happens every time lolGetting texts 2 days after hitting this Congo girl up talm bout she’s been a little sick and busy with work and away from her phone
I answered simply wishing she feels better and that’s it, but now I feel like I’m at a standstill where if I initiate convo, imma looking begging (mind you, I’m 32 and this chic is 26)
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one of the few women I talk to on a friendship level. She’s very attractive . Started dating this guy a few months ago. Dude been treating her better than any other guy I rememebr
Literally yesterday she was in “love” and today
Literally yesterday she was in “love” and today
Better she walk away then string him along. I’m sure he’s got a bench.one of the few women I talk to on a friendship level. She’s very attractive . Started dating this guy a few months ago. Dude been treating her better than any other guy I rememebr
Literally yesterday she was in “love” and today
Yeah I know just was saying this is how chicks are one day you’re the best next day they getting ready to dispose you.
That’s people in general.
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yup. competition never ends lol
Getting texts 2 days after hitting this Congo girl up talm bout she’s been a little sick and busy with work and away from her phone
I answered simply wishing she feels better and that’s it, but now I feel like I’m at a standstill where if I initiate convo, imma looking begging (mind you, I’m 32 and this chic is 26)
You're doing too much for this one girl. You have no influence, leverage, or power in the situation. You hoping? She sitting there watching Real Love and Hip Hop Kinshasa.
You need to have other chicks in the pipeline to soak up your attention. (making dollars and hitting the gym usually don't hold a man's attention like a female, but if they do....)
Anytime you find yourself hung up on ONE particular chick - it's because you're not dealing with enough chicks.
Chances are very good that your sales funnel is lacking and the marketing needs improvement.
To kill some birds with one stone, Every weekend, you need to be PHYSICALLY in a place with ABUNDANT females.
Might run into a Naija ting that is all business, a Habesha trying to work with you, a Padma, Chun Li or Cammy or Salma Hayek if you draw outside the lines.
Good looking chick in front of you, will refocus your attention away from unresponded to text messages.
Don't let these broads colonize your mind.
What is she not satisfied about, does she want him to pay bills or something?one of the few women I talk to on a friendship level. She’s very attractive . Started dating this guy a few months ago. Dude been treating her better than any other guy I rememebr
Literally yesterday she was in “love” and today
You talkin bout the bars and clubs? You recommend any other spots?
Only you know your city, but
- Brunch
- Church/Spots after church
- Restaurant Openings
- Holiday of the Week
- The Better Mall
- The Better supermarket
- Concerts
- Higher End Bars
- Industry Mixers
But folks should be checking their alternative news paper, examples
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You should be on some promoter's email list.
A man has a social life.
Men used to at least. Internet + Internet dating has all this on the decline. Covid did not help either.
But, as a man, you still gotta do all the damn work, no matter what the barriers are, no matter how hard it is, or in most cases, how inconvenient.
Most dudes DO THE LEAST, and then complain about the results.
You should not be fat, hair cut tight, clothes fit, clothes stylish, good cologne - that's Black Man 101. Lotta cats need to retake it. Damn social promotion.
You should have a car and place to your damn self. (These days, this is much harder, but having this stuff, puts you in a better position than the cats living at home)
You should have some homies to watch the game with. (Not just the dudes you know from Call of Duty)
You should have some female friends that you're not trying to fukk. (Them broads is always brunching.)
You should not be at home on weekend because you don't know where to go. (It's one thing if you're building, or trying to duck hoes, but I don't know where to go is not an excuse)
You should be able to approach, have a little chat.
You should know what the new music is, what the new dances are, the new restaurants, and the news of the day.
This is not even game. This is basic social skills.
Game is kicking some verbals to get at the chick's mental internals, to hit those switches and buttons.
Can't do ANY TYPE OF GAME if you're not regularly talking to people, seeing how they tick, how they react to different conversational topics, etc.
For most Black dudes nailing down the basics of looks and personality + going out will have them DROWNING in females.
