Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This would've been solved way earlier if you had some self respect. Why you tryna move mountains for this woman? The moment you see she ungrateful time to reevaluate her and stop putting in all that effort. Sometimes people have bad moments where they act shytty but once you see the consistency let her go. That's who she is. This was long distance you couldve easily been talking to other chicks while this shyt was going south and she ended up breaking up with you as a result when you could've ended things on your terms. Yall mightve officially broke up then but trust she was single long before that over where she stay at
True but it is what it is. You live and you learn. I know better when it comes to my boundaries now. And I know what bs I won’t tolerate very quick. All God’s plan for the right one.
 

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DMV gotta be the most depressing (being facetious) region in the usa as far as ran through desperate women.. shyt is like fishing out here man..and the ratio is favorable for men on their shyt


If you just want fun and playthings this the goat region.


Thorough vetting process if you talking about wifing though :whoa:
You can definitely eat out here if you're a full-on wolf for age 40+ women
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Without knowing a thing about her - She's in that HBCU/Greek/PWI/Black Woman in White Corporate World/Travel Noir/Black Luxury world view.

She has her degree.
She has her job.
She has her money.
She prolly has a nice SFH or Condo, and little Mercedes Benz SUV.

Now she just needs the (6'2'+, 2.5x her income, handsome, Black? White?) man to complete her vision board.

She's "conscious", but that's not gonna stop her from getting that Chanel Bag when her bonus comes.

On many levels, she's eaten* (see below), educated, and worked herself out of competition, but compensates with Whole Foods, "Run Clubs", and Social Media influencing.

You meet her and all of her sistren in DC, ATL, Houston, and NYC. It's like 99% of the chicks I deal with. (Leave 1% for PAAGing, PAWGing, PAIGing, PALGing, etc)

I have family members like this.

Honestly, she's coping the best she can.

Like I've said before, a lot of these women aren't physically attractive enough to pull the type of guys they want. They think like men - get some money in they purse, and thinks that they can dictate what type of dicc they can get...

Yup a lot of those types want to check boxes. I call those the "Molly" types (from insecure).

I tell dudes all the time, avoid the "boss babe' "corporate chick trying to be partner etc." because they are just not feminine.

She of course like all of em, waited til the end to say "ok im ready for a man" and boom, the best they'll do is either quantavious (controllable) or avg simp who doesnt know his worth (controllable). Her corporate powerhouse dream guy doesnt have to deal with her at all.

I wish BW understood just losing weight is literally 90% of the battle.

Get rid of the weight, septum piercings, horrible tattoos (they pick bad tattoos) and the attitudes, it would be day & night.
 

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True. I just feel like most women don’t want a life partner. They want multiple partners , each one for different stages of their lives. They don’t want to actually build and grow with someone. When you actually challenge them to and they have to face it, they tend to run away. I guess like you mentioned, some of it is timing which is unfortunate. But lots of them refuse to take accountability.
Uh, this is how most women think men are, especially when young, but that still includes older men who have multiple women/“side chicks” etc.

As the other poster said, it’s mainly about timing and folks finding each other when they are at the right time, ready for the same thing.
 

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Uh, this is how most women think men are, especially when young, but that still includes older men who have multiple women/“side chicks” etc.

As the other poster said, it’s mainly about timing and folks finding each other when they are at the right time, ready for the same thing.

This is disingenous. This is how women thing the timy pool of men they want which as the men all women want lol because they are like why wouldnhe settle down when he has all this access
 
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