Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Unless it’s of course a “corporate” environment, they know how to make conversation with Joe & Bill.

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The jokes all of a sudden a little funnier.. follow-up questions to simple shyt are asked.. she the most engaged during the quick trivia time/small talk before the formal meeting starts

Man let me stop lmao
 

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Looks do play a major role into attraction. Looks isn't just face but also body game. Sex appeal = muscular frame. Your body language. Check your posture always keep your head upward never downward. Looking up implies confidence. Looking down implies defeatism. Remember, we're kings over here. fukk that "woe is me" shyt. Adopt a little cockiness and swag to your personality. Women say they hate cocky dudes but it's all cap. They get wet from the cockiness.

Women go crazy for social status. Think of the biggest celebrities such as actors, singers, rappers, athletes, business men, influencers, people of notoriety in general.

Having clout means importance in society. We know women are mostly hive minded. They eat up what's promoted in the media. The more clout a person has, the better odds of survival. Having the means to producing a quality life. Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically. Hypergamy effect.

Clout is easy to gain. Providing value is how you get value. For my social media brehs, just copping a blue check is enough for these broads.

Passion. Why is passion in general so attractive? Passion shows how enthusiastic and committed a person is towards their craft. We know women are emotional creatures by default. They get turned on when a man is being unapologetically himself doing what he does best. Passion can about almost anything. It's the drive that makes results.

Me personally, one of my passions is art. Playing music instruments, dancing, poetry, drawing and poetry. Not gonna lie, I attracted a lot of broads from dancing in my 20's and teens.

I was dancing like 2pac back when he was in Digital Underground

Did I look silly af? Yeah:pachaha:However, it was the raw confidence I exuded that captivated them.

The less you overthink about situations, the more present you become in those situations. fukk anxiety, that shyt is a whole mood killer.

There shouldn't be any reason why men should be scared to approach women. No man should have the mentality "Does she like me" Flip the script to "I'm just giving this broad a chance to fukk with me. If she fumbles me, she foolish" Listen brehs, you already know what you bring to the table. NEVER explain yourself to a broad. Women want what they can't have.


In this era, Gen Z don't really have the social skills to sustain the attraction. A lot of these Gen Z broads don't know how to talk. That's where our leadership skills come in. As a man, one of biggest assets is assertiveness and making rational decisions. Literally you have to train these broads cause a lot of them really be passive.

Need to read this, especially about the overthinking part. I get in a habit of overthinking shyt when I'm around a group of people
 

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Women are weird as hell, this black girl, one of the managers at my job randomly texted me out of the blue yesterday….when I never gave her my number. I thought it was for work purposes but apparently the hoe quit so she was definitely tryna get at me. These hoes everywhere I work always be on some weird as shyt man.

But that shyt is creepy asl to me:dahell: most of my generation has such a hard time initiating in person smh. But I would’ve turned her anyway tho, I got a girl.
 

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I find that all my platonic friends fall off when women get a man........so in the end, they're really just place holders.

Sure, but some of that is basically the ebb and flow of all friendships and relationships, and everyone is going to have different and conflicting ideas about these things.

Some of my friends, male, are married, have kids, have a wife, we barely see each other, but I don't discontinue the friendship, or downgrade it like a stock buy.

and basically, if someone makes you feel good, and reflects your good qualities back to you, that is friendship. Doesn't need to have this strict, granular set of standards, but that's for me.

read a whole profile on male/female friendships in the NY Times, and there's all kinds of very sensible reasons why they are difficult to maintain, one, because we both tend to chose people we are attracted to, and two, because women tend to chose men who are seen as financially more stable, so maintaining the exact friendship you had while single, isn't always possible, because on some level we ARE picking people who are back ups.
 

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Women are weird as hell, this black girl, one of the managers at my job randomly texted me out of the blue yesterday….when I never gave her my number. I thought it was for work purposes but apparently the hoe quit so she was definitely tryna get at me. These hoes everywhere I work always be on some weird as shyt man.

But that shyt is creepy asl to me:dahell: most of my generation has such a hard time initiating in person smh. But I would’ve turned her anyway tho, I got a girl.
Are you not black?
 

