Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

My energy wouldn’t change because I would already assume she probably dating someone else and i would be as well. If it was a girl i had been seeing for a minute and having sex with, I would probably have the conversation with her rather than act passive aggressively. I would tell her I saw her with some other dude and ask who it was (shed prolly lie). It would force me to have the conversation with myself to see what i want from the girl too. If it was a girl i wanted to lock down then I would tell her I want to be exclusive from there on out. If she wasnt with it I would peace out. If she was, we are exclusive. If i aint willing to be exclusive with her than how can I fault her for seeing other dudes. Thats how I see it

If its a girl I just met and only went out with a few times and hadnt been sexual with, I wouldnt assume anything. I have had female friends visit me before. If it’s the night time I’m gonna walk them to an uber regardless and hug them good bye. That’s what gentlemen do

The girl i was talkin about and I hadnt had sex though. Funny enough she wanted to but because of how long it had been since she had sex and the fact she said she isnt into casual sex, I deliberately chose not to have sex with her until I knew i was gonna be serious or exclusive with her (there were a few other reasons too).

All that being said i have no issue with her falling back and completely understand. Thats why i didnt try to reengage, gaslight or persuade her to keep fcukin with me

Imo all that Convo stuff irrelevant unless you in a relationship. For me the purpose of not having a title is cause it gives me a painless exit lol. If I see something I don't like I'm out and she can keep doing her thing. Same way if she feel I'm playing in her face then I feel her for.bouncing. when you doing the roster thing you gotta create pocket universes where when we together our time is.ours and nothing else exist. Women can't handle competition thus why men are the one who create "safe spaces". Only chick who is.on some "I know he sleeps with multiple.women and I can see it" are chicks on payroll not roster lol. It's like married atheltes, they actually actually committed to a women hence to not play in a women face they keep dirt out of sight and out of mind

 

[Ohene]

Same way if she feel I'm playing in her face then I feel her for.bouncing. when you doing the roster thing you gotta create pocket universes where when we together our time is.ours and nothing else exist.

I feel you. That's why i dont fault her. I follow those same rules but me and shorty are neighbors so it is what it is. She lives in a condo beside mine.

She just happened to see me during the 5 seconds I walked a chick to her uber.

On the flipside, sometimes it makes a woman want you more. My friend is going through that right now. A chick went through his phone (they arent exclusive) and saw he was talking to other shorties. She was hurt but didnt fall back. Those are likelier women who have probably normalized that men are cheaters (due to trauma) or women with lower self esteems though.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I feel you. I follow those same rules but me and shorty are neighbors so it is what it is. She lives in a condo beside mine.

She just happened to see me during the 5 seconds I walked a chick to her uber.

On the flipside, sometimes it makes a woman want you more. My friend is going through that right now. A chick went through his phone (they arent exclusive) and saw he was talking to other shorties. She was hurt but didnt fall back. Those are likelier women who have probably normalized that men are cheaters (due to trauma) or women with lower self esteems though.

Main thing in modern dating is gotta just be ready for folks to vanish out your life band enjoy the moment especially if you playing the "mercenary" thing. When a chick tells you she is falling back rather than her going ghost just take it as a positive and be like "I totally understand, best of luck".

Matching energy (as long as you stay in a realm of comfort) is real and should be a positive (since we In a dog eat dog world, never chase).

 

[Ahadi]

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

finally found out why my ex thought I cheated on her 8 months later brehs. She went through my phone likely looked when I was typing in pass code. I started going through text messages around that time and realized she saw of one my friends sexcapades in the DR and thought it was me. Ironically it coincided with my out of town work trip . These guy know I don't f around with that type of life so it's a running joke for them to invite me on their trips, even had one the chicks saying my name in the videos. Also in the group chat were videos of my friend cheating while on the trip. She never approached me directly now it makes sense whether my friends are cheaters, whether or not when I was away I was messing with other woman.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

lol, literally all her questions started to make sense, she also message from my female friends which I have no interests in and got insecure about it. That's why she asked me about my other female friends. Like they will send me shyt and I would ignore it

 

[Apollo Creed]

finally found out why my ex thought I cheated on her 8 months later brehs. She went through my phone likely looked when I was typing in pass code. I started going through text messages around that time and realized she saw of one my friends sexcapades in the DR and thought it was me. Ironically it coincided with my out of town work trip . These guy know I don't f around with that type of life so it's a running joke for them to invite me on their trips, even had one the chicks saying my name in the videos. Also in the group chat were videos of my friend cheating while on the trip. She never approached me directly now it makes sense whether my friends are cheaters, whether or not when I was away I was messing with other woman.

Shoulda been having fun with ya nikkas lol

 

[Ohene]

a girl look through my fone and she over with

 

[WIA20XX]

Broken Clock and all

The Great Feminization

In 2019, I read an article about Larry Summers and Harvard that changed the way I look at the world.

www.compactmag.com

The point of war is to settle disputes between two tribes, but it works only if peace is restored after the dispute is settled. Men therefore developed methods for reconciling with opponents and learning to live in peace with people they were fighting yesterday. Females, even in primate species, are slower to reconcile than males. That is because women’s conflicts were traditionally within the tribe over scarce resources, to be resolved not by open conflict but by covert competition with rivals, with no clear terminus.

In both cases, the originator and the quoter are implying female-to-female competition. (surprise surprise that both people are women, lol)

But any man in a relationship, with a woman he loves, and a woman that loves him - knows that anyone that's not her is competition.

 

[Redwood]

That shyt don't work

 

[Ohene]

Broken Clock and all

The Great Feminization

In 2019, I read an article about Larry Summers and Harvard that changed the way I look at the world.

www.compactmag.com

In both cases, the originator and the quoter are implying female-to-female competition. (surprise surprise that both people are women, lol)

But any man in a relationship, with a woman he loves, and a woman that loves him - knows that anyone that's not her is competition.

ive been seeing a few vids on youtube about the great feminization pop up
its def a thing. i dont like how they co-opted the word "woke" and associate it with the great feminization though. oh well...white ppl gon white ppl

 

[WIA20XX]

ive been seeing a few vids on youtube about the great feminization pop up
its def a thing. i dont like how they co-opted the word "woke" and associate it with the great feminization though. oh well...white ppl gon white ppl

I read these things, knowing that they're coming out of some right wing think tank....but I SEE THIS STUFF AT WORK ALL THE TIME.

And it's not that Men don't play politics at work. "Court Intrigue"/"48 Laws of Power" was a man writing about mostly other men. But....

My side, (the Left, the Progressives...and to a much lesser extent libs and dems) - just don't know how to counter this argument.

 

[MikelArteta]

That shyt don't work

i remember my first ever relationship when it ended a nikka did all that corny romantic movie ish to try and win her back and ish. Just looked like a big ol fool.

 

[Redwood]

i remember my first ever relationship when it ended a nikka did all that corny romantic movie ish to try and win her back and ish. Just looked like a big ol fool.

Yeah, I did this back in high school. Still thinking about why I did that 14 years later

 

[WIA20XX]

Yeah, I did this back in high school. Still thinking about why I did that 14 years later

It's hard letting go of them unforced errors, lol

Remember losing a broad cause I said she reminded me of my favorite Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle.