Right because their money is usually for girls trips, traveling, etc.
And the fact that the guy didn’t even see her Worth, I am also looking at her differently and her ability to have judgment.
“I was in a relationship for 5 years” …. Me: “uhh: That was you husband, go back to him”
Very few are self aware enough to say “i/we were not ready for marriage/both immature” and post that took time to reflect and grow which deserves grace lol its usually always painted as the dudes fault whether he was a bum, abusuer, wasted time etc.
If its victim shyt or career shyt toss her im the trash unless its a layup smash