Man i've tried being the nice guy for 30 years, that has gotten me no where... I don't mean the push over, yes masta type nikka either. But legit nice dude and all that, who and just likes to chill and go out and have a good time....I swear if you don't fight with a chick and make them feel threaten they don't know how to act....
Any and every time I hook up with a chick I go out in amood or I'm like chick
up....of course they flock to me. Its like they have a "clearly this nikka is just trying to do himself tonight" radar. I want to be proven wrong, but these ladies just keep re enforcing that a nice dude isn't what they want until they can barely bare children.
Got my head hurt'n over here
I feel you. It seems like if you are a halfway decent dude (not a nice guy), females always want to try to give you problems. But if you are a doggish/a$$hole dude in the literal sense, females are more respectful towards you, thus not causing problems. This has had a negative affect on me because for a while now I have felt that being the decent/respectful dude I was raised to be only subjects me to bullshyt and being a literal a$$hole is the only way to avoid it.
At this point, I believe that a guy who is a generally decent person would be better off checking out of the dating game since he is usually a loser in it while the guy who is doggish/a$$hole is a certified winner. Women have shown what they truly value with their actions (not their words)and it is certainly not the decent dudes. It is a fukked up way of thinking but at the same time, I have experienced/seen a lot of things that make it easy for me to think this way.
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we flexx 'n all year round breh
She was family to me. It'sa small wonder why she dropped off the social media map. Stuff like that usually blows up locally before it ever aggregates.
. I kinda want to just wife something up and just chill but in 2013 I already know it aint going to happen