I feel like objectively my dating asks or ideas are always 100%, like I go frequently to the hottest spots in my city, the most exclusive hotels, the hardest to get reservations is usually where the bar staff knows me, because I'm in there solo, and all the new places. You never would see me asking someone to some cheap bullshyt spot. That's just not my style. But, sometimes I think I'm going way out of some people's comfort zone, like I'm asking them to really high end expensive places just casually, and they may be thinking there's more to it.
Hiking, or ziplining, like you'd never catch me doing some shyt like that, on my own, I understand the practicality of those dates though. I do like less structured things, where we can just talk and be ourselves, and not have to go through like rituals and signaling, but that involves letting ones guard down. As I mentioned awhile back, my homie said you don't care about structures or systems, you just try and go around it.
seems to be where it's at for me at least...
