women can *juelz* anything boy I tell ya
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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women can *juelz* anything boy I tell ya
The second one is a good thing
She isn't necessarily lying DEPENDING on how her roster looks...
maybe but she definitely taking advantage of free dinner/dates and other things
Some respectable women will talk to multiple nikkas but the first nikka who hit the skins good is the one she gonna rock with and she'll cut everybody else off
one of my boys was just complaining this week that someone he keeps taking out, isn't sleeping with him
It's not an easy convo to have, but I told him, just have that conversation, instead of being stuck in a loop of mutually frustrating expectations
part of this is all wrapped up in weird gender norms, but also food, the idea of dinners, and this formal, ritualistic approach to sex. The best way to organically get close to someone is to spend an hour or three, whatever, somewhere private, talking. You can add music, or light food and drinks, but keep the focus on just connection, without all the pretenses of dinner dates.
so much of these norms that may be discussed and analyzed on twitter or in private group chats, aren't talked about directly, between the people.
It's not an easy convo to have, but I told him, just have that conversation, instead of being stuck in a loop of mutually frustrating expectations
part of this is all wrapped up in weird gender norms, but also food, the idea of dinners, and this formal, ritualistic approach to sex. The best way to organically get close to someone is to spend an hour or three, whatever, somewhere private, talking. You can add music, or light food and drinks, but keep the focus on just connection, without all the pretenses of dinner dates.
so much of these norms that may be discussed and analyzed on twitter or in private group chats, aren't talked about directly, between the people.
I can't knock it..
These nikkas be down payment tricks
Like FOH
He already knows the answer...she just not feeling it
In general, if I'm expecting sex, she is either a vet or thats her slated occupation
He already knows the answer...she just not feeling it
In general, if I'm expecting sex, she is either a vet or thats her slated occupation
In that instance, or in many, she is really feeling him, he's a super player, dude looks like a pop star or something
BUT
he has a bad reputation, so she is likely looking for more commitment/effort
and here's where it all gets weird, when I would lose interest, is when it becomes if you do ____X___, I'll sleep with you. Which makes it not a mutually desirable thing, but yeah don't keep going on dinner dates, expecting things to happen, it just becomes a frustrating feedback loop
been there too, even if I like the person, and she likes me, sometimes you have to just put it all out there. In this case, gave her some expensive lingerie and said I want to see you in this, lets take it slow, and just see where we end up, (sexually, it doesn't have to be all now) but we have to stop this avoidant shyt and she said it would take her a long time to think about having sex with someone outside of a serious relationship, (yes she's telling the truth, she lives with her family and is very conservative) and I said take your time. but at least we moved past that.
If he’s a super player why is he constantly taking her out? Sounds like he should have saved the $ and just went with rest of his roster.
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Big Yella
imo you do this to compliment someone's accessories or sumsometimes you just got to give throw drive-by compliments.
I was at the liquor store yesterday and some chic had one of em electric skateboards so I told her "dope board" while I cashed out
telling strangers how emphatically beautiful they are in-passing is kinda weird to me i unno
Probably validation, and the pursuit, he was on Facetime with me and my homie ranting about it lol WHY AM I DOING THIS
most of the men I have known who are like that, they tend to seek validation from others, display high amounts of confidence, but seek external validation from women, among other things, and have pretty low maturity and emotional intelligence. Outside of like chaotic one night stands, don't really know how to relate to others, or have mature conversations.
and obviously the idea, that 9/10 times, after he does sleep with one, he will block them and never talk to them