Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I was really tripping :wow:

Just seemed like the type of girl who would want to be courted and shyt. Little did I know
it happens to the best of us

truth of the matter is that often it isn't the girl who seems like anything but rather us projecting what we want onto the girl (perhaps due to attraction/aura) and being too egotistical or obtuse to see what's really good. we dont know these women other than their appearance. until a girl explicitly says she wants something serious or doesn't hook up etc. you're better off believing shorty just wanna be cracked and then letting her eventually be the one to ask "what are we?"
 
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How she wanted to fukk when he tried and she said she wasnt ready for that? :dead:

is that what he tried? i saw that he tried to tell her he was feeling her and wanted to explore where things could go
Cause this all went down without having one proper sit down date/meetup/vibing, whatever you want to call it...... Whole mess could've been remedied with one date... :heh:
 

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Cause this all went down without having one proper sit down date/meetup/vibing, whatever you want to call it...... Whole mess could've been remedied with one date... :heh:
or even an invitation to the crib

matter of fact I got a legit gem here. if you are truly flexible in what you want from a woman (as many men are) in terms of a casual or serious relationship and dont have a problem being manipulative, ask them certain questions before they can ask you.

ask a woman what she's looking for before she can ask you
if you out with her, invite her to the crib casually and let her decide if she wanna be a hoe or not
ask a woman about certain values, religion, children, hobbies

they usually ask men these questions and disqualify them accordingly if the answers dont align with what they want. you're better off being the one who plays offense and asks them the questions as opposed to assuming every woman wants a husband and all that. Nah, lotta these bytches know they aint shyt and just wanna be cracked open. Men need to vet and probe but often wont because theyre afraid of coming across as too serious when it can actually be a tactic used to manipulate the situation to get what you want outta them
 
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