Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

My boy and I were talking just this week about how much prostitution has become a part of modern life/dating for men and women. I'm 39, grew up in San Diego, right across from Tijuana, so I went to my first strip club when I was 14 years old. I saw this up close and personal as a minor, but back then, it wasn't something that was like celebrated. We kept it on the low. We didn't tell everyone, def. not the women in our social circles. He said the world revolves around prostitutes now.

Now, from a male perspective, it's like half the guys I know are tricks, and it's openly embraced. It's wild. Guys who are in no way socially impaired or deficient, their whole thing is paying for sex. And it's the younger generation too. Like early 20's, these kids are going down to Hong Kong (infamous spot in TJ) and that's the beginning and end of their relationship with women and sex.

 

[Apollo Creed]

My boy and I were talking just this week about how much prostitution has become a part of modern life/dating for men and women. I'm 39, grew up in San Diego, right across from Tijuana, so I went to my first strip club when I was 14 years old. I saw this up close and personal as a minor, but back then, it wasn't something that was like celebrated. We kept it on the low. We didn't tell everyone, def. not the women in our social circles. He said the world revolves around prostitutes now.

Now, from a male perspective, it's like half the guys I know are tricks, and it's openly embraced. It's wild. Guys who are in no way socially impaired or deficient, their whole thing is paying for sex. And it's the younger generation too. Like early 20's, these kids are going down to Hong Kong (infamous spot in TJ) and that's the beginning and end of their relationship with women and sex.

If prostitution was LEGAL it would dead all the games. The people who want relationships would do it and the people who want fun have a legal lane. It would kill the us vs them games. Its idiotic countties far more “conservative” than the USA legalize it

 

[WIA20XX]

Like it don’t fails to happen they always put they hand out at some point if the texting conversation

We're truly living in the worst timeline.

When broads really reduce access to the to mere financial transaction...they've lost, and then society has lost.

 

[re'up]

I actually met a straight up escort the other day, the whole BBL package, and she gave me the number almost instantly, (which was off to me) she was on the low with it, but I knew. She didn't hit me with any of the bullshyt about expensive dinners. She wasn't trying to line me up for a paid date either, she was just hiding it. Because of how we met, she's thinking she can date me normal, like I can get a man. Her girl knows one of my boys, and I am sure she told her my boy is a baller. Which is somewhat true, but not like the old days lol

What gave her away was a Valentino purse, but cheap shoes. Her speaking style was pretty rough. Porsche Macan. Comes to SD 4 days a week, but doesn't know anyone. oh and she said she went to the casino and played poker like 4 days a week. Straight up escort shyt.

and I was halfway down anyway, because when she said the casino, I asked her

Do you set limits and walk away or do you keep going

and she looked at me all crazy and said I usually go past my limits

Those are the little cues and subtext in conversations that I try to pick up on.

 

[Ohene]

I actually met a straight up escort the other day, the whole BBL package, and she gave me the number almost instantly, (which was off to me) she was on the low with it, but I knew. She didn't hit me with any of the bullshyt about expensive dinners. She wasn't trying to line me up for a paid date either, she was just hiding it. Because of how we met, she's thinking she can date me normal, like I can get a man. Her girl knows one of my boys, and I am sure she told her my boy is a baller. Which is somewhat true, but not like the old days lol

What gave her away was a Valentino purse, but cheap shoes. Her speaking style was pretty rough. Porsche Macan. Comes to SD 4 days a week, but doesn't know anyone. oh and she said she went to the casino and played poker like 4 days a week. Straight up escort shyt.

and I was halfway down anyway, because when she said the casino, I asked her

Do you set limits and walk away or do you keep going

and she looked at me all crazy and said I usually go past my limits

Those are the little cues and subtext in conversations that I try to pick up on.

lol i know an escort too. some thick, blond white girl

its interesting picking their brains and shyt. she would agree with everything we're saying. shorty was telling me how in her mind that there isnt much difference between a bottle girl vs. only fans chick vs a stripper, they all selling sex at the end of the day.

 

[WIA20XX]

lol i know an escort too. some thick, blond white girl

its interesting picking their brains and shyt. she would agree with everything we're saying. shorty was telling me how in her mind that there isnt much difference between a bottle girl vs. only fans chick vs a stripper, they all selling sex at the end of the day.

But Girlfriends cost much more than pay for play. Wives cost the most of all.

With a chick that "loves" you - the love is conditional and often temporary.

So all that time money and effort that you put into a relationship, way more than if you were to go to a services provider.

Once you assess things in financial terms, p4p is the only way.

And that is the problem, reducing complex things to merely tangible results.

Education? Naw, B it's about grades.
Family? I'll just pay for the nursing home.

It's nihilism really

 

[Apollo Creed]

lol i know an escort too. some thick, blond white girl

its interesting picking their brains and shyt. she would agree with everything we're saying. shorty was telling me how in her mind that there isnt much difference between a bottle girl vs. only fans chick vs a stripper, they all selling sex at the end of the day.

This is the thing a lot of men dont get, it takes a certain type of human to do sex work as they have to be able to turn off their humanity in order to compartmentalize sex in a non human way.

