Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

Me and my girl have been together for about a year and change now. Things were kind of rocky at the beginning, but it's been good since except for one issue.

Recently she's gotten on me because I haven't initiated anything sexually with her in a few months, and she feels like she's always trying to initiate/I'm disinterested. I feel guilty about it but man, she's gained nearly 30 pounds since we met and bigger girls aren't my thing

Edit: I've already asked her to come to the gym with me, but she's resisted

Either your gonna accept her as that or you don’t ain’t no in between and if big girls aren’t your thing and she don’t wanna lose weight then cut her off
Also understand what u may lose cuz of the extra weight are you ok with that?
Her gaining weight isn’t okay either but I’ve seen people regret breaking up cuz of it cuz the other qualities were just so good
No attraction is a deal breaker also cuz ur likely to cheat take your time and figure out what’s best for you breh

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Fighting the urge to text this girl I smashed last year but ending up cutting off



bytch was toxic and depressing as hell but gorgeous as fukk

Don't do it

 

[Astroslik]

Me and my girl have been together for about a year and change now. Things were kind of rocky at the beginning, but it's been good since except for one issue.

Recently she's gotten on me because I haven't initiated anything sexually with her in a few months, and she feels like she's always trying to initiate/I'm disinterested. I feel guilty about it but man, she's gained nearly 30 pounds since we met and bigger girls aren't my thing

Edit: I've already asked her to come to the gym with me, but she's resisted

Bushes

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Don't do it

My therapist just talked me out of it


Been single and focusing on myself for 3 months now not talking to any girls just working. When I eventually get back out there dating imma just take it as it comes. I'll meet more gorgeous women

 

[Ahadi]

Me and my girl have been together for about a year and change now. Things were kind of rocky at the beginning, but it's been good since except for one issue.

Recently she's gotten on me because I haven't initiated anything sexually with her in a few months, and she feels like she's always trying to initiate/I'm disinterested. I feel guilty about it but man, she's gained nearly 30 pounds since we met and bigger girls aren't my thing

Edit: I've already asked her to come to the gym with me, but she's resisted

A gain of weight & to do nothing about it is a lack of respect for you.

She’s comfortable.

 

[Anton]

Yikes, be careful out here brehs. Just got a text from a woman I met on hinge that she has herpes.

We had been FaceTiming, texting, and phone convo for the past week and finally met up yesterday. Even spent the night. Thank god I didn’t fukk or make out with her. I would’ve been HEATED. She put the decision in my hands to continue and I respectfully told her I can’t do it. Just can’t. But thanked her for her honesty.

Second girl I’ve met in online dating thats told me they have herpes fortunately they both told me up front.

which one?

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Does he tell these chicks his current intention?

Yup he said the last few been talking about a relationship from the beginning

 

[Anton]

Know you see my texts, baby, please say somethin

 

[WaveWhisperer]

When do yall go for the kill as far as setting up a date ? Matched with this ghanian chick twice on hinge (I deleted my account after we first matched) got back on it and matched with her again .

 

[WaveWhisperer]

man i been having trouble getting hard lately. i know it’s nothing physically wrong w me. i drink good water, im very fit as well, i don’t watch porn, and i very sparingly beat off. been hanging w this shorty and all she want is to fukk n chill and im happy w that. it’s low commitment n all vibes, we get along well.

when it comes time to smash or even get head tho im not getting hard - well, yesterday i did from head - but im not certain on why. my only guesses are anxiety/ stress, and the fact that i smoke a lot.

noticed that i been super anxious before hanging w her, but in my head and in reality, i have no reason to be. sucks that this been happening bc it’s p embarrassing and awkward not to mention she’s fire

anyone have similar happen? how’d you work thru it?

Drink water every day consistently

Ashwanganda and maca root

Squats (get in the gym)


Quit smoking and drinking

Then when you ready you gon give her that rocket power








Harlem

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Me and my girl have been together for about a year and change now. Things were kind of rocky at the beginning, but it's been good since except for one issue.

Recently she's gotten on me because I haven't initiated anything sexually with her in a few months, and she feels like she's always trying to initiate/I'm disinterested. I feel guilty about it but man, she's gained nearly 30 pounds since we met and bigger girls aren't my thing

Edit: I've already asked her to come to the gym with me, but she's resisted

During covid era, me n my ex got covid and when i did and was feeling like shyt i exercised at home, never brought it up or mentioned it and kept doing it everyday more n more. Eventually she joined me since she saw me working and eventually got herself a membership at the gym.

You have to lead her to be in the best shape she can be and the best way is to lay down the example.

 

[Astroslik]

During covid era, me n my ex got covid and when i did and was feeling like shyt i exercised at home, never brought it up or mentioned it and kept doing it everyday more n more. Eventually she joined me since she saw me working and eventually got herself a membership at the gym.

You have to lead her to be in the best shape she can be and the best way is to lay down the example.

Or find a chick whose already about that life

 

[The ADD]

When do yall go for the kill as far as setting up a date ? Matched with this ghanian chick twice on hinge (I deleted my account after we first matched) got back on it and matched with her again .

Pretty immediately. There isn’t a point in waiting to meet.

 

[DJSmooth]

Me and my girl have been together for about a year and change now. Things were kind of rocky at the beginning, but it's been good since except for one issue.

Recently she's gotten on me because I haven't initiated anything sexually with her in a few months, and she feels like she's always trying to initiate/I'm disinterested. I feel guilty about it but man, she's gained nearly 30 pounds since we met and bigger girls aren't my thing

Edit: I've already asked her to come to the gym with me, but she's resisted

and you probably didn't tell her she needs to lose weight when she asked.

You need to tell her. She'll either work on losing the weight or she gonna have a melt down and yall gonna break up and can stop wasting each others time.

 

[The ADD]

and you probably didn't tell her she needs to lose weight when she asked.

You need to tell her. She'll either work on losing the weight or she gonna have a melt down and yall gonna break up and can stop wasting each others time.

^^^
This but also if he isn’t in pretty good shape and consistent, it’s not going to change much. 30 pounds requires a lifestyle change of some kind.