculine trait. Women communicate which is a feminine trait and is why the minute you try to “solve the problem” or “ask why” her attraction towards you rapidly decreases. Talking will also just create an argument and arguments with a woman is another thing that decreases her attraction towards you. Men don’t argue. It says to woman (the weaker gender) she can get to you which subconsciously tells her you’re weak.

So again brehs....unless dealing with unusual/extreme circumstances, leave.

 

[Redwood]

The minute a woman’s attraction for you fades away so does her level of respect and decency towards you. They go hand-in-hand as sad as that is to hear.

You could be the most perfect boyfriend/husband but the minute she loses attraction, you’re all of a sudden abusive, controlling, not affectionate enough, manipulative, etc.

Not only that, her mood becomes more irritable, she’s less affectionate and more colder towards you, more argumentative, more short and delayed in her responses, etc.

That is why its imperative you keep your emotions in check otherwise you’ll get chewed up nicely. You cannot negotiate or communicate attraction when it comes to women. In fact, doing those things will actually cause more harm then good and further reduce her level of attraction towards you even more. So the minute you start to see any of these signs, plot your exit. Doesn’t matter if you been talking or together for 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years.......exit.

Women only communicate in “grey” just so they could create confusion because with confusion they gain the benefit of doubt. —@TradePascalSiakam

Gospel right here brehs,

 

[Leao2005]

Because they would have to deal with heartbreak without you being there. The thing is women drop hints but most guys don't see it and stay around. Gotta go with your gut and put yourself first, look back at your former relationships when women ended it I'm sure you could see the signs, she's more busy than she was before, starting more fights etc.

Just like now even just when I talk to chicks if I notice short replies or I'm always the one making plans, texting, calling I just stop and I'm like steph curry at the free throw line rarely missing. Late last year to early this year I was talking to this chick we saw each other alot, talked alot etc. then i started noticing i'd message her and like 8 hrs later get a reply. I just stopped that was January it's now June and I haven't heard from her ONCE since then.

I'm 36 so just a little older than you and yeah we've all been through it, with years comes wisdom. I don't put anything past any women. I've been engaged adn seen one day excitement, tears, happiest day of her life to a few weeks later giving me back the ring and changing her mind and going on with her life.

Why you gotta put yourself first, enjoy your life being single, love your passions and hobbies because all you can rely on is YOU

Give example of such hints

 

[Guvnor]

This one chick I'm talking too is a way on vacation and every day she asks me if I'm gonna tell her I miss her yet.

Trying to think of something clever to say. Any suggestions brehs? I usually tell her it's okay if you miss me just tell me lol.

I dunno bruh

It's like they are stimulated by the emotional rollercoaster

Big facts! shyt is crazy.