Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Thats the part I am most interested in. How all that extra social media/attention/stimulus has affected people. She's like living in a friends couch or something, she's from down here.

Also, all these friend groups, esp. the ones like hers, are governed by and defined by with like all these social rules and norms, mostly enforced through social media or brunch invites, that are constantly being added and changed. It's really wild. I am interested in that too. Her friend has always flirted with me, but never gone anywhere else, so I just crossed that bridge, give me your friends number.

Yep, because she has to brag to her friends and pedestalize herself.Even if the rapport was there, she wants to come back and say:

Her - "yeah i went out with Re, and omg girl he sent me a black truck, then we went to Catch, then a lounge and i didnt even have to have sex"
Girls - " Yaaasss you did that"

That sisterhood / hive mind mentality has a chokehold on them.
 

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The conversation is always "what do men need to be better" , but how comes its never "women need to be better?" Society just allows them to act like this.
been saying this for years and its the main reason i am kinda unplugging. it just isnt worth it when you consider how lopsided shyt is

do everything to keep the relationship afloat...and yet suffer all the blame (or even consequences) when shyt goes awry. dudes are waking up though
 

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The conversation is always "what do men need to be better" , but how comes its never "women need to be better?" Society just allows them to act like this.

Because men are slaves, the patriarchy these women hate which ironically let them run wild is run by simps and really is a matriachy where the best slave gets rewarded with sex lol

For the men who exist outside the system, many can get all the sex they want but are single themselves as they are jaded from the behavior they witnessed.
 
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been saying this for years and its the main reason i am kinda unplugging. it just isnt worth it when you consider how lopsided shyt is

do everything to keep the relationship afloat...and yet suffer all the blame (or even consequences) when shyt goes awry. dudes are waking up though
I joke about it with my friends, but I say that I only hang around for the lust/honeymoon stage now. It is definitely because of what you allude due to my experiences. It sucks on one hand because the aspirstion of "healthy family unit" has been completely removed from my expectstions, now I go in with a hedonistic view and "enjoy the moments" for what they are....... def not conducive to long term healthy growth in that arena, but it is where things have been going socially.... unfortunately.
 

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I joke about it with my friends, but I say that I only hang around for the lust/honeymoon stage now. It is definitely because of what you allude due to my experiences. It sucks on one hand because the aspirstion of "healthy family unit" has been completely removed from my expectstions, now I go in with a hedonistic view and "enjoy the moments" for what they are....... def not conducive to long term healthy growth in that arena, but it is where things have been going socially.... unfortunately.
lol it's a shame. was there once a time that you wanted a long term relationship, family etc?

between the cost of a wedding, cost of raising a family and the attitude of women nowadays it aint worth it it seem
 
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lol it's a shame. was there once a time that you wanted a long term relationship, family etc?

between the cost of a wedding, cost of raising a family and the attitude of women nowadays it aint worth it it seem
For sure... when I was in my early - mid 20's...granted at that time I was a man whore playing the field., but I was not immune to the "wholesome narratives" (even characterizing it like that now may be problematic). I figured: few years of fun --> find a "good girl" --> white picket fence life. But the more girls I messed with, the plentiful scandalous situations I found myself in (being the reliable "exciting" side dikk), and then me making my own attempts to pursue the societal "ideal", over time I became disillusioned with the whole concept. I hesitate to use "jaded" , even "disllusioned" has a negative connotation to it, but I ask myself is it being "jaded" or due to my vast sexual experience and my fervour for always philosophically questioning paradigms, whether the monogomy idea of how we follow it has or ever has been the truly viable way? .... I ask it like this because just examining our own gambit of emotions when in relationships we go from desiring the one partner to eventually having a wondering eye. We can dress it up in nice language or whatever, but that speaks to our animalistic intincts of "conquering and reproducing". So as you can see by this little "stream of conciousness" I do think deeply about thus stuff.... :pachaha:
 
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