Not even trolling but can you give an example of playing to your strengths. I don't even think about shyt like this and thus I live in a desert
Some nikkas like myself are nerdy, square , corporate types. As a result, I will be hard pressed to find the type of girl who be in the club, or has a bbl/fake t*ts to fukk with me. It’s just a target market that doesn’t want what I have to offer…they are more likely to go for dudes with clout, or who are more ostentatious. Why ? They are not after a serious relationship/nikka…they prolly just looking for a good time. I can give them that good time but they don’t associate a good time with a square..they associate it with “bad boys “…scammers, partygoers, drug dealers etc
Someone like me fares a lot better with introverted women, intellectual women, corporate women, engineers etc. I love engineer bytches. It’s just that attractive black ones are non existent lol
Very simplistic example (im on my phone) but you should get it.
I’m also ghanaian for example but i was born in canada so culturally I may not be as Ghanaian as others; for instance I dont listen to much afrobeats (though I like them) and don’t speak twi. As a result , women who were born in Africa may not feel as if they have as much in common with me and I may not appeal to them as much off the bat.
