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TIk Tok is highly highly addictive. When I see friends scroll through it, it's almost stunning for me to watch in real life. It's so obviously unhealthy. Cigarettes and slot machines are one thing, but Tik Tok is legitimized by the media and our entire society.

When I have been someone else's bed seeing someone scroll their IG, it feels like that Nietsczhe quote, "if you are stare long enough into the abyss, it starts to stare back"
 
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TIk Tok is highly highly addictive. When I see friends scroll through it, it's almost stunning for me to watch in real life. It's so obviously unhealthy. Cigarettes and slot machines are one thing, but Tik Tok is legitimized by the media and our entire society.

When I have been someone else's bed seeing someone scroll their IG, it feels like that Nietsczhe quote, "if you are stare long enough into the abyss, it starts to stare back"


Chick I'm messing with right now likes to mindlessly scroll through tiktok or IG while laying in bed. It is absolute insanity when I watch it in action. Video clips of mostly dumbass bullshyt, each one engineered to be a mini terrorist hijacking your emotions and assaulting your senses. And just as quick as you assimilate to the context of the video....SWIPE! Next one. SWIPE! next thing. And to know that each one of those swipes is timed, catalogued, compared, sorted and then used to find you MORE of that bullshyt.... . :wow: I can't even fathom what this will do to an impressionable kids brain

She be trying to show me clips here and there on some "OMG watch this one!" And I hit every single one with a :hhh: even if that shyt IS funny or entertaining I'm hitting it with a :martin: just off principle. I tell her that shyt is wack and she needs to read a book instead. Call me a hater I don't give a fukk. I refuse to submit to that shyt. I think it might end up doing as much damage to society as a whole as cigarettes, sugar and its substitutes, and white people. This is modern day MKULTRA and all the more effective because of its massive scale and reach and the fact that people are willingly signing up to feed powers that be their TIME AND ATTENTION. They are being programmed so effectively and the majority of users don't understand that. They think because they can swipe in multiple directions that they are still in control. Nope. The ideas and images and rhetoric that we are exposed to will undoubtedly shape our beliefs about the world, and ourselves, and ourselves within that world. If the "black box" algorithm is in charge of all your sources because you use tiktok for news, entertainment, fashion, music, sports etc etc then you are no longer free. You are being carefully sculpted, video by video, to be a slave to the platform. To be what they want you to be: another mindless dummy devoid of critical thinking skills, and even better, without the patience or attention span to research the myriad ways we as a society are collectively getting fukked.

We live in a world where "brainrot" is a legit phenomenon happening to people throughout the ranks of our society. " Tiktok brain" grannies gonna be baby sitting some "iPad kids" while the " gen-z stare" parents go to jobs they can't hold down because they wanna quiet quit after getting shamed for not being able to read and write cursive (my homeboy told me about an intern that got fired from his company for literally not being able to do the research the job required because he couldn't read the cursive written on old documents). :mjlol:

Don't mind me, I'm just ranting like the bitter ass muhfukka that I am :yeshrug: I saw a college chick pull out a mini tripod from her back pack, put her phone on the tripod on a table, back up 20 feet or so and begin to do some wack ass dance to no music, all by herself. She grabbed the phone, watched the video back and then filmed another take. I saw this from across the park and had to literally SMH. This performative way of existence is some of the WACKEST shyt ever :camby:
 
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No wonder single mothers are easy. A lot of them that are on there HATE being a parent :wow: Like legit hate their kid, to the point they are angry they can't leave to buy milk like the father :wow:
Women being easy just got being single mothers is a myth.

Saw this shìt for 3+ years at work and stood out because my mother made me food. And just about all these men are middle aged with age-appropriate wives. One of the reasons I'm a GMB general.
Any rich nikka isnt going to be doing financial dating. Same day tricking yea. :mjgrin:

I know a few chicks that only date rich men. Now at 37 they are going through it. They only have a used p*ssy and experiences.

This one guy cheated on her with a newer model and kicked her out. Chick had to move back home because everything was in his name.

