Cause They have no intentions of meeting them lolNotice how these women don’t even save numbers anymore
It’s disrespectful
Cause They have no intentions of meeting them lol
Thats the part I am most interested in. How all that extra social media/attention/stimulus has affected people. She's like living in a friends couch or something, she's from down here.
Also, all these friend groups, esp. the ones like hers, are governed by and defined by with like all these social rules and norms, mostly enforced through social media or brunch invites, that are constantly being added and changed. It's really wild. I am interested in that too. Her friend has always flirted with me, but never gone anywhere else, so I just crossed that bridge, give me your friends number.
been saying this for years and its the main reason i am kinda unplugging. it just isnt worth it when you consider how lopsided shyt isThe conversation is always "what do men need to be better" , but how comes its never "women need to be better?" Society just allows them to act like this.
The conversation is always "what do men need to be better" , but how comes its never "women need to be better?" Society just allows them to act like this.
I joke about it with my friends, but I say that I only hang around for the lust/honeymoon stage now. It is definitely because of what you allude due to my experiences. It sucks on one hand because the aspirstion of "healthy family unit" has been completely removed from my expectstions, now I go in with a hedonistic view and "enjoy the moments" for what they are....... def not conducive to long term healthy growth in that arena, but it is where things have been going socially.... unfortunately.been saying this for years and its the main reason i am kinda unplugging. it just isnt worth it when you consider how lopsided shyt is
do everything to keep the relationship afloat...and yet suffer all the blame (or even consequences) when shyt goes awry. dudes are waking up though
lol it's a shame. was there once a time that you wanted a long term relationship, family etc?I joke about it with my friends, but I say that I only hang around for the lust/honeymoon stage now. It is definitely because of what you allude due to my experiences. It sucks on one hand because the aspirstion of "healthy family unit" has been completely removed from my expectstions, now I go in with a hedonistic view and "enjoy the moments" for what they are....... def not conducive to long term healthy growth in that arena, but it is where things have been going socially.... unfortunately.
For sure... when I was in my early - mid 20's...granted at that time I was a man whore playing the field., but I was not immune to the "wholesome narratives" (even characterizing it like that now may be problematic). I figured: few years of fun --> find a "good girl" --> white picket fence life. But the more girls I messed with, the plentiful scandalous situations I found myself in (being the reliable "exciting" side dikk), and then me making my own attempts to pursue the societal "ideal", over time I became disillusioned with the whole concept. I hesitate to use "jaded" , even "disllusioned" has a negative connotation to it, but I ask myself is it being "jaded" or due to my vast sexual experience and my fervour for always philosophically questioning paradigms, whether the monogomy idea of how we follow it has or ever has been the truly viable way? .... I ask it like this because just examining our own gambit of emotions when in relationships we go from desiring the one partner to eventually having a wondering eye. We can dress it up in nice language or whatever, but that speaks to our animalistic intincts of "conquering and reproducing". So as you can see by this little "stream of conciousness" I do think deeply about thus stuff....lol it's a shame. was there once a time that you wanted a long term relationship, family etc?
between the cost of a wedding, cost of raising a family and the attitude of women nowadays it aint worth it it seem
I'm 30 and I can see right now, unless something major happens to force people to change across the board, I don't think it'll get any better honestlyReally hope this shyt evens out for brehs as they get older.
I'm 30 and I can see right now, unless something major happens to force people to change across the board, I don't think it'll get any better honestly![]()