Let’s be reality.
- You are fresh off a 2 year relationship
- You are juggling multiple chicks
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
Let’s be reality.
these dudes love confusion
You keeping busy breh
4 dates in a week
doing the vertigoknight nice and casual coffe shop
3 dates and only spent 19 dollars so far
The Jewnited States
Superstar
Brehs I'm rusty as fukk and need some help.
I spent last year in jail and have only been out for a few weeks. Idk how to navigate this dating scene with the covid shyt going on.
I haven't had much success with the online apps either...I ain't ugly, I ain't fat, I got 2 college degrees, but also got no job. I been honest about my situation in my profiles, about the jail time and shyt ... Should I not do that? Should I just fake the funk for now until I get my feet wet?
I spent last year in jail and have only been out for a few weeks. Idk how to navigate this dating scene with the covid shyt going on.
I haven't had much success with the online apps either...I ain't ugly, I ain't fat, I got 2 college degrees, but also got no job. I been honest about my situation in my profiles, about the jail time and shyt ... Should I not do that? Should I just fake the funk for now until I get my feet wet?
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Update….i texted the bytch that gave me her # and she never replied
Whats the whole point of givn me the #…id rather of been curved
I chalk it up to safety reasons. There’s been times where I misread the moment and put a woman in an awkward spot to where she gave up the # when she didn’t want to.
What are you trying to do?
- Date/work towards something long term
- Casual situation
The Jewnited States
Superstar
Anything bruh. Just wanna connect with humans and go from there. Once I get my foot in the door, women usually end up catching feelings at some point. I be like George costanza
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Me personally bruh, if I just finished a jail bid and had no job… women would truly be the LAST thing on my mind.
The Jewnited States
Superstar
I ain't trying to make women the focal point of my life but it would be nice to have some to text on the side or smash or just flirt with at least.
Nothing serious for now
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
My relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022
I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018
I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018
Jeez manMy relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022
I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018
That’s foul
The thing is the good ones will catch you off guard no signs or warnings sometimes and your sitting there like wth
what did I do wrong? I don’t understand or FMLWhen it comes down too it you just gotta hope for the best expect the worse. You can’t be stressing if or when save a piece of yourself so if it ever happens it won’t break u. Never trust 100% I say 90% max idc how great she is because that 10% can ease the pain or blow if comes to fruition. Sure you should still do right by her just know you can get played for a fool and not see it coming and nothing you can do. Just enjoy the time memories love etc….
Its a cruel world out there whether ur a simp, alpha male , 6 figs, 6ft tall your replaceable as easy as a woman’s underwear
Just have a sense of balance of happiness and awareness.
Deathstroke
Pro
That’s the thing though, I’m only juggling multiple chicks cause I can’t find one that one that keeps me interested like that. I used to do that back then too and then ended up meeting my ex and things just made sense so fast. However back then I felt no pressure at all. But since things ended and i’m in my late 20s now I’m starting to feel some pressure cause I thought I was set in that area.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
The bolded part is interesting. For me, I’ve let myself down by putting my expectations and standards into women who wasn’t going to conform to them. I’ve looked at women and, maybe due to their appearance/accolades/speech, have put them in a box that they shouldn’t get out of... when they did I would be blindsided or shocked when in reality, that was who she was.
That’s why labels like “good girl next door” or “church girl” is funny to me. If she’s not doing hard drugs or been apart of trains, then there isn’t anything I should be let down about
500 Days of Summer is a great movie that highlights this problem many men have.