Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[cyndaquil]

I think this was a bit of frustration from feeling like some of the women I've dated aren't close to my level.

I should not be on a date with a woman who doesn't know the difference between "accept" and "except" or there, their and they're.

I also don't think I should be dating a woman whose lifestyle isn't remotely close to mine.

Unfortunately you tend to be what you attract breh. If you're finding women consistently who "aren't on your level" and you aren't some unicorn top 1% person. Then it might be time to look in the mirror.

 

[The ADD]

I think this was a bit of frustration from feeling like some of the women I've dated aren't close to my level.

I should not be on a date with a woman who doesn't know the difference between "accept" and "except" or there, their and they're.

I also don't think I should be dating a woman whose lifestyle isn't remotely close to mine.

How did you meet them and what led you ask them out?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Unfortunately you tend to be what you attract breh. If you're finding women consistently who "aren't on your level" and you aren't some unicorn top 1% person. Then it might be time to look in the mirror.

I'm probably closer to a unicorn than I am to a regular person to be honest. It's just the environment I was in.

I went to an Ivy League school but stayed in a poor blue collar city after graduation and because I worked in the music industry I'm naturally going to be around some of the worst parts of society.

How did you meet them and what led you ask them out?

I used to be a DJ.

I was a pretty popular Dj back in my DJ years and was the resident DJ at the biggest most popular urban night club in the city so I attracted any and everyone.

These are just hangovers from my past life. One particular woman would literally just show up to wherever I was Djing. The woman who doesn't know the difference between "accept" and "except", I'll tell yall the story about her later. Too much to get into right now.

I tend to attract and entertain better women these days and I do feel like I'm closer to finding women who are suitable for me over the past 10 years but there are still hangovers from my 20s and random women popping up.

I've changed careers, I work in sports media for a very well known sports media outlet (a few of you know who I am) and I also bet sports and am very successful doing so. I'm talking 10K-40K on games and that tends to attract both women and men into my lives who want to be apart of that success.

When you have 35K on a game and post the ticket on IG, you can attract just about anyone.

I was betting before it was legal to very little fanfare, chicks would think it was weird......now that betting is everywhere, everyone wants to be a part of that and you're the man for the same shyt that people would have called you a degenerate for 5 years ago.


Edit: I'll add, I'm not even asking out these women. I literally only ask out women who I'm personally interested in. When I was a DJ, they'd literally just inject themselves into my life and make themselves available. Showing up to gigs, jumping in my dms looking for a way in after seeing a Facebook or twitter post. I wrote about being depressed on Facebook once and a chick 10 years older than me jumped in my dms and pretended to be my friend and when I turned her down, she started crying and literally blocked me on everything. Even these days maybe a chick will ask me for my number to teach her how to gamble and the next thing you know, it's like she's trying to throw me the p*ssy.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

How did you meet them and what led you ask them out?

probably like me and likes to frequent the hoodrat appreciation thread...

I like the way they talk, I like the way they walk, I like their Technicolor weave, I like their lack of social grace...

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

I'm probably closer to a unicorn than I am to a regular person to be honest. It's just the environment I was in.

I went to an Ivy League school but stayed in a poor blue collar city after graduation and because I worked in the music industry I'm naturally going to be around some of the worst parts of society.



I used to be a DJ.

I was a pretty popular Dj back in my DJ years and was the resident DJ at the biggest most popular urban night club in the city so I attracted any and everyone.

These are just hangovers from my past life. One particular woman would literally just show up to wherever I was Djing. The woman who doesn't know the difference between "accept" and "except", I'll tell yall the story about her later. Too much to get into right now.

I tend to attract and entertain better women these days and I do feel like I'm closer to finding women who are suitable for me over the past 10 years but there are still hangovers from my 20s and random women popping up.

I've changed careers, I work in sports media for a very well known sports media outlet (a few of you know who I am) and I also bet sports and am very successful doing so. I'm talking 10K-40K on games and that tends to attract both women and men into my lives who want to be apart of that success.

When you have 35K on a game and post the ticket on IG, you can attract just about anyone.

I was betting before it was legal to very little fanfare, chicks would think it was weird......now that betting is everywhere, everyone wants to be a part of that and you're the man for the same shyt that people would have called you a degenerate for 5 years ago.


