Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I think maybe the point is that you gain momentum in talking to people in general through your hobbies

a couple general convos with someone at your run/bike club, gym, coffee shop, school/work etc., can lead to you being more inclined to talk to most women you find attractive.

Not sure if it works for everyone but its worked for me and I be a shy nikka sometimes too lol :hubie:
Its also that women find us more attractive when we're doing things we enjoy/are good at/not trying too hard

If nothing else showing some social capital outside lets women know you're not a full on weirdo
 

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I think maybe the point is that you gain momentum in talking to people in general through your hobbies

a couple general convos with someone at your run/bike club, gym, coffee shop, school/work etc., can lead to you being more inclined to talk to most women you find attractive.

Not sure if it works for everyone but its worked for me and I be a shy nikka sometimes too lol :hubie:
Hobbies build social circles and people with similar interest, Social Circles has always been the best way to meet people of the opposite sex. If you have hobbies you are meeting humans who have similar interest as you and likely there will be women in that mix that you can have organic convo with vs all the I need to impress her holla monster shyt, And a chick being out and about = she isn't a weirdo likely. The fact dudes are talking against hobbies shows us why this thread is almost 7000 pages
 

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Its also that women find us more attractive when we're doing things we enjoy/are good at/not trying too hard

If nothing else showing some social capital outside lets women know you're not a full on weirdo

my thing is we get one life lol who the fukk wants to go through life experiencing nothing but sleep and work? Like fukk women, nikkas are talking against having purpose or finding things they enjoy? lol I enjoy boxing and sometimes travel solo fight fights and always spark up convo with people around me male or female. Going to a bar to watch some event yields the same, shyt I went and saw Wu tang and Kendrick Solo and had convo with the folks around me. Being well rounded and enjoying shyt means you can find happiness within yourself and not that toxic shyt whee you need a woman to make you happy because you aren't anything but a worker drone. And shyt being a man who is into shyt literally wins you over with women cause women mold to who they with and you end up putting her up on shyt and y'all enjoying shyt together vs you feeling like its a chore to be around her and keep her entertained.
 
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my thing is we get one life lol who the fukk wants to go through life experiencing nothing but sleep and work? Like fukk women, nikkas are talking against having purpose or finding things they enjoy? lol I enjoy boxing and sometimes travel solo fight fights and always spark up convo with people around me male or female. Going to a bar to watch some event yields the same, shyt I went and saw Wu tang and Kendrick Solo and had convo with the folks around me. Being well rounded and enjoying shyt means you can find happiness within yourself and not that toxic shyt whee you need a woman to make you happy because you aren't anything but a worker drone. And shyt being a man who is into shyt literally wins you over with women cause women mold to who they with and you end up putting her up on shyt and y'all enjoying shyt together vs you feeling like its a chore to be around her and keep her entertained.
Literally my life philosophy right there. Switch out boxing for muay thaii and it's like for like
 

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my thing is we get one life lol who the fukk wants to go through life experiencing nothing but sleep and work? Like fukk women, nikkas are talking against having purpose or finding things they enjoy? lol I enjoy boxing and sometimes travel solo fight fights and always spark up convo with people around me male or female. Going to a bar to watch some event yields the same, shyt I went and saw Wu tang and Kendrick Solo and had convo with the folks around me. Being well rounded and enjoying shyt means you can find happiness within yourself and not that toxic shyt whee you need a woman to make you happy because you aren't anything but a worker drone. And shyt being a man who is into shyt literally wins you over with women cause women mold to who they with and you end up putting her up on shyt and y'all enjoying shyt together vs you feeling like its a chore to be around her and keep her entertained.
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@re'up is this true ??


the fact is most women are underemployed/broke and dont have friends so they are hermits. Most tricks deal with a pipeline of Sex Workers and the avg dude sees no point in clubs so at best you get the periodic girls trip we going out crowds in major cities but the "local" culture of a scene is most places have died outside of hobby related things in which shyt most women dont even have hobbies so there is that (but you can argue the ones who do are of some what quality at least from a human interaction perspective).
 

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the fact is most women are underemployed/broke and dont have friends so they are hermits. Most tricks deal with a pipeline of Sex Workers and the avg dude sees no point in clubs so at best you get the periodic girls trip we going out crowds in major cities but the "local" culture of a scene is most places have died outside of hobby related things in which shyt most women dont even have hobbies so there is that (but you can argue the ones who do are of some what quality at least from a human interaction perspective).
Even local run clubs have dried up
Cat out the bag
 
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