I'd catorgirze things as Looks/Finance/Personality
Looks and Personality are more nuanced and you can argue have sub categories (especially looks).
With looks you can be handsome but not a chicks "type" if that makes sense.
So you gotta figure out your strengths and then go after the market it caters too. Sometimes you may notice a "theme" when it comes to the chicks you have luck with and you can argue that is your base market (lotta dudes who ever may not be happy with their target market thus they gotta work on improving, but that still don't mean you can pull a so called "dime").
It’s going to feel normal if you do this at social eventsi'm at a point where i feel like a herb approaching women on that numbers game shyt
call it egotistical, but why give women who aint even on your level lookswise, financially, intellectually etc a chance to reject you, just in hopes of smashing? it doesnt make any sense. futhermore, while one might be perfectly fine and desensitized to rejection, over time that shyt can kill your spirit if its at a high volume even if you are still getting a decent amount of success.
its time to be a lot more selective
a shorty told me yesterday that a lot of women are approaching men nowIt’s going to feel normal if you do this at social events
Yes ..not direct approach but moreso put themselves in position where men can talk to them lola shorty told me yesterday that a lot of women are approaching men now
do you see this happening at social events? i dont go out like that; i was mad surprised to hear it lol
usually host monthly party events that’s centred around a theme ill keep it in mind stillYes ..not direct approach but moreso put themselves in position where men can talk to them lol
The 28-35 crowd I’m referring to
The rare time they do step out…they trying to meet someone
Check the eventbrite for events in ur city
Every museumsusually host monthly party events that’s centred around a theme
Best place to meet the career attractive women..and there is a heavy dress code so
And the events usually go from like 8pm to 12am
Lol Women desperate for relationshipill keep it in mind still
she was saying direct approach though...literally asking if a dude was a her man and then stepping to him lol
Level Lookswise?i'm at a point where i feel like a herb approaching women on that numbers game shyt
call it egotistical, but why give women who aint even on your level lookswise, financially, intellectually etc a chance to reject you, just in hopes of smashing? it doesnt make any sense. futhermore, while one might be perfectly fine and desensitized to rejection, over time that shyt can kill your spirit if its at a high volume even if you are still getting a decent amount of success.
its time to be a lot more selective
I interpreted as approaching women he doesn’t believe are as attractive as he deems himself to beLevel Lookswise?

That’s what I took it as but didn’t want to jump to a conclusionI interpreted as approaching women he doesn’t believe are as attractive as he deems himself to be
But the question is why would a gentleman approach a woman he deems not as attractive as himself![]()
shiiiit why you approaching women you aint attracted to?i'm at a point where i feel like a herb approaching women on that numbers game shyt
call it egotistical, but why give women who aint even on your level lookswise, financially, intellectually etc a chance to reject you, just in hopes of smashing? it doesnt make any sense. futhermore, while one might be perfectly fine and desensitized to rejection, over time that shyt can kill your spirit if its at a high volume even if you are still getting a decent amount of success.
its time to be a lot more selective
. I have a whole career, education, family, life with interest what the fukk was I thinking sometimes. I have upped my selection game big time in the last 2 years.I know in my case when I would approach chicks that were below me it was because I really just wanted to buss a nut especially if they had some physical trait that made them fukkable…now tho?shiiiit why you approaching women you aint attracted to?
but I feel you on the rest of this. Sometimes I sit back and think like damn I really let a bartender(or some shyt like this) stress me out because she was cute. I have a whole career, education, family, life with interest what the fukk was I thinking sometimes.