Edit: I'll add, I'm not even asking out these women. I literally only ask out women who I'm personally interested in. When I was a DJ, they'd literally just inject themselves into my life and made themselves available. Showing up to gigs, jumping in my dms looking for a way in after seeing a Facebook or twitter post. I wrote about being depressed on Facebook once and a chick 10 years older than me jumped in my dms and pretended to be my friend and when I turned her down, she started crying and literally blocked me on everything. Even these days maybe a chick will ask me for my number to teach her how to gamble and the next thing you know, it's like she's trying to throw me the p*ssy.

All jokes aside though...... this a on you..... the girls may "throw" themselves at you, but you CHOOSE to entertain them in whatever capacity that may be. If you've bedded the amount of women that you claim, then for all intents and purposes you know what sex is, you know how it feels, etc. You choosing to still entangle yourself with women of that ilk is down to not remaining disciplined about it.

If you're not finding the women you want, then you have to be proactive and go to the environments they will be in. It will be more work because that isn't what you are used to. Instead what you get is thrown in your lap and it makes one complacent. Easy situations like that atrophy ambition and desire in the given arena.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

All jokes aside though...... this a on you..... the girls may "throw" themselves at you, but you CHOOSE to entertain them in whatever capacity that may be. If you've bedded the amount of women that you claim, then for all intents and purposes you know what sex is, you know how it feels, etc. You choosing to still entangle yourself with women of that ilk is down to not remaining disciplined about it.

If you're not finding the women you want, then you have to be proactive and go to the environments they will be in. It will be more work because that isn't what you are used to. Instead what you get is thrown in your lap and it makes one complacent. Easy situations like that atrophy ambition and desire in the given arena.

yeah I'm not entertaining these women at this point.

I posted what I posted because I truly was taking a hard look at some of my dating patterns and just was sharing my thoughts on what I had on my mind. I realized just how many women I've dated, fukked and dealt with who I had no interest in and at this point I'm truly looking for more.

I've been far more disciplined about what I've been looking for the last 5-7 years.......but occasionally a woman sneaks through the cracks and it's like wtf, why am I even talking to this woman.

Like I said here....

I'm definitely trying to work some things out which is why I shared my thoughts here. I don't want my thoughts to live in the echo chamber of my own mind and I shared them here to see what people would say. Could they relate, am I bugging, etc.

 

[peppe]

i can honestly say I almost NOTHING today. Couldn't care less

 

[Redwood]

i can honestly say I almost NOTHING today. Couldn't care less

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[peppe]

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wrong thread, I'm a dumbass

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[cyndaquil]

Dude sounds like a bytch. Im sorry but get some damn motion and fukk with women who reciprocate. If I'm not doing well with a particular woman I'm not gonna keep giving her energy. I'm gonna keep it moving and continue to stack my paper. Dudes be on dummy missions for chicks. Buying them cars, groceries, cash apping them meanwhile you can get by on like one text a day, some coffee and ice cream dates and be smashing sometimes the same night

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

"texting her good morning at 6am and reminding her to drink water. "

"making scrapbooks for her."

These cacs and cac adjacents are getting in on the Derrixk Jaxn grift heavy now huh??

 

[WIA20XX]

Alrighty then

 

[Apollo Creed]

Dude sounds like a bytch. Im sorry but get some damn motion and fukk with women who reciprocate. If I'm not doing well with a particular woman I'm not gonna keep giving her energy. I'm gonna keep it moving and continue to stack my paper. Dudes be on dummy missions for chicks. Buying them cars, groceries, cash apping them meanwhile you can get by on like one text a day, some coffee and ice cream dates and be smashing sometimes the same night

Most women have no lives, at best any bread you spend should be on shyt you wanna do and you just extend the invite to tag along lol. nikkas talking bytches to paint and sips and Beyonce concerts for the HOPE of sex no

 

[cyndaquil]

Most women have no lives, at best any bread you spend should be on shyt you wanna do and you just extend the invite to tag along lol. nikkas talking bytches to paint and sips and Beyonce concerts for the HOPE of sex no

some of us like to paint and sip sir

ignoring the prompt and drawing Goku fighting vegeta while drunk