Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Redwood
Superstar
by the way the bytch who didn’t want to give me her number on the app never responded to my last message
fukk her
Not literally of course
Peter Popoff
PROTECT YA NECK!! ❤️🖤💚 🙏🏽
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
by the way the bytch who didn’t want to give me her number on the app never responded to my last message
apps is trash b gonna have to use that mouthpiece partna
The Jewnited States
Superstar
I "broke up" with ol girl I was talking about a few pages back. Haven't talked to her or seen her in a few days. Haven't reached out at all. My guess is that she will reach out to me by the end of this week once the loneliness and need for dikk kicks in.
In the meantime I got a date lined up with a younger chick that I have gone out with a couple times already. Our schedules haven't been lining up in the last few weeks because I work morning to afternoon and she works afternoon to night. We scheduled to meet up today for an early lunch. Come morning time she sends me a text being really apologetic and explaining to me that she has been up all night consoling her roommate and taking care of her because she was going through some shyt. She asks if we can reschedule for her off day this week.
For whatever reason it irritated me a bit. I understand where she's coming from, this chick seems like a genuinely sweet person and I know her roommate is one of her childhood best friends. I tell her yeah it's cool if we reschedule. I follow it up with a text basically asking her to be as transparent with me as she can, so that we are both on the same page and neither of us is pursuing something that isn't there, investing energy and time for nothing. I tell her straight up that I enjoy talking to her, I appreciate how intelligent she is and that we have similar interests. She has a nice calm energy about her and does not give off ho vibes even a little bit. I let her know that I am not necessarily looking to jump into a long term relationship right away because we are still getting to know each other, but I know enough to know that I wanna stick around and discover more. I tell her straight that I find her to be very pretty and sexually attractive. I'm just being honest, I wanted to put that all on the table right now and if that's cool with you, then let's continue on. If you're not on that wave, then it's better that we get that out in the open now so that neither one of us is wasting time.
She hits me back with this reply:
"Yes, you totally make sense. I know that my attention is going in so many directions right now with my job, making new friends, [roommates name], still getting adjusted here, etc and I know that makes it hard for me to be fully present with you, and for that I apologize, as I don’t like making anyone feel that way. I really like who you are as a human and feel that we have so many things in common. I really enjoy spending time with you as well. I would like to keep getting to know you better. I don’t feel that it’s the right time for me to jump into a new relationship right this second just because I’m going through a lot of changes and still pretty fresh from my previous relationship. But I enjoy your energy and your company and our conversations. I would love to keep hanging out and doing fun things together, and I will be better about sticking to plans. My life usually isn’t this chaotic, lol. I appreciate you being upfront and honest about your thoughts and communicating"
I can't do much but take her for her word and see if the actions follow through. So far she's been pretty good about that. There's a chance she's just keeping me as an option in case no better comes around. There's also a good chance im so jaded that I start reading between the lines when I don't need to. She's had ample opportunity to ghost me or let the text messages dwindle down to nothing, but she hasn't. As of now, I will see if she follows through on our plan to get together this week, and feel it out from there.
I am so rusty with this dating shyt and somewhat cynical from past experiences or Internet babble that I'm second guessing myself all the time trying to find the angle that she's playing me from.
Thoughts?
@trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In @Ohene @The ADD @cyndaquil @skyrunner1 @Gloxina
Update for the brehs: this bytch that sent that text ghosted me
the last text she sent me was literally that text I quoted. From the same bytch that said she never ghosts people because it's happened to her and she knows how it feels. My homegirl said she came through the store with some 6'4" dude LOL
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Update for the brehs: this bytch that sent that text ghosted me
chick is full of shyt. She said "I would love to keep hanging out and doing fun things together, and I will be better about sticking to plans"You don't have to chase down a chick to hangout and keep plans. Even if yall schedules don't line up she will find a way to make it work if she's interested enough. But this chick was definitely just holding onto you while looking for better options.That's part of the issue dealing with young chicks they are getting a bunch of male attention and they feel like they have unlimited time and options.
Like some women you can just tell when they're gonna flake. I'll give a recent example I matched with this 30 year old chick on hinge. Full bbl and boob job so I already know her shyt flooded on there. I messaged her she took days to respond. Then claimed she been sick...OK we talk a little more I ask her about her plans for the weekend, she says she isn't doing much maybe just hanging out with friends. OK I ask her if she wants to get coffee, she agrees and gives me her number. I text her Thursday...no response until Saturday she says "oh sorry my phone has this in unknown sender"...OK chick obviously playing games. If you're expecting a date this weekend you'd look for a text. I should've deaded it right here I know
Interaction continues a little more she responds with a bunch of messages about how busy her weekend was with family then she leaves me on read. Which i about expected at this point. Here's the truth a woman with lukewarm interest is worse than a woman with no interest. They will waste your time and string you along if you let them. When that chick always had an excuse for why she hasn't responded in a timely manner that was the hint.
