Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Preaching



Whenever I got work in a new city, there’s always a hint of excitement “what are you here for Work?”

Or vice versa, if she’s visiting my city for a concert, she’ll hook up with me, do the nastiest ish, and pretend it didn’t happen

Honestly this is why living in nyc or any major city is a win

U always gonna run into tourist or new chicks who just moved in


Can you do that in Memphis or mobile Alabama ,?? Hell no

 

[The ADD]

 

[Ohene]

This is why I have said due to society changing and women being even more anti social than ever (most chicks can't hold convo for shyt so even being charming can go over their heads), dudes need to find purpose in things outside of sex and while actually living a life of meaning you interact with people along that journey.

The days of "hunting" are over unless you are universally attractive or going to trick your ass off (unless looks don't matter to you) and most dudes aint built for it.

lot of truth here especially the bolded

 

[africngiant]

yeah Austin gets traction because woman will think he is attractive, but he can't "keep"/"maintain" because he is a weirdo.

Most nikkas cry about actually pulling a chick lol Maintaining a situation is a whole diff convo that most men can't even handle which is why these women are terrorizing lotta dudes.

In the past you at least could get your experience of taking Ls in High School and College or at worst you were a dude who got married early and divorced early and then you learned from all of this, but nowadays folks are just having empty sex so the folks who can't even get casual One night stands are going to be in over their head with maintaining rosters, being charming, etc.

This is why I have said due to society changing and women being even more anti social than ever (most chicks can't hold convo for shyt so even being charming can go over their heads), dudes need to find purpose in things outside of sex and while actually living a life of meaning you interact with people along that journey.

The days of "hunting" are over unless you are universally attractive or going to trick your ass off (unless looks don't matter to you) and most dudes aint built for it.

im about to start tricking it is making my life miserable. sitting here doing nothing all day

 

[The ADD]

im about to start tricking it is making my life miserable. sitting here doing nothing all day

 

[africngiant]

it’s no point in waiting anymore breh. just me personally, ive been wasting my social life and dating life with constant cope and bytching. fear of rejection. i gotta get my urges out. it consumes too much time and space in my mind. might as well finally live my life a lil and stop being a bytch.

anyone have a guide to this so i stop wasting my time?

 

[360dagod]

it’s no point in waiting anymore breh. just me personally, ive been wasting my social life and dating life with constant cope and bytching. fear of rejection. i gotta get my urges out. it consumes too much time and space in my mind. might as well finally live my life a lil and stop being a bytch.

anyone have a guide to this so i stop wasting my time?

Honestly...

You would do better to find the root of the issue...

I think your mind is "cluttered" and you lack "clarity"...

Coping=past
Fear=future

Your not living in the present..

Don't ask me how I came up with this

Tricking will be a temporary fix

But long-term, you need to find somewhere dark and turn off all sound...

Be real with yourself and start clearing your mind...

You won't develop full clarity overnight, but it's about building blocks to be as comfortable as possible with yourself no matter if a female says yes or no...

 

[Ahadi]

it’s no point in waiting anymore breh. just me personally, ive been wasting my social life and dating life with constant cope and bytching. fear of rejection. i gotta get my urges out. it consumes too much time and space in my mind. might as well finally live my life a lil and stop being a bytch.

anyone have a guide to this so i stop wasting my time?

Therapy & focus on building self

 

[Digital Omen]

Yeah ATL, Miami, Vegas, etc are a waste of time. There is a lane to smash tourist chicks if you have alotta free time on your hand but i rather get money and travel lol

All of the "Boss Chick" cities are trash. You can smash them same hoes when they vacation to the other Boss Chick Cities/Vegas/Tulum/etc for way less effort.

Chicks play by diff rules when you actually live in their city if that makes sense, because they know there is always a lingering aura of shame, but when chicks know they have little chance of seeing you ever again they change up the rules lol. Chicks "don't count" the bodies of dudes they don't ever have to see again which is why they often ghost ONS to forget the shame.

The game down here has always been like this. Local girls are wifey material cuz you grew up together, you high school sweethearts, and you treat her as such. But then when the nightlife calls, you both take a break to get the party shyt off. That's where you bag out of towners at the club and of course it doesn't count if it's in another time zone/state/zip code whatever,,,Miami is strong on the party girl circuit. They all gotta get the boat shot and the IG flex.

The late 90s/early 2000s were my football numbers era. I ate very well during Ultra/WMC week...just copious amounts of nice slim thick alt/hipster/druggie/artist/trust funder/bohemian broads from all over the world. I was in the circuit too. One week I'm bagging a German broad at APT in NYC, the next I'm at a rave in Central Florida making out with a girl trippin balls.

Once you're done with all that, you get out the game and have some kids with wifey. Most marry and move on. The new generation takes over and the game continues same as it ever was.

 

[Apollo Creed]

The game down here has always been like this. Local girls are wifey material cuz you grew up together, you high school sweethearts, and you treat her as such. But then when the nightlife calls, you both take a break to get the party shyt off. That's where you bag out of towners at the club and of course it doesn't count if it's in another time zone/state/zip code whatever,,,Miami is strong on the party girl circuit. They all gotta get the boat shot and the IG flex.

The late 90s/early 2000s were my football numbers era. I ate very well during Ultra/WMC week...just copious amounts of nice slim thick alt/hipster/druggie/artist/trust funder/bohemian broads from all over the world. I was in the circuit too. One week I'm bagging a German broad at APT in NYC, the next I'm at a rave in Central Florida making out with a girl trippin balls.

Once you're done with all that, you get out the game and have some kids with wifey. Most marry and move on. The new generation takes over and the game continues same as it ever was.

the issue is the fukkery now is documented at levels not seen before paired with folks having FOMO thus never wanting to retire the constant I have options via social media also deaded the settle down phase too lol

 

[africngiant]

Therapy & focus on building self

it’s honestly impossible to be happy when you get no bytches and you’re constantly reminded of it

Honestly...

You would do better to find the root of the issue...

I think your mind is "cluttered" and you lack "clarity"...

Coping=past
Fear=future

Your not living in the present..

Don't ask me how I came up with this

Tricking will be a temporary fix

But long-term, you need to find somewhere dark and turn off all sound...

Be real with yourself and start clearing your mind...

You won't develop full clarity overnight, but it's about building blocks to be as comfortable as possible with yourself no matter if a female says yes or no...

i don’t think i can be comfortable im a lost cause. i meditate all the time but it doesn’t do anything. i always expect myself to fukk up before i even enter a social situation. it’s all good im just venting, i don’t necessarily need a solution. how do you go about tricking tho?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

@africngiant you being 6ft+ and Nigerian should of been enough but alas, we are here

Wish you the best breh. Get tested often and make sure to budget ya funds

 

[africngiant]

@africngiant you being 6ft+ and Nigerian should of been enough but alas, we are here

Wish you the best breh. Get tested often and make sure to budget ya funds

you can still be a loser midget outside of that but i appreciate it breh

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[Ahadi]

Yo.... wait a minute.

What?