Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Me: I want to move to a place with a decently high black population
Her:I really don't care about the race population. Blacks can be the worst enemies to fellow blacks.
M:You're right they can be but they also can be the best allies as well I've had multiple black folk provide me with opportunities and looked out for me.
H: I've had and still have better relationships with other races.
M: Weird question when you deal with other black folks do you go with the expectation that the interaction will go bad
H: Not sure what your asking
M: Do you have a negative bias towards black people? Do you assume the worst about them versus other races
H: Why should I?
H: Or better question. Should I?
M: I would hope you wouldn't have a negative bias towards black folks
H: Why was that your first fall back as a defense?
M: I guess I wanted more clarification on the whole blacks can be their own worse enemies vs you having better relationships with other races. So I was just wondering if when dealing with black folks you automatically expect a negative interaction

H: You opted to understanding what I said and made a remark on how they had been there for you! Or maybe you should have just asked a simple question than did not come out as defensive as you sound now. Or should I be worried that you are more biased to other races that you wouldn't want to live next to them?

M: I love around other races now so I don't have a problem with it. I would prefer to live in a area with a larger successful black population. That's nothing out of the ordinary. If I came off as defensive then that was not my intent. I just felt your initial response was fairly negative folks and I may have misunderstood your intent

H: My response was negative?
M: I took you saying that black folks can be our own enemy is a fairly negative statement
H: It's exactly how you read it. That's what I meant!
H: My comment would be negative if you are biased because someone is thinking differently from the way you do or say something you disagree with.
As a psychologist, I am trained and I also believe in accepting all opinions without bias.
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A convo I'm having with this chick:snoop:
 
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bytch gave no actual answer/insight and was attempting to overanalyze your question.

Shouldn’t even have over explained such a BASIC concept to her. Hope she got blocked bruh
 
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xiceman191 said:
A convo I'm having with this chick:snoop:
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Should have changed the subject asap.

Well at least you see what she on, so it’s a W because I couldn’t imagine dealing with someone like that.

These women do not care about race loyalty.

All they want to do is prove why their way of thinking is correct.

Not all, but some (Gotta put that disclaimer in there).
 
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Balla said:
Should have changed the subject asap.

Well at least you see what she on, so it’s a W because I couldn’t imagine dealing with someone like that.

These women do not care about race loyalty.

All they want to do is prove why their way of thinking is correct.

Not all, but some (Gotta put that disclaimer in there).
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Change the subject for what? Just for her to be an idiot on the next? Dudes gotta disengage when they see this stupidity lol
 
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xiceman191 said:
A convo I'm having with this chick:snoop:
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'That's nothing out of the ordinary. If I came off as defensive then that was not my intent. I just felt your initial response was fairly negative folks and I may have misunderstood your intent'

why do u talk to hoes like u in a corporate zoom meeting?
 
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Van Cleef said:
'That's nothing out of the ordinary. If I came off as defensive then that was not my intent. I just felt your initial response was fairly negative folks and I may have misunderstood your intent'

why do u talk to hoes like u in a corporate zoom meeting?
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:yeshrug:I guess in my mind when it comes to a serious topics its easier for me to speak like that to avoid misunderstandings.
 
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