Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Man its crazy, I had been feeling this chick before I left Germany. Now that I've left we still talk over email. I'm just wondering if I'm wasting my time with her even though they're just emails until I can get back to Germany.

 

[Astroslik]

I'm a longtime lurker and I visit this thread, straight gems being posted.

 

[Medio]

Man its crazy, I had been feeling this chick before I left Germany. Now that I've left we still talk over email. I'm just wondering if I'm wasting my time with her even though they're just emails until I can get back to Germany.

yea you're wasting valuable time unless you two plan on living in the same city in the future there's really no point of talking, unless you enjoy having a pen pal and friend to keep in touch with, then go ahead.

 

[bl2k8]

it's probably like you said. she just loves the attention and is trying to see how far she can take it.it's also possible she's feeling you...

True I haven't even text her back today. She was the one to have hella male friends and I found out that alot of em would smash too, so when I she got engaged I was like My gut is sayin to leave that shyt alone but I been wanting to smash for like a year now

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

yea you're wasting valuable time unless you two plan on living in the same city in the future there's really no point of talking, unless you enjoy having a pen pal and friend to keep in touch with, then go ahead.

I plan on moving to Germany relatively soon. I'm as far as the same town, idk about that. I do enjoy keeping in touch, but eh I feel like if we ain't building something then lets not keep in touch. She wants to write letters and be pen pals and shyt, seems like she's more interested in communicating than I am. For example we exchanged emails the last day I was there. I was going to write her when I got home, but once I got home she had already written an email to me. Last email I got from her was asking when I'd be back in a subliminal way and how she wishes I was there so we could walk together.

As far as my life in America, I'm keeping things moving, I enjoy talking to her because she's not here, I don't get distracted, have to put up with bullshyt, I can just focus on me and getting my shyt done so I can move to Germany. Maybe I should just disregard the attention from a female altogether and just do my shyt without any thoughts of companionship or anything else. I dunno the thoughts just come up randomly at times like the "I miss her" feeling comes around, but it's not so strong so I can shake it off.

 

[Oye]

I've come to the conclusion my standards are almost unrealistically high. I lose interest in almost every woman I talk to after about a month and any flaw just has me out the door. Getting women isn't an issue for me and I know exactly what I want but am having trouble finding it. It's weird I'd like a wife and kids but the longer I'm single the more I enjoy being alone.

 

[kevm3]

True I haven't even text her back today. She was the one to have hella male friends and I found out that alot of em would smash too, so when I she got engaged I was like My gut is sayin to leave that shyt alone but I been wanting to smash for like a year now

Now that you brought that information into the equation, you better definitely leave that alone... your gut is even telling you to back up off it.

 

[Soundbwoy]

I've come to the conclusion my standards are almost unrealistically high. I lose interest in almost every woman I talk to after about a month and any flaw just has me out the door. Getting women isn't an issue for me and I know exactly what I want but am having trouble finding it. It's weird I'd like a wife and kids but the longer I'm single the more I enjoy being alone.

Im feeling the same way but the problem is that I realized that I missed out on a few good ones Im not trying to make that mistake again

 

[Astroslik]

Anyone have a problem with throwing girls to the bushes to quickly? if i feel no sign of progression i immediately delete their number


But my roster is depleted right now and school is coming up and I'll be studying for grad school exams but I cant have any distractions, but I want to smash consistently I'm the type of nikka that gets easily sidetracked and distracted by new p*ssy, my grades went up last semester while I was focusing on school and no new bytches But i'm 21 so my testosterone is going nuts (pause)

 

[Turbulent]

Anyone have a problem with throwing girls to the bushes to quickly? if i feel no sign of progression i immediately delete their number


But my roster is depleted right now and school is coming up and I'll be studying for grad school exams but I cant have any distractions, but I want to smash consistently I'm the type of nikka that gets easily sidetracked and distracted by new p*ssy, my grades went up last semester while I was focusing on school and no new bytches But i'm 21 so my testosterone is going nuts (pause)

focus on the books and if they need to be thrown in the bushes leave them in the bushes. either one (or a couple) will accept the role of no-drama cut buddy or you'll simply have no chicks and be able to focus on the books. Either way you win

 

[DreadHead P]

Closing a chapter in me life. Me and the chick I been off and on wit since 07 decided to end it (again) and I honestly don't see myself doubling back again in the future. Shyts kinda hard cause I do love her we just can't be together. We're too different, we want completely different things in life, we have 2 opposite views on how relationships are supposed to be maintained, etc, we're just too different and that causes us to bump heads, I can't allow us to continue to live like that. Don't really know how to begin the process of gettin over her and gettin her out of my mind but it needs to happen soon

 

[Turbulent]

Closing a chapter in me life. Me and the chick I been off and on wit since 07 decided to end it (again) and I honestly don't see myself doubling back again in the future. Shyts kinda hard cause I do love her we just can't be together. We're too different, we want completely different things in life, we have 2 opposite views on how relationships are supposed to be maintained, etc, we're just too different and that causes us to bump heads, I can't allow us to continue to live like that. Don't really know how to begin the process of gettin over her and gettin her out of my mind but it needs to happen soon

family, friends (the real ones), focus on your dreams and passions, hobbies, exercise, eat good, DO NOT stay in contact with her even if she tries to guilt you into it. if she tries, tell her once respectfully that you need some time alone and that you don't want to stay in contact with her (but in a respectful way). if she tries to insist, don't even reply past that. keep your head up breh

 

[MikelArteta]

Closing a chapter in me life. Me and the chick I been off and on wit since 07 decided to end it (again) and I honestly don't see myself doubling back again in the future. Shyts kinda hard cause I do love her we just can't be together. We're too different, we want completely different things in life, we have 2 opposite views on how relationships are supposed to be maintained, etc, we're just too different and that causes us to bump heads, I can't allow us to continue to live like that. Don't really know how to begin the process of gettin over her and gettin her out of my mind but it needs to happen soon

first few days, weeks, maybe even months are hard

cutting contact, getting rid of reminders and leaning on your friends and family is the best thing you can do. its a hard road but you get over it.

if you can id recommend you go away even for a weekend just clear your head, six years is a long time my longest relationship was 3 years and it took me nearly 4 years to get over it.

 

[MikelArteta]

anyways brehs im going to start a blog!!

 

[Astroslik]

focus on the books and if they need to be thrown in the bushes leave them in the bushes. either one (or a couple) will accept the role of no-drama cut buddy or you'll simply have no chicks and be able to focus on the books. Either way you win

It's hard to go on a drought bruh, a nikka like me would go crazy/get irritated

And i dont watch porn like that, i quit after me not being able to bust when i was smashing a broad