In your case when that girl decided to stay up all night "consoling her roommate" when she knew yall supposed to meet up was your hint. She could've been doing that or she could've been up all night with another guy. Who knows. But the fact she was seen with another dude lets you know what's really going on
Red flags a chick is gonna waste your time:
1. Responds late
2. Full of excuses when asked to hangout
3. Fails to follow through on commitments
When you see this type of shyt save yourself the headache
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
You don't have to chase down a chick to hangout and keep plans. Even if yall schedules don't line up she will find a way to make it work if she's interested enough. But this chick was definitely just holding onto you while looking for better options.That's part of the issue dealing with young chicks they are getting a bunch of male attention and they feel like they have unlimited time and options.
Like some women you can just tell when they're gonna flake. I'll give a recent example I matched with this 30 year old chick on hinge. Full bbl and boob job so I already know her shyt flooded on there. I messaged her she took days to respond. Then claimed she been sick...OK we talk a little more I ask her about her plans for the weekend, she says she isn't doing much maybe just hanging out with friends. OK I ask her if she wants to get coffee, she agrees and gives me her number. I text her Thursday...no response until Saturday she says "oh sorry my phone has this in unknown sender"...OK chick obviously playing games. If you're expecting a date this weekend you'd look for a text. I should've deaded it right here I know
Here's the truth a woman with lukewarm interest is worse than a woman with no interest. They will waste your time and string you along if you let them. When that chick always had an excuse for why she hasn't responded in a timely manner that was the hint.
In your case when that girl decided to stay up all night "consoling her roommate" when she knew yall supposed to meet up was your hint. She could've been doing that or she could've been up all night with another guy. Who knows. But the fact she was seen with another dude lets you know what's really going on
Red flags a chick is gonna waste your time:
1. Responds late
2. Full of excuses when asked to hangout
3. Fails to follow through on commitments
When you see this type of shyt save yourself the headache
All this.
Its 2025. Women shoot their shot and message guys wanting to hang out.
You don't have to chase down a chick to hangout and keep plans. Even if yall schedules don't line up she will find a way to make it work if she's interested enough. But this chick was definitely just holding onto you while looking for better options.That's part of the issue dealing with young chicks they are getting a bunch of male attention and they feel like they have unlimited time and options.
Like some women you can just tell when they're gonna flake. I'll give a recent example I matched with this 30 year old chick on hinge. Full bbl and boob job so I already know her shyt flooded on there. I messaged her she took days to respond. Then claimed she been sick...OK we talk a little more I ask her about her plans for the weekend, she says she isn't doing much maybe just hanging out with friends. OK I ask her if she wants to get coffee, she agrees and gives me her number. I text her Thursday...no response until Saturday she says "oh sorry my phone has this in unknown sender"...OK chick obviously playing games. If you're expecting a date this weekend you'd look for a text. I should've deaded it right here I know
Here's the truth a woman with lukewarm interest is worse than a woman with no interest. They will waste your time and string you along if you let them. When that chick always had an excuse for why she hasn't responded in a timely manner that was the hint.
In your case when that girl decided to stay up all night "consoling her roommate" when she knew yall supposed to meet up was your hint. She could've been doing that or she could've been up all night with another guy. Who knows. But the fact she was seen with another dude lets you know what's really going on
Red flags a chick is gonna waste your time:
1. Responds late
2. Full of excuses when asked to hangout
3. Fails to follow through on commitments
When you see this type of shyt save yourself the headache
That same woman will go in TikTok with crocodile tears talking about why she can’t find a man.
Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
you gotta choose the ones that choose you
You need a gang of broads in that case.
Cause a lot of dudes cash out the first time they get some attention, regardless of how into the girl they are.
That should've told him all he needed to know...
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
Free of the baggage and drag of the homegirl with 2 kids and you dealing with the pressure of being step daddy AND free of the bullshyt of one of those flakey broads trying to keep you around for their own benefit..............Free to Run Your Marathon without the nonsense.......definitely a win.Update for the brehs: this bytch that sent that text ghosted me
Totally stopped responding?Update for the brehs: this bytch that sent that text ghosted me
The Jewnited States
Superstar
General Mills
More often than not I tend to take that L.
You know she did not blink when trying to get his money. Damn
