Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Dudes rarely self examine themselves and play to their strengths. You gotta know your strengths + the market and go to where the numbers are in your favor.

Its one breh in here that stays with the PAAGs and I remember someone asking for tips for PAAGs but the context is dude is in a city with a large number thus he has a diverse pool of them compared to a city where the numbers may not be in your favor thus you may be stuck with asian chicks who stick to their own + white boys. And most dudes don't work on themselves to the point where they can get chicks to go against the grain because of them having universal attractiveness (something most men do not have).
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Not even trolling but can you give an example of playing to your strengths. I don't even think about shyt like this and thus I live in a desert

I'd catorgirze things as Looks/Finance/Personality

Looks and Personality are more nuanced and you can argue have sub categories (especially looks).

With looks you can be handsome but not a chicks "type" if that makes sense.

So you gotta figure out your strengths and then go after the market it caters too. Sometimes you may notice a "theme" when it comes to the chicks you have luck with and you can argue that is your base market (lotta dudes who ever may not be happy with their target market thus they gotta work on improving, but that still don't mean you can pull a so called "dime").
 

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Not even trolling but can you give an example of playing to your strengths. I don't even think about shyt like this and thus I live in a desert
Some nikkas like myself are nerdy, square , corporate types. As a result, I will be hard pressed to find the type of girl who be in the club, or has a bbl/fake t*ts to fukk with me. It’s just a target market that doesn’t want what I have to offer…they are more likely to go for dudes with clout, or who are more ostentatious. Why ? They are not after a serious relationship/nikka…they prolly just looking for a good time. I can give them that good time but they don’t associate a good time with a square..they associate it with “bad boys “…scammers, partygoers, drug dealers etc

Someone like me fares a lot better with introverted women, intellectual women, corporate women, engineers etc. I love engineer bytches. It’s just that attractive black ones are non existent lol

Very simplistic example (im on my phone) but you should get it.

I’m also ghanaian for example but i was born in canada so culturally I may not be as Ghanaian as others; for instance I dont listen to much afrobeats (though I like them) and don’t speak twi. As a result , women who were born in Africa may not feel as if they have as much in common with me and I may not appeal to them as much off the bat.
 
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