The issue IMO why I said Prostitution needs to be legal is you have many women NOT ABOUT THAT LIFE, COSPLAYING being 304s hoping to find a sucker who wants to be a "gentleman" which makes zero sense. A proper 304 is not wasting time playing games because time is money and their reputation is everything. Also in the same sense 304s are still women and will confine in a man still, this is why dudes get confused about "Why do pimps even exist in the internet age" or a 304 will actually date male sex workers since they understand each other, or they get out the game move and change their identity and just find a normal ass dude who is just happen to be with a woman.

Cosplaying 304s are muddying the water because they tryna play girlfriend/wife too. Like if we doing a transaction lets get it, but what are we playing games for and then you seeking direct or indirect compensation? lol

I have never had a woman approach me as a trick in real life, and if you do get that energy you need to work on yourself and your mind because either you giving customer energy or you are into a certain type.

Loltta dudes dont know about many male pornstars/escorts get put in the game by women who are 304s too and if not porn the whole pipeline in becoming a kept man.

Even in other countries dudes will brag about tricking on some 304 with a BBL who looks like a model, and she giving all her money to some bum ass dude who is dropping off your food or just sitting in the crib lol, she taking that man on vacation with the money some simp sends.

A lot of dudes have not been exposed to this side of the game. This is why I`m like I have no judgement against REAL 304s, I`m more so annoyed with game goofy chicks cosplaying shyt they heard on a rap song, its like get out the street because you will get hurt and unfortunately by the day more men are becoming desensitized and will not feel bad when something bad happens to a square who wanted to cosplay. Its how all this soft life sugar baby stuff is getting square ass chicks killed.

 

[Apollo Creed]

But Girlfriends cost much more than pay for play. Wives cost the most of all.

With a chick that "loves" you - the love is conditional and often temporary.

So all that time money and effort that you put into a relationship, way more than if you were to go to a services provider.

Once you assess things in financial terms, p4p is the only way.

And that is the problem, reducing complex things to merely tangible results.

Education? Naw, B it's about grades.
Family? I'll just pay for the nursing home.

It's nihilism really

this could be narcissism that society installs in us, but as a man you gotta get a woman who is more into you than you are her if you want to actually do the commitment thing lol.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

lol i know an escort too. some thick, blond white girl

its interesting picking their brains and shyt. she would agree with everything we're saying. shorty was telling me how in her mind that there isnt much difference between a bottle girl vs. only fans chick vs a stripper, they all selling sex at the end of the day.

Almost impossible to find a 8+ attractive female that’s not monetizing her looks

 

[Apollo Creed]

Almost impossible to find a 8+ attractive female that’s not monetizing her looks

Most dudes would be blessed to marry a so called 5/6 lol. I dont use the number system but IMO no such thing as a 10, but I will argue 8/9 = Monetizing looks, 7/high 7 low 8 = Stay at home wife. 5-6 Cut chick who can look better depending on style and fitness level.

Most humans are not attractive but fall into preference buckets, IMO 6 is like a Universal Cute, where she may not be your preference but you can still admit she is cute/get why someone thinks she is attractive.

 

[Ahadi]

add the whole world. women are all the same, only thing different is the laws of the land that allow certain things to be more rampant than others. Dudes turn their brain off because they tink someone is different and get hit with the same game.

African women tend to be gang goofy because they cosplay the American women they see on social media so they come off as awkward if that makes sense. Like Latinas have their own swag which yields their own game, African women aren't smooth with their hustle at all so usually dudes get got because they get extra goofy due to romanticizing Africa as the land of tradition not realizing in most of the world traditional women get married early to people of their tribe/social circle, so the women you see out and about are usually the women nobody wants. But depending on what you want, you can find a chick who is a hard worker and will contribute and even be on some 50/50 or 70/30 stuff she just won't be dolled up, just a regular natural cute chick.

Dolled up women in countries with shytty GDPs = Red Flag

Then add the recent news about their HIV rates and the girls running after older men



A mess over there.

 

[Ahadi]

Social media is a disease

Meanwhile you got high school girls talking like this

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Meanwhile you got high school girls talking like this

The “provider mentality”

Getting worse every year

2019 feels like 3 decades ago

 

[Apollo Creed]

Meanwhile you got high school girls talking like this

Same South African women will say all the men committing femicide or how all the Nigerian men tricking on numerous women (like who the fukk things getting tricked on = love).

This shyt is taking over the globe but black people are always the first victims.

Folks living in 3rd world countries that dont have stable electricity (SA is richest country technically on the African continent yet has load shedding yet places like Colombia have a lower GDP and dont have that and have fiber internet everywherE).

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Most dudes would be blessed to marry a so called 5/6 lol. I dont use the number system but IMO no such thing as a 10, but I will argue 8/9 = Monetizing looks, 7/high 7 low 8 = Stay at home wife. 5-6 Cut chick who can look better depending on style and fitness level.

Most humans are not attractive but fall into preference buckets, IMO 6 is like a Universal Cute, where she may not be your preference but you can still admit she is cute/get why someone thinks she is attractive.

Man it’s so bad out here for men..went out to this event last night ..the few people who were paired up were couples

Casual hooks are so dead now