trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
They want the Madonna-Whore........ the mythical nonexistant unicorn..
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Nigerians are a mixed bag and I imagine they differ from tribe to tribe/state to state as wellehhhhhh lol. We do have negative traits like other but nobody is forcing these people to be around, marry, or hang with Nigerians if they don’t like them
They are fairly easy to avoid.. I do it easily if they aren’t from my ethnic group……….
Many of them can be ultra-materialistic, proud and transaction, but at least back then they were some of the best girlfriends I had. Mightve been luck of the draw or due to the time period though. Any issues with nigerian women though ultimately stem from the men as well.
One of the coolest chicks I know is nigerian descent / irish. I shouldve wifed her, but I was fresh outta a relationship and dealing with some legal/career issues so the timing was bad.
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
The worshipping of money, the willingness to backstab your own for the sake of money, the disregard for children, the lack of integrity, the witchcraft, the lack of respect towards human rights. I can go on breh...
africngiant
All Star
you attribute an african parent’s desire to see their children be successful and gain a commodity which would help them and their generations after live a comfortable safe life (money) as a negative trait. in a failing economy? what would you otherwise want them to emphasize, being broke? but i already know what you are indicated from your signature
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
There's a reason so African immigrant children are starting to complain about the toxic behavior of their parents. There's a reason so many African immigrant children have an abnormally high suicide rate. Black people don't do that suicide shyt thats cac behavior. But african immigrants are a different story. I'm just telling it like I see it.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
3 day weekend yet some hoes suddenly disappear or were "sick"
surgical summer indeed
surgical summer indeedI literally went to the gym 730-930 Friday morning and an hour Saturday morning. I earned a rest dayNegged for Blasphemous practices...
skyrunner1
Superstar
Sunday leg day is dam near spiritual.I literally went to the gym 730-930 Friday morning and an hour Saturday morning. I earned a rest day
No better way to start the week with empty gym, access to everything, no phone calls to bother, not rushed to get in and out and beat rush hour, favorite day to work out.. I be pissed when I miss sundays..I feel you. I needed to restSunday leg day is dam near spiritual.
Detachment is your friend as a man.
Be okay with being alone, always set the tone, and if she’s not willing to submit to you on your terms let her be and move around.
If they know you can live without them and they have interest in you they will come back and spin the block at some point.
A woman will ALWAYS spin the block for a man that she’s interested in or has good to decent history with.
Be okay with being alone, always set the tone, and if she’s not willing to submit to you on your terms let her be and move around.
If they know you can live without them and they have interest in you they will come back and spin the block at some point.
A woman will ALWAYS spin the block for a man that she’s interested in or has good to decent history with.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
We back and locked in3 day weekend yet some hoes suddenly disappear or were "sick"
The Jewnited States
Superstar
I "broke up" with ol girl I was talking about a few pages back. Haven't talked to her or seen her in a few days. Haven't reached out at all. My guess is that she will reach out to me by the end of this week once the loneliness and need for dikk kicks in.
In the meantime I got a date lined up with a younger chick that I have gone out with a couple times already. Our schedules haven't been lining up in the last few weeks because I work morning to afternoon and she works afternoon to night. We scheduled to meet up today for an early lunch. Come morning time she sends me a text being really apologetic and explaining to me that she has been up all night consoling her roommate and taking care of her because she was going through some shyt. She asks if we can reschedule for her off day this week.
For whatever reason it irritated me a bit. I understand where she's coming from, this chick seems like a genuinely sweet person and I know her roommate is one of her childhood best friends. I tell her yeah it's cool if we reschedule. I follow it up with a text basically asking her to be as transparent with me as she can, so that we are both on the same page and neither of us is pursuing something that isn't there, investing energy and time for nothing. I tell her straight up that I enjoy talking to her, I appreciate how intelligent she is and that we have similar interests. She has a nice calm energy about her and does not give off ho vibes even a little bit. I let her know that I am not necessarily looking to jump into a long term relationship right away because we are still getting to know each other, but I know enough to know that I wanna stick around and discover more. I tell her straight that I find her to be very pretty and sexually attractive. I'm just being honest, I wanted to put that all on the table right now and if that's cool with you, then let's continue on. If you're not on that wave, then it's better that we get that out in the open now so that neither one of us is wasting time.
