Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Why do women reject themselves before attracting the guy?

I honestly think women fear rejection more than men. Most of the "bad bytch" demeanor is just a cover up for low self esteem. Don't let the "ego" fool you. A lot of so-called "pretty" women are highly insecure.

Brehs don't get caught up on it. We're blessed. Blessed that we don't have to sell dreams with makeup and cosmetics ha

Instead of thinking "Does she like me" switch to "I'm just giving this broad a chance. If she fumbles me that's on her"

We're the prize at the end of the day.
 
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Sleepy Floyd said:
Yep they just stand on the edge of the dance floor scared as hell. They don't know they can smash easy if they just ask a chick to dance
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My friend is a Dj was saying the same thing
Trying to get the crowd to dance and mingle
Nothing…lol

The next generation of men are done when it comes to mating
 
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i do all the time. fukked a girl i met on the subway a few weeks ago
i just keep it straight and to the point. "Hey, sorry to bother you but i saw you from over there and thought id come say hello. Whats your name?"
no need to overthink it unless theres something in the environment (her outfit, what shes reading, etc. ) that you can leverage to start a convo
RealCrownHeights said:
Idk if this has been discussed, but do y'all cold approach women on public transportation like on the train etc? Like y'all lock eyes for a couple stops she's smiling. What's some good openings?
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BlueHeffner said:
nah yall brehs overthinking it

Ive seen/known this chick in the gym for over 2+ years now. I had a lady so I wasnt interested like that or anything.

Ffwd to about 2 months ago, we started a dialogue because she was impressed by my deadlift. From there we exchanged names. From there, I saw tell-tale signs of her flirting so that put her on my radar (like it would any man). Eventually we started talking about topics outside the gym (hobbies, vacations, where we live, careers etc).

I got her ig because I had questions about her, and im not going to have a long ass convo in the gym while she trying to workout. She looked young as hell. At one point, i was telling my mans (gym partner) “yo she prolly like 19” so I was curious as hell to know her age and how she move. Me personally, ive never fukked w a chick more than 3 years younger than me so I didnt want to even bother trying to bag this chick if she was as young as I thought.

The DM i sent wasnt even no crazy shyt. I was lit in a club w the homies and I saw she viewed my story so i sent her a message from my story “hey wat you still doing up?” Corny, but this isnt a chick i havent had several conversations with already and i was “comfortable”.

She didnt “see” the message until the morning which I have my doubts because you can still see someone sent u a message on ig but if u dont click it the sender wont know u read it.

It is what it is at this point for me though. Im not gonna stress it. She still watched my stories all weekend and liked my pics and im most likely gna see her in the gym wen i get back in town tmrw. Ill chat w her and tell her my bad for the late text, i was wildin and keep it at that.

I do agree wit yall that now, if i still try and pursue this chick, ill do it in person now
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She aint fukking with you
 
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Was supposed to grab tacos with a chick at 6:30 and after ten mins of waiting i ask if shes nearby. Few mins later she said yes, but she ran into traffic, and mentioned how she'd be another 10-15 mins. I give it a thumbs up on imessage, grab a burrito to go and dip. At 7:09 she's ringing off my phone. :francis:.

Not only was she late, she was even 10 mins later than the 10-15 minute buffer she gave making her 40 mins late lol

Too many men be putting up with this shyt and have these girls thinking they can just show up whenever. We need to stop giving these bytches leeway or else they will never fix up.

www.bustle.com

23 Daters On How Long They’ll Wait If Their First Date Is Running Late

Dating can be anxiety-inducing: what to wear, where to go, will the Bumble date look like their picture, and so on. But what about when a date is late? Should you wait? And how long? When do you bail? After all, sometimes things come up that you…
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Peep how the men in the above article are a lot more lenient while the women are saying they wouldnt wait any more than 20 mins for the most part. It's sad. Men seriously need to stop being punks out here.
 
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