Its a cold game that goes both ways.

Once you come to a point where you have a excess of money it really doesnt feel like tricking if you have it.

If you make 20k a month you are in the 1% where im from. A true luxury penthouse apartment is 1.5-2k a month.

Now imagine you making 50k as a single man. You think im going to feel going out to dinner to some 3 star restaurant? All the while you are gassed because you went to a 3 star restaurant and gave up p*ssy.

If most bytches would do financial dating they would get ran through so damn fast.
Is this Mexico? Lol
 

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Chick I'm messing with right now likes to mindlessly scroll through tiktok or IG while laying in bed. It is absolute insanity when I watch it in action. Video clips of mostly dumbass bullshyt, each one engineered to be a mini terrorist hijacking your emotions and assaulting your senses. And just as quick as you assimilate to the context of the video....SWIPE! Next one. SWIPE! next thing. And to know that each one of those swipes is timed, catalogued, compared, sorted and then used to find you MORE of that bullshyt.... . :wow: I can't even phathom what this will do to an impressionable kids brain

She be trying to show me clips here and there on some "OMG watch this one!" And I hit every single one with a :hhh: even if that shyt IS funny or entertaining I'm hitting it with a :martin: just off principle. I tell her that shyt is wack and she needs to read a book instead. Call me a hater I don't give a fukk. I refuse to submit to that shyt. I think it might end up doing as much damage to society as a whole as cigarettes, sugar and its substitutes, and white people. This is modern day MKULTRA and all the more effective because of its massive scale and reach and the fact that people are willingly signing up to feed powers that be their TIME AND ATTENTION. They are being programmed so effectively and the majority of users don't understand that. They think because they can swipe in multiple directions that they are still in control. Nope. The ideas and images and rhetoric that we are exposed to will undoubtedly shape our beliefs about the world, and ourselves, and ourselves within that world. If the "black box" algorithm is in charge of all your sources because you use tiktok for news, entertainment, fashion, music, sports etc etc then you are no longer free. You are being carefully sculpted, video by video, to be a slave to the platform. To be what they want you to be: another mindless dummy devoid of critical thinking skills, and even better, without the patience or attention span to research the myriad ways we as a society are collectively getting fukked.

We live in a world where "brainrot" is a legit phenomenon happening to people throughout the ranks of our society. " Tiktok brain" grannies gonna be baby sitting some "iPad kids" while the " gen-z stare" parents go to jobs they can't hold down because they wanna quiet quit after getting shamed for not being able to read and write cursive (my homeboy told me about an intern that got fired from his company for literally not being able to do the research the job required because he couldn't read the cursive written on old documents). :mjlol:

Don't mind me, I'm just ranting like the bitter ass muhfukka that I am :yeshrug: I saw a college chick pull out a mini tripod from her back pack, put her phone on the tripod on a table, back up 20 feet or so and begin to do some wack ass dance to no music, all by herself. She grabbed the phone, watched the video back and then filmed another take. I saw this from across the park and had to literally SMH. This performative way of existence is some of the WACKEST shyt ever :camby:
lol my second book is about this among other things

Consumerism/capitalism is trapping society right now and ppl too dumb to realize it. Gambling, social media, drug legalization, bnpl, food delivery apps, AI

All of it is numbing ppl out and dumbing ppl down under the guise of “convenience”

I’m thirty pages deep
You better cop it
 

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It's not 2018 anymore. Like @Apollo Creed said you literally have to take things day by day. You have to realize that no matter what kinda feedback/energy you getting from a chick, she is liable to disappear or switch up at a moments notice. This is ESPECIALLY the case if youre dating a woman who is Generation Z. I cannot say it enough. These women are getting flown out, tricked on, DMed and liked on dating apps more than you realize and it is completely skewing their expectations of what it means to date or be in a relationship.