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Maan u gotta unapologetically love yourself first

2nd your 6”1 and Nigerian ..u shouldn’t struggle
What city you live at ? Maybe u need to move
And find your tribe (Nigerian women)
im from rural pa, 45 minutes out of philly.

some of it might be my environment but really it comes down to me. im a robot with little to no joy, interests, opinions, or desire to further communicate and look or sound stupid

i just put on a front when i need to
 

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Accountant…you can find a job in any city
Start a 6months plan and get the heck out of dusty PA

And your issues have nothing to do with women
It makes sense now
im gonna start a new life then start tricking i can’t be saved.

i remember when i used to be somewhat normal but i can’t really do much to change back im too old now. im always unsettled

thanks for the neg @SPACE IS FAKE

if we had to fight for our lives i would turn you into scraps to feed my family nbs
 

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im gonna start a new life then start tricking i can’t be saved.

i remember when i used to be somewhat normal but i can’t really do much to change back im too old now. im always unsettled

thanks for the neg @SPACE IS FAKE

if we had to fight for our lives i would turn you into scraps to feed my family nbs
After the first few sex session..u still gonna feel the same way ..but good luck in ur tricking journey
 

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54k+bonus as an entry level staff accountant
how old are you

to be honest when i graduated from school i was making $35K as a general acct for best buy. Joined a big 4 accounting firm as an account was making 57K
Then 2 years later I joined the transaction services team in the group but was only making like 65-70K cause i was an internal hire.

Anyways...4-5 years after that I now work in private credit and I may a base of $160K. My bonus last year was around 80% + another 100% bonus thats deferred (with 35% of the accumulated deferred bonus being paid in cash every year). This year I'll be getting two thirds of the bonus that is in arrears.

So lets call it $375K and $400-450K next year due to the deferred bonus thing

10 years and I literally more than decupled my annual earnings. I am at a point where I gotta find ways to pay less taxes.

I say this to say, dont give in. Work on your self and level up. It is very possible. Why are you not able to get women? Do you lack confidence? Are you ugly? Do you live in a trash city? Help me understand lol.
 

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54k+bonus as an entry level staff accountant

Accountant…you can find a job in any city
Start a 6months plan and get the heck out of dusty PA

And your issues have nothing to do with women
It makes sense now

Right. OP Problem is confidence. The easiest way to get your confidence up is get your bread up. Do you have the basics of life in place? Do you live by yourself?, do your have a car?, are you in shape?, can you fight?, do you own a firearm and know how to defend yourself?, do you have an emergency fund? Do you have a network outside of women you just trying to get p*ssy from? Do you have hobbies outside of TV? What can you teach a woman? How is a woman life better with you in it?
 

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how old are you

to be honest when i graduated from school i was making $35K as a general acct for best buy. Joined a big 4 accounting firm as an account was making 57K
Then 2 years later I joined the transaction services team in the group but was only making like 65-70K cause i was an internal hire.

Anyways...4-5 years after that I now work in private credit and I may a base of $160K. My bonus last year was around 80% + another 100% bonus thats deferred (with 35% of the accumulated deferred bonus being paid in cash every year). This year I'll be getting two thirds of the bonus that is in arrears.

So lets call it $375K and $400-450K next year due to the deferred bonus thing

10 years and I literally more than decupled my annual earnings. I am at a point where I gotta find ways to pay less taxes.

I say this to say, dont give in. Work on your self and level up. It is very possible. Why are you not able to get women? Do you lack confidence? Are you ugly? Do you live in a trash city? Help me understand lol.
congrats breh that’s amazing. is this financial services? personally i don’t have a personality and im sheltered.

i get a lot of stares since i got bigger 3 years ago (im 23, almost 24) but im one of those gym nikkas who that is the only thing i can talk about.

i have nothing to show for all these years. i don’t have a range of things to talk about or do in any given moment. i don’t have a large network. i meet people then they get creeped out that im so boring. while i still try to be nice it takes a toll on me. especially when i fukk up social interactions you start to see the changing faces. my personality is what it is.

i think my energy is just bad for what i look like on the outside. i don’t think im smart enough to make that much money though. not a good socializer and not smart enough. people say i am but i don’t know half the shyt people talk about on a given day about different topics
 

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Right. OP Problem is confidence. The easiest way to get your confidence up is get your bread up. Do you have the basics of life in place? Do you live by yourself?, do your have a car?, are you in shape?, can you fight?, do you own a firearm and know how to defend yourself?, do you have an emergency fund? Do you have a network outside of women you just trying to get p*ssy from? Do you have hobbies outside of TV? What can you teach a woman? How is a woman life better with you in it?
thinking about hitting a boxing gym for lessons before my 24th. my friend who’s still in college just let me know he joined and was trying to convince me. i want to go soon, but not knowing what to expect is making me reluctant atm.

im currently still with my parents saving. i make my own money, have a paid off car, but no hobbies besides the gym. just on autopilot. i have an alex pereira build (pause).

i guess im living fine financially atm but i just feel like shyt and uneasy every time i have to interact about life and interests and then trying to be funny and relatable and shyt. women look but i just don’t bother to do anything because i know where it’s gonna go (nowhere). i don’t get happiness socializing or expect any good outcome from it from my many failed interactions and bad events imprinted in my life.

most of my convos are 95% of the other person talking all happy and witty about a wide range of things.

then im reminded of how boring and unsettled i am. i think “they’re so smart and experienced in life and here i am living but have nothing to talk about”.

usually leave disappointed that i can’t match the energy or eventually embarrass myself
 
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