Cause this all went down without having one proper sit down date/meetup/vibing, whatever you want to call it...... Whole mess could've been remedied with one date...
or even an invitation to the crib
matter of fact I got a legit gem here. if you are truly flexible in what you want from a woman (as many men are) in terms of a casual or serious relationship and dont have a problem being manipulative, ask them certain questions before they can ask you.
ask a woman what she's looking for before she can ask you
if you out with her, invite her to the crib casually and let her decide if she wanna be a hoe or not
ask a woman about certain values, religion, children, hobbies
they usually ask men these questions and disqualify them accordingly if the answers dont align with what they want. you're better off being the one who plays offense and asks them the questions as opposed to assuming every woman wants a husband and all that. Nah, lotta these bytches know they aint shyt and just wanna be cracked open. Men need to vet and probe but often wont because theyre afraid of coming across as too serious when it can actually be a tactic used to manipulate the situation to get what you want outta them