Coming out of my last relationship (which i talked about here a bit) in 2023, it honestly look me a while to adapt to how much things have changed and I have made strides lol but I am still learning. It's simply a different ball game now. For instance, back then women used to save your number. Now, it probably takes a solid 3 dates before a chick will even do that. They are all playing defense and expect you to chase/hound them. The ironic thing is the more you do that, they more youll turn them off. They are overstimulated and operating out of fear. Even the good girls who come from good upbringings are being indoctrinated by all the bullshyt pushed via reality TV and social networks. And then they probably got friends who are hoes/living that sensational lifestyle and thus influencing them.

So never feel like a chick is "yours" and take things day by day. Just enjoy the time you spend with a chick and try to smash. That "courting" shyt is dead.
the game has changed soo much, even men in these spaces can be behind the curve in some aspects. Social media taking off and essentially giving people access to your women in unlimited ways is just something most cant wrap their heads around. I remember telling friends before this decade that women would have their sex tapes on their IG/social media by the end of '20s not knowing how it would happen but just stating the slippery slope. Whats funny is even strippers used to laugh at the women who did onlyfans at that time. Covid happens they ALL hop on and now I can go a week with "normal" working women trying to justify why its ok.

Was talking to a chick I known for years, asked for my email attached to account. I get a paypal alert for $500. She laughs and shows me messages from some random dude on IG who said he just wanted t send her money. That was his opening statement. This a regular good looking chick in early 30s with like 2k followers. Doesnt even really do social media in that way. But that is a siren call for alot of women (you see the thread about the tennis player doing OF saying its the easiest money she has made? When men read it and when women read it, they have two different reactions)

Women live in abundance already but were limited before, even down here alot of good looking women dont be outside like that but with social media, the whole world can get at your girl. She is always accessible to her exes and checks on them to see how they doing, allows for discreet communication that you will never be aware of, its soo much that goes into it. It makes no sense. I have had conversations with chick on socials that let me know first qtr they got someone, even on cash app going back n forth with a dollar :mjlol:..
 

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the game has changed soo much, even men in these spaces can be behind the curve in some aspects. Social media taking off and essentially giving people access to your women in unlimited ways is just something most cant wrap their heads around. I remember telling friends before this decade that women would have their sex tapes on their IG/social media by the end of '20s not knowing how it would happen but just stating the slippery slope. Whats funny is even strippers used to laugh at the women who did onlyfans at that time. Covid happens they ALL hop on and now I can go a week with "normal" working women trying to justify why its ok.

Was talking to a chick I known for years, asked for my email attached to account. I get a paypal alert for $500. She laughs and shows me messages from some random dude on IG who said he just wanted t send her money. That was his opening statement. This a regular good looking chick in early 30s with like 2k followers. Doesnt even really do social media in that way. But that is a siren call for alot of women (you see the thread about the tennis player doing OF saying its the easiest money she has made? When men read it and when women read it, they have two different reactions)

Women live in abundance already but were limited before, even down here alot of good looking women dont be outside like that but with social media, the whole world can get at your girl. She is always accessible to her exes and checks on them to see how they doing, allows for discreet communication that you will never be aware of, its soo much that goes into it. It makes no sense. I have had conversations with chick on socials that let me know first qtr they got someone, even on cash app going back n forth with a dollar :mjlol:..

Ultimately social media and pop culture has completed the transformation where women are fine being prostitutes as long as you dont call them one.

Like i said before men have always dealt with wins and loses and “deal with who rocks with you”, but the issue is the inability to plan a future in this enviornmemt.

The take things day by day isnt fun but it is necessary unfortunately.
 

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Ultimately social media and pop culture has completed the transformation where women are fine being prostitutes as long as you dont call them one.

Like i said before men have always dealt with wins and loses and “deal with who rocks with you”, but the issue is the inability to plan a future in this enviornmemt.

The take things day by day isnt fun but it is necessary unfortunately.
I knew it was over when I met this regular girl everyday Chick
And she got a million TikTok followers


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I knew it was when I met this regular girl everyday Chick
And she got a million TikTok followers


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Its the whole Metaverse thing, Online these folks are the most important people ever while in the real world they are nobody lol.

