Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Canon]

ha, I swear there is someone for everybody I met this Gambia chick earlier this year, my type, but her and I ended up having a long ass conversation that made me ran for the hills
-In a divorce she believes men should pay for the house she lives in with the kids
-Obsess with luxuries and travel
-drives a 100K car
-We had a 5 hour conversation, I realized that this woman will try to F you over in a divorce

I bailed, even though she was my type lol. I have such low tolerance for woman I feel will be a pain in my ass these days

yeah I met two chicks who jokingly said low key similar things earlier this year

ran for the hills

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

I was saying in some thread, maybe I deleted it, but I don't really see "cat-calling" like that.

So I'm out and about yesterday. It's graduation season, so all types of folks is out in these streets.

Anyway, I'm finna cross the corner

Old Head (looking like a maintenance man)- WHY YOU SHOWING THEM LEGS? WHY YOU SHOW ALL THAT LEG!!?

*activate radar*

The woman is prolly in her late 60s, wearing knee length shorts and crossing the intersection with a cane.

Somebody's Granny - "WELL YOU KNOW IT'S STARTING TO GET HOT"

I'm not sure if they knew each other (coulda, given his garb and the graduation stuff popping offf), but the ludicrousness of the scenario just brought a smile to my face.

I had to process this for a minute... I didn't know if it was me being and not knowing the slang or you were literally talking about real university grads..... then "graduation" and tia mowry came to the mind...

 

[African_brehda]

Well damn playa............... that's where you dropped the ball...... that's waaaayyy too aggressive and she definitely got spooked...tone it down a few notches.. ...you should work off of a minimum 3 dates before you make attempts to try and be initmate in any way (kissing, etc). Hugs and MAYBE depending on her vibe you could've gotten away with the latino cheek kiss. But you threw the book at her right off the rip......

No woman wants to feel like an easy lay or whore, even if they may be one. The whole dating process is what is done to let her kmow you want to be more than friends.
You might be able to salvage things by being transparent and approaching her IN PERSON, NOT TEXT and say "Hey I apologize for being overly aggressive with you. I just find you very attractive. If we were to take things slower would you like to go out on another date? ... A makeup date? " .... Be playful and jokey about it.... and actually don't be so over eager to smash..... let it cook and develop and come to you....

Last Update. Yeah I fukked up by assuming she was some modest girl or some type of prude or some shyt. Never ever judging a book by its cover again.


So I approached her and mentioned I probably came on too strong. She said she didn’t think that was the case, she says we both just want different things. Took her out to get ice cream yesterday, and we actually spoke.. realized I should have done this earlier and known the kind of person I was dealing with before I planned my approach


The previous times we hung out, we didn’t get the chance to get into any deep conversations. Yesterday was an eye opener, she isn’t as modest or a prude as I assumed from her outward appearance

The conversation went to sex stuff, and I was taken aback with her views and other stuff she shared. Now I’m 100% certain we could’ve had something casual if I had just taken it slow and not taken stuff seriously. Me being upfront with her definitely pushed her away. She probably just sees me as the “good guy” now. Smh

She’s still not reaching out and being as forthcoming as she used to be, I’ll just hold this L and move on, as I don’t think her perception of me can change at this point.

I’m sure that sappy shyt I sent her earlier made her p*ssy permanently dry

 

[cyndaquil]

Last Update. Yeah I fukked up by assuming she was some modest girl or some type of prude or some shyt. Never ever judging a book by its cover again.


So I approached her and mentioned I probably came on too strong. She said she didn’t think that was the case, she says we both just want different things. Took her out to get ice cream yesterday, and we actually spoke.. realized I should have done this earlier and known the kind of person I was dealing with before I planned my approach


The previous times we hung out, we didn’t get the chance to get into any deep conversations. Yesterday was an eye opener, she isn’t as modest or a prude as I assumed from her outward appearance

The conversation went to sex stuff, and I was taken aback with her views and other stuff she shared. Now I’m 100% certain we could’ve had something casual if I had just taken it slow and not taken stuff seriously. Me being upfront with her definitely pushed her away. She probably just sees me as the “good guy” now. Smh

She’s still not reaching out and being as forthcoming as she used to be, I’ll just hold this L and move on, as I don’t think her perception of me can change at this point.

