Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah, she said she felt sick, went to the bathroom, and just never came back. No message, no heads-up, no thanks. I gave her the benefit of the doubt in the moment, but after a while it was clear - she just dipped. I saw her outside, and was like "hey, you missed ensalada" and she was like "no i didnt, i saw you" and at that point i was checked out.

Wasn’t about catching feelings or being pressed - it was the lack of basic courtesy that stood out. I wasn’t owed anything beyond that, but it told me everything I needed to know.
Idk she for sure wasnt feeling you but unless you said something offensive or acted an ass I think she just had a difficult time rejecting you and chose to avoid it entirely. She might have come up and sat next to you on some friendly shyt and saw you were interested in more than that and felt awkward or lost interest sexually after yall started talkin. Either way same result but unfortunately she doesn't know you. Some women have a hard time rejecting men directly in general cuz they are too nice and dont want to feel nad. Other women may avoid it because they are afraid of the man getting upset and it turning into a confrontation.
Do you feel like she used you for the seats?
I'm not understanding you exchange outside the venue. "Hey you missed ensalada?" "No i didn't, I saw you" doesn't make sense is that a autocorrect?
 

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Feminism to Witchcraft Pipeline has triggered mental illnesses in more women than people realize.
Supernatural practices like witchcraft is just a way for helpless people to feel like they have some sort of semblance of control in their otherwise chaotic lives and blame the things that happened in their lives on something else. "The devil possessed all my exes and caused them to abuse me" no you're just the type of woman that abusers consistently go after allow them into your life because you exhibit vulnerability they can take advantage of.
 

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Supernatural practices like witchcraft is just a way for helpless people to feel like they have some sort of semblance of control in their otherwise chaotic lives and blame the things that happened in their lives on something else. "The devil possessed all my exes and caused them to abuse me" no you're just the type of woman that abusers consistently go after allow them into your life because you exhibit vulnerability they can take advantage of.

A lot of Feminist reject Judeochristian religions due to supreme dieties all being spoken of in a masculine context. The White women turn to peganism and hype up the Pacific NW witchcraft history while the Black/African descended take to hybrid cosmology and b*stardizing Yoruba based systems in order to worship female Oshiras, not because it is their heritage/a connection but due to them being misandrist. The issue is they dont get into this stuff for any kind of enlightenment or to help others, only for self gain, and much of this stuff is amoral thus they dont realize the doors they have opened and often time they aren't "Speaking to" who they think.
 

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Mentally ill women. This is why the dudes ran off...
bytches in the comments talking about
“Help does this work if he blocked me 2 months ago”
Do you know how absolutely unhinged you have to be for a regular dude to block you? :what:

“Wow I watched this video and he text me 1 minutes later!! Tea:ahh:

I am truly disgusted yet so intrigued. I didn’t know about this side.
 

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bytches in the comments talking about
“Help does this work if he blocked me 2 months ago”
Do you know how absolutely unhinged you have to be for a regular dude to block you? :what:

“Wow I watched this video and he text me 1 minutes later!! Tea:ahh:

I am truly disgusted yet so intrigued. I didn’t know about this side.
Crazy women congregate with other crazy women on the internet and create crazy women echo chambers :mjlol:
 

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Idk she for sure wasnt feeling you but unless you said something offensive or acted an ass I think she just had a difficult time rejecting you and chose to avoid it entirely. She might have come up and sat next to you on some friendly shyt and saw you were interested in more than that and felt awkward or lost interest sexually after yall started talkin. Either way same result but unfortunately she doesn't know you. Some women have a hard time rejecting men directly in general cuz they are too nice and dont want to feel nad. Other women may avoid it because they are afraid of the man getting upset and it turning into a confrontation.
Do you feel like she used you for the seats?
I'm not understanding you exchange outside the venue. "Hey you missed ensalada?" "No i didn't, I saw you" doesn't make sense is that a autocorrect?

Appreciate the perspective, and yeah, you’re probably right. She likely didn’t feel it and just chose the soft ghost instead of saying anything. Wasn’t anything weird in how I acted, and I wasn’t pressing her. It was more that I showed courtesy and presence, and she didn’t have the maturity to close it off respectfully. Happens.

So ensalada is a song, so when i saw her i said "oh you missed ensalada" and she said no i didnt. (as in i saw it and i also saw you)

And nah, I don’t feel like she used me for the seat intentionally. I think she just didn’t know how to handle a situation she wasn’t that into without ghosting mid-show.

Actually yeah, forgot to mention this, after the show, she made a comment about liking my fit. I didn’t say much, and she joked “have manners.” I said, “I could ask you the same,” since… she ghosted mid-show. She waved me off getting into her Uber and said “it was nice meeting you.”

Felt like a forced attempt to end it on her terms. Again, no drama, but it told me everything. Energy didn’t match, and I’m not in the business of chasing lukewarm interactions.
 

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Appreciate the perspective, and yeah, you’re probably right. She likely didn’t feel it and just chose the soft ghost instead of saying anything. Wasn’t anything weird in how I acted, and I wasn’t pressing her. It was more that I showed courtesy and presence, and she didn’t have the maturity to close it off respectfully. Happens.

