Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Balla]

This is a 3rd rail topic, probably bigger than To PAWG or Not to PAWG.

I'd say 80% of Black Dudes are on some "bytch can't get a dolla out of me".
And 80% of Black Females are on some "Bills, Bills, Bills"/"Broke ninjas don't deserve no "

The topic got so many factors, history, implications, that I just don't even deal with it anymore.

There's an explicit and implicit "paying for the P" mentality that both sides have - and given Black people's dire economic straits - both think that they're trying to get over on the other....

And somehow neither side sees this as problematic...

It’s not really that I’m tryna get over on a chick, it’s just I’d rather do what I want. I don’t do dinner dates unless I’m with the chick.

Sometimes I take them out, sometimes they come straight to the crib.

I don’t really have hard rules. I just don’t like the mentality that I have to wine and dine or have to spend a lot on a date with a chick I barely even know.

Plus mad chicks I’ve talked to have clowned nikkas that paid for them on dates and shyt.

But say breh, you be giving good advice.

What kinds of dates you usually take chicks on and how much you usually spend?

 

[International Playa]

I had an amazing date this weekend. Shawty is African, same country as me, speak same languages as me. She was dressed to impress, had her hair done & nice slim body with nice curves (Im DONE with out of shape, overweight, BBW etc women).

We explored the city, done some activities & went to a few bars. She offered to pay for some activities & drinks. Convo was effortlessly had a great time, dropped her off home. By the time I got home she had already texted me she excited to see me again. Its so refreshing to meet women who put effort to impress you, excited about you with no attitude.

If things go well, I might cut off my rotation for this one. The other 2 women in my rotation are either so negative, always complaining or got attitude

 

[The ADD]

I had an amazing date this weekend. Shawty is African, same country as me, speak same languages as me. She was dressed to impress, had her hair done & nice slim body with nice curves (Im DONE with out of shape, overweight, BBW etc women).

We explored the city, done some activities & went to a few bars. She offered to pay for some activities & drinks. Convo was effortlessly had a great time, dropped her off home. By the time I got home she had already texted me she excited to see me again. Its so refreshing to meet women who put effort to impress you, excited about you with no attitude.

If things go well, I might cut off my rotation for this one. The other 2 women in my rotation are either so negative, always complaining or got attitude

Sounds like you need to cut them off regardless

 

[MikelArteta]

By the time I got home she had already texted me she excited to see me again. Its so refreshing to meet women who put effort to impress you, excited about you with no attitude.

The way it should be.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Sounds like you need to cut them off regardless

Exactly

 

[VertigoKnight]

Sounds like you need to cut them off regardless

Indeed. A roster is supposed to be a positive gain and add to your life. With some peace of mind.

A chick being negative, complaining or coming with an attitude. Sheesh.

I'd wish her the best and KIM

 

[Ahadi]

It’s not really that I’m tryna get over on a chick, it’s just I’d rather do what I want. I don’t do dinner dates unless I’m with the chick.

Sometimes I take them out, sometimes they come straight to the crib.

I don’t really have hard rules. I just don’t like the mentality that I have to wine and dine or have to spend a lot on a date with a chick I barely even know.

Plus mad chicks I’ve talked to have clowned nikkas that paid for them on dates and shyt.

But say breh, you be giving good advice.

What kinds of dates you usually take chicks on and how much you usually spend?

Looks like you’re doing it right already.

Don’t plan anything extraordinary. Keep it simple. Women today DO NOT LIKE “pressure” or feeling “pressured”, don’t expect anything.

If you’re going to something bigger like a concert / Event for yourself, you can invite her along, only if SHE has proven herself.

Otherwise, it’s crib, happy hour drinks, coffee, ice cream within a 5 mile radius of my place & kicking her out after. MAYBE Uber eats, after I’ve smashed. (With promo of course)

 

[The ADD]

Looks like you’re doing it right already.

Don’t plan anything extraordinary. Keep it simple. Women today DO NOT LIKE “pressure” or feeling “pressured”, don’t expect anything.

If you’re going to something bigger like a concert / Event for yourself, you can invite her along, only if SHE has proven herself.

Otherwise, it’s crib, happy hour drinks, coffee, ice cream within a 5 mile radius of my place & kicking her out after. MAYBE Uber eats, after I’ve smashed. (With promo of course)

 

[Rasille]

Women be mad as hell about their platonic friends having feelings for them.

 

[Amo Husserl]

This is unacceptable.

 

[The ADD]

This is unacceptable.

 

[MikelArteta]

Women be mad as hell about their platonic friends having feelings for them.

if a guy isn't homosexual he's gasp going to like you

 

[Black Excellence]

Women really think you gay if you approach them on some regular platonic shyt and not try to pursue them…this shyt is crazy.

A bytch with a fat ass at the gym I been chopping it up with thought that as well as this chick from my job. The entitlement is kinda scary.

 

[The ADD]

Women really think you gay if you approach them on some regular platonic shyt and not try to pursue them…this shyt is crazy.

A bytch with a fat ass at the gym I been chopping it up with thought that as well as this chick from my job. The entitlement is kinda scary.

Define platonic:

1. Making small talk
2. Setting up hangouts

 

[Black Excellence]

Define platonic:

1. Making small talk
2. Setting up hangouts

I’d say it was both of those. Talking about life, working out together, linking up for hiking/bike rides. I just saw them as attractive and that’s it.

For me, you gotta have something more than that to get me to pursue.

There’s beautiful women everywhere, fukk makes you so special?