Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Yeah my sentiments as well which is why I asked. Lol. I’m enjoying the peace and alone time but I know eventually I’ll want something more. More often than not it always fizzles out sooner rather than later. I don’t ever remember struggling to keep a relationship going in the past. Things are different now. My last long term relationship 2+ years ended late 2021. So for going on 4 years I haven’t had anything last longer than a few months with my last relationship being the longest (8 months). And in 70% of the situations the chick made the decision to end it. It is what it is.

Yea man. I think we all can tell that something has changed. My last relationship was in 2023 and what used to work doesnt. We can pin point the symptoms and even some of the causes but nobody knows the remedy/treatment other than traveling abroad and just not caring anymore.

Thing about the latter is you cant force yourself to not care; you either do or you go through so much Bs that you eventually dont. And thats not necessarily a good place to be in either

 

[Ohene]

Also one thing people dont talk about when considering the numbers game approach to dating is the impact it can have on your self esteem.

Its good to be desensitized to rejection but if you really out there approaching and going out on dates it will eventually take a toll on you. Everyone has their limit. Trust me

 

[Canon]

Yea man. I think we all can tell that something has changed. My last relationship was in 2023 and what used to work doesnt. We can pin point the symptoms and even some of the causes but nobody knows the remedy/treatment other than traveling abroad and just not caring anymore.

Thing about the latter is you cant force yourself to not care; you either do or you go through so much Bs that you eventually dont. And thats not necessarily a good place to be in either

100% agree with this

something has changed

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah my sentiments as well which is why I asked. Lol. I’m enjoying the peace and alone time but I know eventually I’ll want something more. More often than not it always fizzles out sooner rather than later. I don’t ever remember struggling to keep a relationship going in the past. Things are different now. My last long term relationship 2+ years ended late 2021. So for going on 4 years I haven’t had anything last longer than a few months with my last relationship being the longest (8 months). And in 70% of the situations the chick made the decision to end it. It is what it is.

Find hobbies. Never be in the habit of doing something to find women. Most women are hermits with no lives, thus you find hobbies that bring you fulfillment and meet people on that journey. When you go hunting for women you run into the BS. When you have actual hobbies you tend to be too focused on experiencing life

 

[The ADD]

Happens often
Might be a new trend

Im not surprised. They aren’t wise to work out in. You will scratch them up or worse. Some people wear silicone bands but I feel like women are less likely to do that.

Was just generally wondering.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

If this is real this is dope af

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Also one thing people dont talk about when considering the numbers game approach to dating is the impact it can have on your self esteem.

Its good to be desensitized to rejection but if you really out there approaching and going out on dates it will eventually take a toll on you. Everyone has their limit. Trust me

The flake rate in 2012 was like 15 percent
Now it’s 76 percent

 

[Brandsdale]

nikkaz don’t believe me, but church is the PERFECT place to meet women. 98% of the time you don’t even have to approach…..they’ll approach you or they mom/aunt/granny gonna drag them to you to make an introduction.

Meh

Tried that and it ain’t work lol

Everyone there married and the only new people that join are folks that are much older and possibly divorced

 

[Apollo Creed]

The flake rate in 2012 was like 15 percent
Now it’s 76 percent

Honestly never been flaked in the USA as if we chatting and the energy isn't there I just ghost.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Meh

Tried that and it ain’t work lol

Everyone there married and the only new people that join are folks that are much older and possibly divorced

I’m Muslim but last week I drove by the church around 11am


Holy so much heat..saw so much ass
No disrespect to my Christian brothers
Was tempted to go in

 

[The ADD]

I’m Muslim but last week I drove by the church around 11am


Holy so much heat..saw so much ass
No disrespect to my Christian brothers
Was tempted to go in

Brodeur

 

[WIA20XX]

 

[Kasgoinjail]

If this is real this is dope af

Damn man this thread be looking like the Random Thought's Thread

Anyways its kinda relevant because most these hoes are 87% plastic now

 

[Brandsdale]

I’m Muslim but last week I drove by the church around 11am


Holy so much heat..saw so much ass
No disrespect to my Christian brothers
Was tempted to go in

lol im assuming this a Ghanian church?

 

[BlaccSunrise]

Took this from the soccer thread. BALL KNOWLEDGE

"Never sign a player who has played for Saudi clubs"