Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Hinge > tinder, bumble

Actually some quality shortys on there, and you can filter by ethnicity:blessed: Bumble you swiping thru 100 college white girls before you see one black or Latina shorty

Yup Hinge is the best, i'd also put bumble before tinder though. Tinder has alot of bots. I've never come across a bot on hinge or bumble
 

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Yup Hinge is the best, i'd also put bumble before tinder though. Tinder has alot of bots. I've never come across a bot on hinge or bumble

i can see how dudes end up on dates every week with this stuff but that ish requires too much energy and these woman on avg aint worth the time. Unless brehs just enjoy being on the scene probably best dudes do some small talk on the app > video chat and then decide if they wanna go from there but I hear dudes say on 3-4 messages they trying to set up time link. I guess i value my time and peace too much
 

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I tried Hinge a few times before. It gave me like 5 swipes before it wanted me to buy it's premium version. Even Tinder ain't that greedy.
 

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Hinge > tinder, bumble

Actually some quality shortys on there, and you can filter by ethnicity:blessed: Bumble you swiping thru 100 college white girls before you see one black or Latina shorty
I've actually never even downloaded Hinge/Bumble because I assumed that the women are all looking to settle down and find the one. Is that yall's experience on those apps?
 

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I've actually never even downloaded Hinge/Bumble because I assumed that the women are all looking to settle down and find the one. Is that yall's experience on those apps?

i just made the hinge recently, and only open it passively, but based on my 'preferences' set hinge seems less 'seedy' than tinder/blk which have the smash and dash vibe. I'm not noticing many non professional women like I see on BLK and professional women tend to all present the same 'time to be a wife now' profiles while other apps you see a mix of folks looking for 'vibes'
 

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i can see how dudes end up on dates every week with this stuff but that ish requires too much energy and these woman on avg aint worth the time. Unless brehs just enjoy being on the scene probably best dudes do some small talk on the app > video chat and then decide if they wanna go from there but I hear dudes say on 3-4 messages they trying to set up time link. I guess i value my time and peace too much
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I've actually never even downloaded Hinge/Bumble because I assumed that the women are all looking to settle down and find the one. Is that yall's experience on those apps?
Good mix of everyone on hinge IMO. It’s definitely the most diverse as far as types of females and what they want
 

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Yeah Hinge is the best dating app atm, followed by Bumble and Tinder last

Tinder is now mostly full of lame chicks, scammers and chicks asking you to follow them on IG or snap

For me Feeld is a lot better than Tinder. I had an account that I reactivated this week

A ton of chicks on there, I see on the other apps. But on here their at least being honest about what they're into which I kinda prefer.

But don't go jumping onto Feeld thinking you'll be smashing everything. As per the other apps a chick still has to feel you first.
 
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eh idk I'm talking to a shawty across the country and she responds in minutes, talking freaky and is begging me to come see her.

Also been texting a bytch in the town that took a day to respond. You know when a chic is feeling you.

Look up a book called 'Mode One'

Those dudes that came at her direct got their answer off the bat and didn't have to waste time. You may have danced around playing it safe which she was cool with so there was nothing to shut down.

Google that and add PDF to the end. Should be a free copy floating around. This book taught me to be more direct. Gets you your answer faster.


I'd bush it and see if she hits you up when she comes back. If she doesn't, you have your answer :hubie:


She FaceTimed me last night we talked for an hour, hadn’t heard from her in a little over a week.

apologized for not responding saying she’s been real busy getting adjusted out there(I believe her, doing a biotech internship). Told her she been on a nikka mind and I want to see her when she gets back. She said she was “down for sure” and “didn’t forget about me”:wow:
 

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I've actually never even downloaded Hinge/Bumble because I assumed that the women are all looking to settle down and find the one. Is that yall's experience on those apps?

I've smashed more chicks from bumble than tinder tbh :manny:
 

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She FaceTimed me last night we talked for an hour, hadn’t heard from her in a little over a week.

apologized for not responding saying she’s been real busy getting adjusted out there(I believe her, doing a biotech internship). Told her she been on a nikka mind and I want to see her when she gets back. She said she was “down for sure” and “didn’t forget about me”:wow:

Don't make it a priority....ball in her court

I'm dealing with something kinda similar
 
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