She hits me back with this reply:
"Yes, you totally make sense. I know that my attention is going in so many directions right now with my job, making new friends, [roommates name], still getting adjusted here, etc and I know that makes it hard for me to be fully present with you, and for that I apologize, as I don’t like making anyone feel that way. I really like who you are as a human and feel that we have so many things in common. I really enjoy spending time with you as well. I would like to keep getting to know you better. I don’t feel that it’s the right time for me to jump into a new relationship right this second just because I’m going through a lot of changes and still pretty fresh from my previous relationship. But I enjoy your energy and your company and our conversations. I would love to keep hanging out and doing fun things together, and I will be better about sticking to plans. My life usually isn’t this chaotic, lol. I appreciate you being upfront and honest about your thoughts and communicating
"
I can't do much but take her for her word and see if the actions follow through. So far she's been pretty good about that. There's a chance she's just keeping me as an option in case no better comes around. There's also a good chance im so jaded that I start reading between the lines when I don't need to. She's had ample opportunity to ghost me or let the text messages dwindle down to nothing, but she hasn't. As of now, I will see if she follows through on our plan to get together this week, and feel it out from there.
I am so rusty with this dating shyt and somewhat cynical from past experiences or Internet babble that I'm second guessing myself all the time trying to find the angle that she's playing me from.
Thoughts?
@trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In @Ohene @The ADD @cyndaquil @skyrunner1 @Gloxina
In the meantime I got a date lined up with a younger chick that I have gone out with a couple times already. Our schedules haven't been lining up in the last few weeks because I work morning to afternoon and she works afternoon to night. We scheduled to meet up today for an early lunch. Come morning time she sends me a text being really apologetic and explaining to me that she has been up all night consoling her roommate and taking care of her because she was going through some shyt. She asks if we can reschedule for her off day this week.
For whatever reason it irritated me a bit. I understand where she's coming from, this chick seems like a genuinely sweet person and I know her roommate is one of her childhood best friends. I tell her yeah it's cool if we reschedule. I follow it up with a text basically asking her to be as transparent with me as she can, so that we are both on the same page and neither of us is pursuing something that isn't there, investing energy and time for nothing. I tell her straight up that I enjoy talking to her, I appreciate how intelligent she is and that we have similar interests. She has a nice calm energy about her and does not give off ho vibes even a little bit. I let her know that I am not necessarily looking to jump into a long term relationship right away because we are still getting to know each other, but I know enough to know that I wanna stick around and discover more. I tell her straight that I find her to be very pretty and sexually attractive. I'm just being honest, I wanted to put that all on the table right now and if that's cool with you, then let's continue on. If you're not on that wave, then it's better that we get that out in the open now so that neither one of us is wasting time.
She hits me back with this reply:
"Yes, you totally make sense. I know that my attention is going in so many directions right now with my job, making new friends, [roommates name], still getting adjusted here, etc and I know that makes it hard for me to be fully present with you, and for that I apologize, as I don’t like making anyone feel that way. I really like who you are as a human and feel that we have so many things in common. I really enjoy spending time with you as well. I would like to keep getting to know you better. I don’t feel that it’s the right time for me to jump into a new relationship right this second just because I’m going through a lot of changes and still pretty fresh from my previous relationship. But I enjoy your energy and your company and our conversations. I would love to keep hanging out and doing fun things together, and I will be better about sticking to plans. My life usually isn’t this chaotic, lol. I appreciate you being upfront and honest about your thoughts and communicating
"I can't do much but take her for her word and see if the actions follow through. So far she's been pretty good about that. There's a chance she's just keeping me as an option in case no better comes around. There's also a good chance im so jaded that I start reading between the lines when I don't need to. She's had ample opportunity to ghost me or let the text messages dwindle down to nothing, but she hasn't. As of now, I will see if she follows through on our plan to get together this week, and feel it out from there.
I am so rusty with this dating shyt and somewhat cynical from past experiences or Internet babble that I'm second guessing myself all the time trying to find the angle that she's playing me from.
Thoughts?
@trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In @Ohene @The ADD @cyndaquil @skyrunner1 @Gloxina
etrofllenrod504
Superstar
Well for starters imo conversations like that should never be had through texting. To much gets lost through text. You should have those type of convos face to face(body language is everything). Secondly I get you wanted to be transparent in your intentions but, also you have to remember women don’t find scarcity attractive( as in coming across as you don’t have options) and when I say options I mean just not having things in your life to where she won’t be the center of your universe.I "broke up" with ol girl I was talking about a few pages back. Haven't talked to her or seen her in a few days. Haven't reached out at all. My guess is that she will reach out to me by the end of this week once the loneliness and need for dikk kicks in.
In the meantime I got a date lined up with a younger chick that I have gone out with a couple times already. Our schedules haven't been lining up in the last few weeks because I work morning to afternoon and she works afternoon to night. We scheduled to meet up today for an early lunch. Come morning time she sends me a text being really apologetic and explaining to me that she has been up all night consoling her roommate and taking care of her because she was going through some shyt. She asks if we can reschedule for her off day this week.
For whatever reason it irritated me a bit. I understand where she's coming from, this chick seems like a genuinely sweet person and I know her roommate is one of her childhood best friends. I tell her yeah it's cool if we reschedule. I follow it up with a text basically asking her to be as transparent with me as she can, so that we are both on the same page and neither of us is pursuing something that isn't there, investing energy and time for nothing. I tell her straight up that I enjoy talking to her, I appreciate how intelligent she is and that we have similar interests. She has a nice calm energy about her and does not give off ho vibes even a little bit. I let her know that I am not necessarily looking to jump into a long term relationship right away because we are still getting to know each other, but I know enough to know that I wanna stick around and discover more. I tell her straight that I find her to be very pretty and sexually attractive. I'm just being honest, I wanted to put that all on the table right now and if that's cool with you, then let's continue on. If you're not on that wave, then it's better that we get that out in the open now so that neither one of us is wasting time.
She hits me back with this reply:
"Yes, you totally make sense. I know that my attention is going in so many directions right now with my job, making new friends, [roommates name], still getting adjusted here, etc and I know that makes it hard for me to be fully present with you, and for that I apologize, as I don’t like making anyone feel that way. I really like who you are as a human and feel that we have so many things in common. I really enjoy spending time with you as well. I would like to keep getting to know you better. I don’t feel that it’s the right time for me to jump into a new relationship right this second just because I’m going through a lot of changes and still pretty fresh from my previous relationship. But I enjoy your energy and your company and our conversations. I would love to keep hanging out and doing fun things together, and I will be better about sticking to plans. My life usually isn’t this chaotic, lol. I appreciate you being upfront and honest about your thoughts and communicating
I can't do much but take her for her word and see if the actions follow through. So far she's been pretty good about that. There's a chance she's just keeping me as an option in case no better comes around. There's also a good chance im so jaded that I start reading between the lines when I don't need to. She's had ample opportunity to ghost me or let the text messages dwindle down to nothing, but she hasn't. As of now, I will see if she follows through on our plan to get together this week, and feel it out from there.
I am so rusty with this dating shyt and somewhat cynical from past experiences or Internet babble that I'm second guessing myself all the time trying to find the angle that she's playing me from.
Thoughts?
@trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In @Ohene @The ADD @cyndaquil @skyrunner1 @Gloxina
I’d say this also. People always make time for what they want. Not to say what she saying isn’t true but, if she wanted to make certain things happen she would. If I was you I’d slow down on the text back and forth. See if the date happens and if something else come up with her I’d just fall back.
Us as men we gotta learn to hold our poker face better. Get past the excitement of cause she’s new mellow out so we can really see them for who they are. Because some women just want to use brehs to boost they ego, pass time by, etc.
The Jewnited States
Superstar
I feel you on that. We have had enough convos on the phone and in person that let me know she's not really with the casual dating/hookup culture at all. It's hard for me to read this situation at times because our schedules just haven't been lining up, but I also feel like if someone wants to make it happen, they will. I've done it for women before, and I've had women who did it for me so I know that exists.
I've generally been matching her pace with the texts but as of now I'm gonna just wait to see if she wants to make this thing happen this week.