That chick with 1k followers has 5-20 dudes orbiting and giving her dopamine hits which is her escape even though in the real world she is a hermit and lonely. Its how women get lost in scrolling and essentially the "training" happened where in between talking to their orbits they are picking up the same ideologies the algorithm feed them.

I got a fat overweight single mom family member who my sister told me is telling nikkas on dating apps they need to pay for her baby sitter if they want to go out with her.

In my head I`m thinking how desperate are men that they would even swipe on her, and this is my blood relative who I feel needs to be working on herself yet she doesn't need to because "somebody wants it".
 

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The Media is not helping



You have youth now saying they want to be influencers when they grow up. I remember dealing with a chick in her early 20s in like 2021, always changing her college major to wild varying shyt (pre med to law to whatever) and then saying she wants to become a YouTuber lol Back then I just ignored it as random babble but now these folks serious and the Covid Economy especially created booms of everyone wanting to do content, or they some crypto expert, etc. Anything but normal
 

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Ultimately social media and pop culture has completed the transformation where women are fine being prostitutes as long as you dont call them one.

Like i said before men have always dealt with wins and loses and “deal with who rocks with you”, but the issue is the inability to plan a future in this enviornmemt.

The take things day by day isnt fun but it is necessary unfortunately.
The fact they can break bad at any moment is what makes it difficult for most. Most regular brehs arent built for that, even what I have seen most playas in game just want to know they can put some scores on board and then lock something down. Social media has turned a generation into walking dead, its interesting to see how fast it spread internationally even.



Whats funny (or not) is this type of stuff was washed away with propaganda that I know had to be psyop when they broadcast tpain in luv with stripper/aint tricking if you got it/you can have whatever you like/make it rain all in short order BEFORE they dropped the social media nuke.

I knew it was over when I met this regular girl everyday Chick
And she got a million TikTok followers


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Its why Tiktk became popular, it is the platform where anyone can go viral and build a huge following. Same chick can have 5k on ig, barely 1k on yt but tiktok is going crazy.. I will repeat it is the most efficient algorithm ever created in that space. There is a reason everyone wanted it out of the paint because they couldnt copy it. We know the studies of brain rot coming out..

If you can last maybe 10-15 minutes of babble, this give enough insight.

 

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You have youth now saying they want to be influencers when they grow up. I remember dealing with a chick in her early 20s in like 2021, always changing her college major to wild varying shyt (pre med to law to whatever) and then saying she wants to become a YouTuber lol Back then I just ignored it as random babble but now these folks serious and the Covid Economy especially created booms of everyone wanting to do content, or they some crypto expert, etc. Anything but normal


This researcher was talking about this 8 years ago
 

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The fact they can break bad at any moment is what makes it difficult for most. Most regular brehs arent built for that, even what I have seen most playas in game just want to know they can put some scores on board and then lock something down. Social media has turned a generation into walking dead, its interesting to see how fast it spread internationally even.



Whats funny (or not) is this type of stuff was washed away with propaganda that I know had to be psyop when they broadcast tpain in luv with stripper/aint tricking if you got it/you can have whatever you like/make it rain all in short order BEFORE they dropped the social media nuke.


Its why Tiktk became popular, it is the platform where anyone can go viral and build a huge following. Same chick can have 5k on ig, barely 1k on yt but tiktok is going crazy.. I will repeat it is the most efficient algorithm ever created in that space. There is a reason everyone wanted it out of the paint because they couldnt copy it. We know the studies of brain rot coming out..

If you can last maybe 10-15 minutes of babble, this give enough insight.




the ladies men type usually fall into two buckets
1.Breh has seen so much of female nature he comes jaded and deep down knows he can never commit and at best may just father a child with a girlfriend - an example to me is Tyson Beckford lol no homo but breh isn't married for a reason even though he will talk up some idealistic fantasy love to pander to women and smash

2. Breh runs the score up and more so commits way later in life and is the "old man with a new born" married father where he knows he is in the last 20-30 years of life so just starting his family with someone who isn't a headache (meaning a simple woman who is his polar opposite).
 
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