Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I interpreted as approaching women he doesn’t believe are as attractive as he deems himself to be

But the question is why would a gentleman approach a woman he deems not as attractive as himself :jbhmm:
correct.

just because a woman isnt as attractive as myself doesnt mean she isnt attractive @Canon
sometimes you just want to fukk
sometimes the girl might not be a dime but could have a great personality in other regards
 

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I know in my case when I would approach chicks that were below me it was because I really just wanted to buss a nut especially if they had some physical trait that made them fukkable…now tho?

These bytches heads bigger than a watermelon ain’t no point unless they seem unique & give off approachable vibes.
I feel you and ive been there

I have also learned a scorned women is a terrifying thing to deal with. Especially if her value is lower and she starts catching them feelings. Never ever again:pachaha:.
 

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but I feel you on the rest of this. Sometimes I sit back and think like damn I really let a bartender(or some shyt like this) stress me out because she was cute :laff: . I have a whole career, education, family, life with interest what the fukk was I thinking sometimes. I have upped my selection game big time in the last 2 years.
exactly
 

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Facts
That’s when the personality kicks in and they flip

Why our boy austin struggling
Has the looks but zero personality

yeah Austin gets traction because woman will think he is attractive, but he can't "keep"/"maintain" because he is a weirdo.

Most nikkas cry about actually pulling a chick lol Maintaining a situation is a whole diff convo that most men can't even handle which is why these women are terrorizing lotta dudes.

In the past you at least could get your experience of taking Ls in High School and College or at worst you were a dude who got married early and divorced early and then you learned from all of this, but nowadays folks are just having empty sex so the folks who can't even get casual One night stands are going to be in over their head with maintaining rosters, being charming, etc.

This is why I have said due to society changing and women being even more anti social than ever (most chicks can't hold convo for shyt so even being charming can go over their heads), dudes need to find purpose in things outside of sex and while actually living a life of meaning you interact with people along that journey.

The days of "hunting" are over unless you are universally attractive or going to trick your ass off (unless looks don't matter to you) and most dudes aint built for it.
 

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yeah Austin gets traction because woman will think he is attractive, but he can't "keep"/"maintain" because he is a weirdo.

Most nikkas cry about actually pulling a chick lol Maintaining a situation is a whole diff convo that most men can't even handle which is why these women are terrorizing lotta dudes.

In the past you at least could get your experience of taking Ls in High School and College or at worst you were a dude who got married early and divorced early and then you learned from all of this, but nowadays folks are just having empty sex so the folks who can't even get casual One night stands are going to be in over their head with maintaining rosters, being charming, etc.

This is why I have said due to society changing and women being even more anti social than ever (most chicks can't hold convo for shyt so even being charming can go over their heads), dudes need to find purpose in things outside of sex and while actually living a life of meaning you interact with people along that journey.

The days of "hunting" are over unless you are universally attractive or going to trick your ass off (unless looks don't matter to you) and most dudes aint built for it.
I go out from time to time and this is so true :mjlol:
Anxiety plus being anti social effecting so many young women under 25
 

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I go out from time to time and this is so true :mjlol:
Anxiety plus being anti social effecting so many young women under 25

yeah at first I thought there was a spike in autism but nah these hoes are weird as shyt thats why it's wild to me dudes be so intimidated by women lol.

I guess when you have no experience with women you think of them as something they aren't. I more so pulled back from relationship because women tend to be a headache I can do without right now, so I just passively date at most.
 

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yeah Austin gets traction because woman will think he is attractive, but he can't "keep"/"maintain" because he is a weirdo.

Most nikkas cry about actually pulling a chick lol Maintaining a situation is a whole diff convo that most men can't even handle which is why these women are terrorizing lotta dudes.

In the past you at least could get your experience of taking Ls in High School and College or at worst you were a dude who got married early and divorced early and then you learned from all of this, but nowadays folks are just having empty sex so the folks who can't even get casual One night stands are going to be in over their head with maintaining rosters, being charming, etc.

This is why I have said due to society changing and women being even more anti social than ever (most chicks can't hold convo for shyt so even being charming can go over their heads), dudes need to find purpose in things outside of sex and while actually living a life of meaning you interact with people along that journey.

The days of "hunting" are over unless you are universally attractive or going to trick your ass off (unless looks don't matter to you) and most dudes aint built for it.
This is Miami. Game is hard mode here because dimes fly in daily from all over the western hemisphere and some Euros. You either trick off or get sent to the cleaners by hardened pros who at 24 have seen and done unspeakable things. I mean, girl I knew from high school ended up on In The Vip.

Just yesterday I walked and puffed on Brickell Key and all them broads look like fitness models. You got yachts floating by, million dollar bay view condos, like this is normal every day shyt for them. It's nothing to have access to a boat out here. That's like the bare minimum for them to entertain you.

I also peeped how dudes have been reduced to staff photographer status. Quite a few posing for the gram with the lit up buildings and bay background and dudes doing yoga contortions to get the best shot. Salute to all the future Futures.

There was one roided up brolic mid to late 30s looking cac with a little skinny Zendaya looking young thing. Holding hands and shyt. My first thought was sugar daddy, who really knows but for all the :flabbynsick: brehs in here who wanna do the zoomer thing there is hope.

