Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr210]

ok so i called, its been 30 minutes and she hasnt called back, I actually left a voicemessage how long should i give before if she does call back i dont answer the phone. She knew I was calling tonight because i told her earlier today. Damn maybe i got burned. Also it was the generic vm thing that came up on her phone, so I didnt hear what her voice or anything sounds like

 

[Rich Spirit]

ok so i called, its been 30 minutes and she hasnt called back, I actually left a voicemessage how long should i give before if she does call back i dont answer the phone. She knew I was calling tonight because i told her earlier today. Damn maybe i got burned. Also it was the generic vm thing that came up on her phone, so I didnt hear what her voice or anything sounds like

no need to leave a voicemail breh

 

[Mr210]

no need to leave a voicemail breh

well too late for that, she doesnt know my number which is why i left it, because i never call numbers back i dont recognize unless they leave a message. Atleast this way i know she knows that i call, whereas if i just called all she knows is a number she doesnt know called her. Its been about 37 minutes, im thinking im either not going to answer the phone and hit her up tomorrow

 

[MAKAVELI25]

ok so i called, its been 30 minutes and she hasnt called back, I actually left a voicemessage how long should i give before if she does call back i dont answer the phone. She knew I was calling tonight because i told her earlier today. Damn maybe i got burned. Also it was the generic vm thing that came up on her phone, so I didnt hear what her voice or anything sounds like

Hit her up tomorrow. If she doesn't answer tomorrow then delete her number. Women always have their phone of them, if she doesn't answer tonight then excuse it but two days in a row is just disrespectful. And if she calls you after you delete her number answer the phone and inform her that you deleted her number. The key is not to be resentful. Women can sense that, if she ends up calling you great, if not then you'll just have to find someone better.

 

[Mr210]

Hit her up tomorrow. If she doesn't answer tomorrow then delete her number. Women always have their phone of them, if she doesn't answer tonight then excuse it but two days in a row is just disrespectful. And if she calls you after you delete her number answer the phone and inform her that you deleted her number. The key is not to be resentful. Women can sense that, if she ends up calling you great, if not then you'll just have to find someone better.

Yeah its been like 52 min, so even if she calls me back tonight, Im not going to answer, especially since im about to go do something, if she calls back I will hit her up tomorrow and if she doesnt answer tomorrow im done with her. If she does answer tomorrow i will excuse it, but my antennas will really be up with her

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Yeah its been like 52 min, so even if she calls me back tonight, Im not going to answer, especially since im about to go do something, if she calls back I will hit her up tomorrow and if she doesnt answer tomorrow im done with her. If she does answer tomorrow i will excuse it, but my antennas will really be up with her

Just remember never to act out of spite. Even if she doesn't call you tomorrow and you delete her number, if she ends up calling you down the line AND YOU GENUINELY WANT TO HANG OUT WITH HER, agree to hang out but let her know the ball is in her court. Tell her you deleted her number cuz you didn't feel she was taking you seriously, but make sure to show that you are not resentful to her because of it. And if she is going to be the one asking you out then make sure she is the one buying dinner/paying for whatever activity you partake in

 

[45123]

Brehs, if you tell you a girl how you feel and she doesn't reply the same way, but you know she was into you (she probably lost feelings or something), you think she'll come back? Like how the advice goes, let her know how you feel and she'll come back

Also, is there any truth to the adage "If you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, it was never meant to be"

 

[Mr210]

ok, so almost 2 hrs later after i called her and left a vm, she just sent me a text saying "Hey, its pretty late. Talk tomorrow?" What should i say?

 

[George Gooney]

Brehs, if you tell you a girl how you feel and she doesn't reply the same way, but you know she was into you (she probably lost feelings or something), you think she'll come back? Like how the advice goes, let her know how you feel and she'll come back

Also, is there any truth to the adage "If you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, it was never meant to be"

It's never wise to "tell girls how you feel" breh we've all been there and it rarely ever ends well especially if you come out with the feelings first. It's easy for us guys to fall for a good girl but in a woman's mind it comes off ingenuine and thirsty because she wants to "earn" your love. It comes down to the female psyche of her feeling like she was "better" than all the other women in your life and it's very selfish in actuality but we humans can be selfish at times. As far the "letting something go" phrase I've always found it to be B.S for example I remember when I dated a girl and she suggested we break up after a fight(which was a test I didn't then know of) It made things much worse when I nonchalantly agreed "yea maybe you're right" because I wasn't willing to "fight for her". Women are straaaaaange breh.

 

[George Gooney]

ok, so almost 2 hrs later after i called her and left a vm, she just sent me a text saying "Hey, its pretty late. Talk tomorrow?" What should i say?

We're being trolled brehs.

 

[George Gooney]

double

 

[360dagod]

That's the problem g I don't approach them at all. Not tryna act like I'm on some playa shyt but I've been so used to havin females come up to me or have them initiate that I've never really stepped to em like that. I'm more of an introverted type of dude but I know could really eat if I actually made an effort with these broads..I don't think I'm necessarily "scared" of rejection it's just I'm more worried about runnin out of shyt to say and end up lookin like a straight ass

I'm in the same boat...I'm just going to look in a female direction and straight up say we need to set up a date and see what happens...

I can't do that small talk unless Im on a train or something...

I'm running that mike Martz spread offense...just going for it all...

And Im hella introverted... But something just snapped today...loll

I took baby steps today but they were good baby steps....

The rejection isn't the thing,its just I'm a calculative person and certain things just need aggression....

 

[Mr210]

We're being trolled brehs.

Im not trollin', im just going to tell her ok, and depending on how i feel tomorrow i might hit her up or i might not

 

[Malikthegod]

We're being trolled brehs.

I think so too. How old are you man?

 

[George Gooney]

I think so too. How old are you man?

Just turned 25 a lil while ago.Why breh?


EDIT - oh wait you were asking homeboy? My bad