I’m sure that sappy shyt I sent her earlier made her p*ssy permanently dry

Remind me again, did you take her on a date first or did yall go straight to the crib on the first hangout?

 

[African_brehda]

Remind me again, did you take her on a date first or did yall go straight to the crib on the first hangout?

Wasn’t a date per se. I was doing some errands and asked her to come along. Got some ice cream to go afterwards, and ended up talking in my ride for like 30 mins when I went to drop her off at her place. Lives with her parents, no way I was going in there.

It’s during this “talk” I let her know I was feeling her and would like to explore where things could go

 

[cyndaquil]

Wasn’t a date per se. I was doing some errands and asked her to come along. Got some ice cream to go afterwards, and ended up talking in my ride for like 30 mins when I went to drop her off at her place. Lives with her parents, no way I was going in there.

It’s during this “talk” I let her know I was feeling her and would like to explore where things could go

Nah I meant the first time yall hungout and you tried to "make a move"

 

[African_brehda]

Nah I meant the first time yall hungout and you tried to "make a move"

That was the hangout breh

 

[cyndaquil]

That was the hangout breh

Lol big dawg I see how it went left

Breh said he went to run some errands and the last on his list was getting some coochie she didn't know she was an errand too

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Last Update. Yeah I fukked up by assuming she was some modest girl or some type of prude or some shyt. Never ever judging a book by its cover again.


So I approached her and mentioned I probably came on too strong. She said she didn’t think that was the case, she says we both just want different things. Took her out to get ice cream yesterday, and we actually spoke.. realized I should have done this earlier and known the kind of person I was dealing with before I planned my approach


The previous times we hung out, we didn’t get the chance to get into any deep conversations. Yesterday was an eye opener, she isn’t as modest or a prude as I assumed from her outward appearance

The conversation went to sex stuff, and I was taken aback with her views and other stuff she shared. Now I’m 100% certain we could’ve had something casual if I had just taken it slow and not taken stuff seriously. Me being upfront with her definitely pushed her away. She probably just sees me as the “good guy” now. Smh

She’s still not reaching out and being as forthcoming as she used to be, I’ll just hold this L and move on, as I don’t think her perception of me can change at this point.

I’m sure that sappy shyt I sent her earlier made her p*ssy permanently dry

Bag the local gym Pawg and have her in her feelings.... she'll come back...

 

[African_brehda]

Bag the local gym Pawg and have her in her feelings.... she'll come back...

Women are strange, she saw me talking to another girl in the gym, and mouthed something towards me.. called her later that night, she wasn’t “in the mood”

But anyway, I don’t think that shyt is salvageable rn.. I’ll just keep it pushing

 

[Ohene]

Women are strange, she saw me talking to another girl in the gym, and mouthed something towards me.. called her later that night, she wasn’t “in the mood”

But anyway, I don’t think that shyt is salvageable rn.. I’ll just keep it pushing

why would u call her? leave that bytch alone man
she has to be the one initiating all contact and even when she does..invite her over and bone-her
that should bbe the extent of yall communication

 

[Ohene]

Lol big dawg I see how it went left

Breh said he went to run some errands and the last on his list was getting some coochie she didn't know she was an errand too

i think you're misreading
she just wanted to fukk, he wanted more after only one link
homie was trippin big time

 

[African_brehda]

why would u call her? leave that bytch alone man
she has to be the one initiating all contact and even when she does..invite her over and bone-her
that should bbe the extent of yall communication

This was some time back, before all of this.

 

[Ohene]

This was some time back, before all of this.

whole story confusing at this pt
too disjointed lol

 

[African_brehda]

i think you're misreading
she just wanted to fukk, he wanted more after only one link
homie was trippin big time

I was really tripping

Just seemed like the type of girl who would want to be courted and shyt. Little did I know