Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Thurgood Thurston III

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Saw this on a past thread. The whole settling convo. Men obviously settle (body count, baggage, etc) but do women settle far more because they have far higher expectations?

Women age 16-21
Wants a prince or baller or celebrety.
He has to have lots of money.
Cant be balding.
Good looking.
Not an inch under 6'4"
Every woman must want him but he must be loyal to her and her only


Thoughts?

This one is wrong. And makes no sense if you were around women when you were that age

Do you not remember school? How many guys in her class were ballers or celebrities? Zero.

Women in that age bracket really just want a guy they find "cute". It's usually a dude from their circle or school.

It's their first love and the guy that takes their virginity. That guy NEVER fits the description you wrote.

Sure, sometimes they trade up when they get to the next age bracket or get bored.

That is by far the easiest bracket to get women (when you're in the same bracket of course). They pretty much have no expectations and fall for the most basic "push/pull" game. The second (or maybe first) easiest is the last age bracket when, you're in a younger bracket.

The most p*ssy I ever got was when I was 16 - 21. I just needed to be fly and funny. Then I just asked them to pull up to the crib.
 

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incongruence is real and you never see nikkas in here talk about it


If you look like a gang member... you need to act that way too

To be fair, you never see nikkas in here talk about anything other than
"I think I'm gonna drop that one chick I told y'all I was messing with 1000 pages ago. Got a date set up with the Asian from 600 pages ago!! :blessed:"

But yeah incongruence is one of the biggest things that make people sense something is "off".

They may not always be able to put their finger on it, but they can feel it.
 

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Man say, things end fast with a chick just as quickly as they start :wow:

Been seeing this chick for a couple months and today she dropped the “I think we should take some space” :mjlol:

I told her that’s not what I want but ok :yeshrug:

However I’m taking the approach of rejection is protection. Especially if I did everything right in the situation.
 

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Man say, things end fast with a chick just as quickly as they start :wow:

Been seeing this chick for a couple months and today she dropped the “I think we should take some space” :mjlol:

I told her that’s not what I want but ok :yeshrug:

However I’m taking the approach of rejection is protection. Especially if I did everything right in the situation.
Probably found a better perceived option.

Simple
 

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I definitely agree.

Why do you think that is though?

In these situations you find these chick's say they feel 'confused' aka they slowly going off you but they also haven't set anything up yet. Or they have another person in mind.

They kinda want you to chase for ego reasons but also they are on the lookout for something new.

A chick ever tells me she wants space consider, that interaction pretty much over. I'll be courteous and respectful but you and me are not a thing that I put anymore effort into.
 

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I definitely agree.

Why do you think that is though?
It could be any of the below:
  • Self-sabotage
  • Needing a change in routine
  • Testing to see how they feel when you're not in the picture: wanting to miss you
  • Wanting to know you're not dependent on her
  • Guilt
  • Another dude they want to spend time with
  • etc.

The only path forward is to give her what she asked for. Whether you wanted it or not, she does, has been wanting it for a while and initiated it. Let her find out whether she really wants that or not. Sending a "hey just checking on you" violates that and works against you btw. Let her miss you and reach back out. They always do. In the meantime, find something else that will replace those endorphins you'd normally get from her.
 
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