As for me I'm in my lane prepping for the book fairs in November which is my vibe and last year I met my ex girl with no intention of going to bag anything. I moderated a panel and she came up to me afterwards impressed with my handling of said panel. We were together about 4-5 months but then she got scared of getting more serious cuz she got divorced last year. We broke up in peace like adults and kept fukkin for a couple of months til she faded away and I did too.

Then my ex FWBs that I cut off when I got with her started hitting me up, like they could sense that I was single again. I told both of them FOH when they texted me cuz I'm on some Chris Rock ain't no p*ssy like new p*ssy shyt now, except I haven't bagged any new p*ssy since my ex early last month. So last week I said fukk it and went with one of them to see Oppenheimer then smashed after. But I wasn't really into it. I was on some whatever, FOH after I nut.

So I'm cutting her off and moving on. The book fair attracts the kind of women I'm into and I will be up on stage again. It's what I'm into and my vibe is I like big books and I cannot lie.
 

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This is Miami. Game is hard mode here because dimes fly in daily from all over the western hemisphere and some Euros. You either trick off or get sent to the cleaners by hardened pros who at 24 have seen and done unspeakable things. I mean, girl I knew from high school ended up on In The Vip.

Just yesterday I walked and puffed on Brickell Key and all them broads look like fitness models. You got yachts floating by, million dollar bay view condos, like this is normal every day shyt for them. It's nothing to have access to a boat out here. That's like the bare minimum for them to entertain you.

I also peeped how dudes have been reduced to staff photographer status. Quite a few posing for the gram with the lit up buildings and bay background and dudes doing yoga contortions to get the best shot. Salute to all the future Futures.

There was one roided up brolic mid to late 30s looking cac with a little skinny Zendaya looking young thing. Holding hands and shyt. My first thought was sugar daddy, who really knows but for all the :flabbynsick: brehs in here who wanna do the zoomer thing there is hope.

As for me I'm in my lane prepping for the book fairs in November which is my vibe and last year I met my ex girl with no intention of going to bag anything. I moderated a panel and she came up to me afterwards impressed with my handling of said panel. We were together about 4-5 months but then she got scared of getting more serious cuz she got divorced last year. We broke up in peace like adults and kept fukkin for a couple of months til she faded away and I did too.

Then my ex FWBs that I cut off when I got with her started hitting me up, like they could sense that I was single again. I told both of them FOH when they texted me cuz I'm on some Chris Rock ain't no p*ssy like new p*ssy shyt now, except I haven't bagged any new p*ssy since my ex early last month. So last week I said fukk it and went with one of them to see Oppenheimer then smashed after. But I wasn't really into it. I was on some whatever, FOH after I nut.

So I'm cutting her off and moving on. The book fair attracts the kind of women I'm into and I will be up on stage again. It's what I'm into and my vibe is I like big books and I cannot lie.

Yeah ATL, Miami, Vegas, etc are a waste of time. There is a lane to smash tourist chicks if you have alotta free time on your hand but i rather get money and travel lol
 

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All of the "Boss Chick" cities are trash. You can smash them same hoes when they vacation to the other Boss Chick Cities/Vegas/Tulum/etc for way less effort.

Chicks play by diff rules when you actually live in their city if that makes sense, because they know there is always a lingering aura of shame, but when chicks know they have little chance of seeing you ever again they change up the rules lol. Chicks "don't count" the bodies of dudes they don't ever have to see again which is why they often ghost ONS to forget the shame.
 

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All of the "Boss Chick" cities are trash. You can smash them same hoes when they vacation to the other Boss Chick Cities/Vegas/Tulum/etc for way less effort.

Chicks play by diff rules when you actually live in their city if that makes sense, because they know there is always a lingering aura of shame, but when chicks know they have little chance of seeing you ever again they change up the rules lol. Chicks "don't count" the bodies of dudes they don't ever have to see again which is why they often ghost ONS to forget the shame.
I put my tinder in atl
7/10 were fat

Completely diff from 2018
It’s over
 

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All of the "Boss Chick" cities are trash. You can smash them same hoes when they vacation to the other Boss Chick Cities/Vegas/Tulum/etc for way less effort.

Chicks play by diff rules when you actually live in their city if that makes sense, because they know there is always a lingering aura of shame, but when chicks know they have little chance of seeing you ever again they change up the rules lol. Chicks "don't count" the bodies of dudes they don't ever have to see again which is why they often ghost ONS to forget the shame.

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Whenever I got work in a new city, there’s always a hint of excitement “what are you here for Work?”

Or vice versa, if she’s visiting my city for a concert, she’ll hook up with me, do the nastiest ish, and pretend it didn’t happen
 

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:wow:

Whenever I got work in a new city, there’s always a hint of excitement “what are you here for Work?”

Or vice versa, if she’s visiting my city for a concert, she’ll hook up with me, do the nastiest ish, and pretend it didn’t happen

yeah, Look up concerts/festivals hoes like and post up on Dating apps 1-2 weeks prior + if you got a mouth piece hand out at the bars at local hotels around those times too.

And if you yourself are traveling stay in a hotel with a solid bar so when you invite chick you can play it off as a cool bar vs meet me at the hotel lol
 
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