So ensalada is a song, so when i saw her i said "oh you missed ensalada" and she said no i didnt. (as in i saw it and i also saw you)

And nah, I don’t feel like she used me for the seat intentionally. I think she just didn’t know how to handle a situation she wasn’t that into without ghosting mid-show.

Actually yeah, forgot to mention this, after the show, she made a comment about liking my fit. I didn’t say much, and she joked “have manners.” I said, “I could ask you the same,” since… she ghosted mid-show. She waved me off getting into her Uber and said “it was nice meeting you.”

Felt like a forced attempt to end it on her terms. Again, no drama, but it told me everything. Energy didn’t match, and I’m not in the business of chasing lukewarm interactions.
Lol yup that's a maturity thing for sure. Making an excuse to leave then not coming back
Seeing you letting you know she wasnt sick and saw the full show then complimenting you (fake flirting lol) and telling you to have manners while waving all friendly after getting in the Uber and saying nice to meet you

She sounds hella young :russ:
I feel you tho. To some of these young chicks you meet out and about you're just another stranger they'll never see again. They still get so much attention from men they don't rally value it. Some do but it's easy for them to take their youth and pretty privilege for granted. They'll go out with no money for drinks and just wait for a dude to buy them some. Or in your case help them to a nice seat. It is what it is. The important thing here is that you don't let it bother you and keep being yourself and moving how you move. It's not like you did anything wrong. Next chick at a concert you do this for might reciprocate.
 

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I wish there was a way to get the "crazy"/"selfish" side to come out quicker. (and cheaper)
There is a way…its not 100% fullproof but you have to be immune to how good she looks and be willing to bush her immediately

When planning yall first rendezvous, simply plan a very basic date or something that you want to do that she may or may not be into (thats not your problem). Coffee, ice cream, walk in the park, fukk...tell her you running errands and want her to come lol etc. Tell her the time and the place. Any kind of resistance, ANY will let you know what time she on

Another method, ask her for a small favour after maybe yall first date. If she resists for no good reason bush her. I’ll give an example

Last year i had linked up/gone out with this big batty mixed chick. She was a bit weird but she looked good. Anyways i invite her over to my spot to watch the jays game the third time we linked (were both big baseball fans) and she said she was heading to the liquor store to get something - i think wine. I asked if she could pick me up a couple IPAs and she didnt respond. She showed up and didnt get me the beer. I asked why not and she scoffed and said some shyt about how nobodys asked her to do sumn like that but she got wine for both of us. Lol. We watched the game but i was turned off. Didnt even care to fukk. Deleted her number after she left the crib

Selfish c*nt :laff:
 
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What the hell is No Contact? :dahell:.... Y'all just stop talking?

What the hell is SP? ...:lupe:. Sexual Partner?

Thought Transmission ? ...:bryan:. "9/10 if you are thinking about them, they are thinking about you. "?:pachaha:

Manifesting is rewiring your neuroplasticity??:heh:


I'm howling and in tears...:russ:... Broads really out here making up magic spells to dodge accountability??? ....and this bird has 60k+ subscribers to this. mess? :mjlol:
 

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What the hell is No Contact? :dahell:.... Y'all just stop talking?

What the hell is SP? ...:lupe:. Sexual Partner?

Thought Transmission ? ...:bryan:. "9/10 if you are thinking about them, they are thinking about you. "?:pachaha:

Manifesting is rewiring your neuroplasticity??:heh:


I'm howling and in tears...:russ:... Broads really out here making up magic spells to dodge accountability??? ....and this bird has 60k+ subscribers to this. mess? :mjlol:
Dawg I laughed until I saw how popular this video and her page are. Sp means special partner, I believe. No contact is basically when a dude stops reaching out to them/chasing them after their bullshyt.

They are dead serious too. Lol nobody is saying “hey why don’t we just reach out first?” :dead:
 
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Dawg I laughed until I saw how popular this video and her page are. Sp means special partner, I believe. No contact is basically when a dude stops reaching out to them/chasing them after their bullshyt.

They are dead serious too. Lol nobody is saying “hey why don’t we just reach out first?” :dead:
So they obsessed stalkers.... :heh:
 
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Look breh a lot of the shyt you deal with will come from the last man that she was with. A possible reason the dude in France could have a long distance relationship with her and not you is because it's something you wanted but she didn't at the time. Once she saw and thought about how maybe making a long distance relationship work wouldn't be so bad and how she might have missed out because of it she adjusted her boundaries. You loosened her up for the next man. That's the fukked up part a lot of this shyt is timing. Ain't nothing you can do about it but charge it to the game. Women change their minds all the time and they aren't necessarily consistent. It is what it is
True. I just feel like most women don’t want a life partner. They want multiple partners , each one for different stages of their lives. They don’t want to actually build and grow with someone. When you actually challenge them to and they have to face it, they tend to run away. I guess like you mentioned, some of it is timing which is unfortunate. But lots of them refuse to take accountability.
 
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