Instead, society has bred the "dog" out of most of us, leaving only the Savages, who beget even more Savages
Breh with the gems as usual.Only you know your city, but
- Brunch
- Church/Spots after church
- Restaurant Openings
- Holiday of the Week
- The Better Mall
- The Better supermarket
- Concerts
- Higher End Bars
- Industry Mixers
But folks should be checking their alternative news paper, examples
Home
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You should be on some promoter's email list.
A man has a social life.
Men used to at least. Internet + Internet dating has all this on the decline. Covid did not help either.
But, as a man, you still gotta do all the damn work, no matter what the barriers are, no matter how hard it is, or in most cases, how inconvenient.
Most dudes DO THE LEAST, and then complain about the results.
You should not be fat, hair cut tight, clothes fit, clothes stylish, good cologne - that's Black Man 101. Lotta cats need to retake it. Damn social promotion.
You should have a car and place to your damn self. (These days, this is much harder, but having this stuff, puts you in a better position than the cats living at home)
You should have some homies to watch the game with. (Not just the dudes you know from Call of Duty)
You should have some female friends that you're not trying to fukk. (Them broads is always brunching.)
You should not be at home on weekend because you don't know where to go. (It's one thing if you're building, or trying to duck hoes, but I don't know where to go is not an excuse)
You should be able to approach, have a little chat.
You should know what the new music is, what the new dances are, the new restaurants, and the news of the day.
This is not even game. This is basic social skills.
Game is kicking some verbals to get at the chick's mental internals, to hit those switches and buttons.
Can't do ANY TYPE OF GAME if you're not regularly talking to people, seeing how they tick, how they react to different conversational topics, etc.
For most Black dudes nailing down the basics of looks and personality + going out will have them DROWNING in females.
Instead, society has bred the "dog" out of most of us, leaving only the Savages, who beget even more Savages
Are there any specific brand of clothing you fukk with? Especially kicks?
Breh with the gems as usual.
Are there any specific brand of clothing you fukk with? Especially kicks?
You need to get up to date fashion tips from the young guns.
Cause I think if you're in this age bracket/or want this demo of females, this is the look
These days, I just avoid chicks that dress flashy, logo heavy, etc.
If I can tell what designer purse the chick is with, even if it's lowgrade like Dooney and Bourke, Coach, or Michael Kors - we don't have share the same values. If it's Louis or Gucci - fake or real, it's not energy I want to deal with. If you think Luxury Taste from a broke wallet is bad, it's far worse when the chick has money for that stuff, at least in my experience.
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- Dark Blue Jeans (I might get a pair of selvedge for weekend errands, and I need to get out of my Boot Camp Clik/Wu Tang ideas of "fit" and wear something more fitted...I digress).
- Brown leather shoes - driving moccasins for the summer, chelsea boots for the f/w. I been thinking about leather sneakers, but we'll see.
- Brown leather belt/Brown leather wallet/Brown leather watch band.
- High quality no logo polo.
- Jeans, Brown Leather Shoes/Wallet/Belt
- Hot weather - White dress shirt, open with a t-shirt underneath.
- Cold weather - Cashmere/Merino sweaters
- Same basic Blue & Brown, might swap the Jeans
- Dress shirts that I used to work in are now shirts I go out in
- Swap out the jeans for some wool slacks
- Dress shirts that used to be for work only, now are good enough for the club.
- Leather Jacket + Gloves + and usually a skully for when it really gets cold
Not the sandals though.
This is more my personal style.
Not the loafers though.
In any event, none of these things are about labels.
For me, It's about a look. It's the combination of colors, the silhouette, and the fit. Most of this stuff can be found on Ali Express for pennies on the dollar. It's the same companies sewing for Brooks Brothers, just not as good of a return policy, lol.
COVID/WFH really got me rethinking the style game though. All that money spent over the years for shirts, ties, shoes, and suits I'll probably never wear regularly, and in some cases ever.
Everyone has different takes on this though. This is mine.
All these cats + more are gonna be out and about, and getting attention from women.