Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

Me! I guess I can understand why someone wouldn't, maybe just a difference in values. Lot of the kinds of ideologies being expressed are like old testament esque lol and that's cool, but not everyone thinks that way. If someone is attractive and cool enough, that's all I care about.

I know the other ones, too, the church ones, the "good ones" the career ones, the highly responsible and sometimes too tightly wound ones.

Also really depends on how you define friends.

 

[Deathstroke]

My girl confronted me about my ig follows. I have quite a lot of baddies following me , liking my pics and I follow them back. What should I do ? I acknowledge her feelings and told her I’d work on that but what do you guys think ? Should I unfollow them? I do care about her a lot.

 

[Apollo Creed]

My girl confronted me about my ig follows. I have quite a lot of baddies following me , liking my pics and I follow them back. What should I do ? I acknowledge her feelings and told her I’d work on that but what do you guys think ? Should I unfollow them? I do care about her a lot.

break up

 

[Apollo Creed]

Also really depends on how you define friends.

To me being cool with folks = associates.

I think people use the term friend loosely.

 

[The ADD]

break up

 

[The ADD]

To me being cool with folks = associates.

I think people use the term friend loosely.

Agreed

 

[Ahadi]

He’s right

 

[Ohene]

Platonic friendships can work if there are no attraction between the two people. If one has feelings for the other then it won’t work. The difference is men 9/10 will still smash even if he’s not feeling her on that level, then she’ll grow resentment once it’s clear it won’t move beyond this stage. For women she simply won’t fukk you, then the man will grow resentment because she doesn’t see him that way.

i have a couple friends i honestly dont think id fukk despite them being attractive

one of them is very good looking. have known her for ten years. i kinda sagged off her cause she had zero ass and was built like a boy down there. despite her getting a BBL i think were probably still better as friends lol. she could ask me to fukk right now and i would pass.

Being friends with women, you get to meet their friends and a solid reference already. Doesn't mean you can NEVER go further. Or that you have to sleep with every woman you meet, or they are worthless. Have friends that are strippers and club girls, I meet their friends all the time.

People's black and white thinking always surprises me.

would admit that all my friends are attractive, and always very attractive to me, and I am sure this is mutual, but sometimes the sexual chemistry isn't right, sometimes the personalities aren't a match, I know a few that are bad, and like me, but I can already see it being a headache, because they are invested in commitment, or whatever. Sometimes it happens later.

totally understand what he is saying with "platonic" friends to a degree.

i agree with this

 

[Ohene]

Tbh most single women want to be approached respectfully

Not yelling from the car

nah it doesnt matter. if they arent attracted to you , you are no different from the man in the car lol

 

[WIA20XX]

My girl confronted me about my ig follows. I have quite a lot of baddies following me , liking my pics and I follow them back. What should I do ? I acknowledge her feelings and told her I’d work on that but what do you guys think ? Should I unfollow them? I do care about her a lot.

Get more followers.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

nah it doesnt matter. if they arent attracted to you , you are no different from the man in the car lol

It’s always been like that
Nothing has changed
Still a numbers game unless u just wanna stick to online dating

 

[Ohene]

It’s always been like that
Nothing has changed
Still a numbers game unless u just wanna stick to online dating

i didnt say it was diff in the past did i? my bad if i did

i agree its been like that

what ill say though is women have more options now than they ever did so theyre pickier. im not whining about it, was just responding to the IG post which complained about online dating. if youre the average man, why waste time, energy and money to be around women and subject yourself to rejection at such a high pace when you can just talk to them online?

i say this as somebody who only cold approaches and has fukked more women than probably 90% of men out there.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

i didnt say it was diff in the past did i? my bad if i did

i agree its been like that

what ill say though is women have more options now than they ever did so theyre pickier. im not whining about it, was just responding to the IG post

This is true
It’s not even moreso option of men they can actually date or meet

It’s the amount of attention their getting from all over the place is ridiculous. women under 27 seems like have attention span under 10sec
Social media won

 

[Apollo Creed]

i didnt say it was diff in the past did i? my bad if i did

i agree its been like that

what ill say though is women have more options now than they ever did so theyre pickier. im not whining about it, was just responding to the IG post which complained about online dating. if youre the average man, why waste time, energy and money to be around women and subject yourself to rejection at such a high pace when you can just talk to them online?

i say this as somebody who only cold approaches and has fukked more women than probably 90% of men out there.

Dudes rarely self examine themselves and play to their strengths. You gotta know your strengths + the market and go to where the numbers are in your favor.

Its one breh in here that stays with the PAAGs and I remember someone asking for tips for PAAGs but the context is dude is in a city with a large number thus he has a diverse pool of them compared to a city where the numbers may not be in your favor thus you may be stuck with asian chicks who stick to their own + white boys. And most dudes don't work on themselves to the point where they can get chicks to go against the grain because of them having universal attractiveness (something most men do not have).

 

[Capitol]

Dudes rarely self examine themselves and play to their strengths. You gotta know your strengths + the market and go to where the numbers are in your favor.

Its one breh in here that stays with the PAAGs and I remember someone asking for tips for PAAGs but the context is dude is in a city with a large number thus he has a diverse pool of them compared to a city where the numbers may not be in your favor thus you may be stuck with asian chicks who stick to their own + white boys. And most dudes don't work on themselves to the point where they can get chicks to go against the grain because of them having universal attractiveness (something most men do not have).

Not even trolling but can you give an example of playing to your strengths. I don't even think about shyt like this and thus I live in a desert