Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I need your opinions on this one, cos personally I want to bush her and dead it

I approached this girl in town last week and got the number. We got to texting and it’s been slow.. she reply’s and all, but never asks any follow up questions to keep the conversation going..

reason I haven’t asked her out is, I have an approach which I believe prevents awkward first dates.. when i start texting a new girl and it’s lively, I FaceTime the girl and have a quick conversation to see if the conversation flows over the phone as well, then I proceed to ask them out.

With this girl, shyt is so dull I don’t even want to bother to call.

After writing this, I realize I’m better off just leaving it alone. I’m not trying to pay for a date which ends up being dull

Breh.

The reason you get the number is to meet her in person. She probably is thinking, "why hasn't this breh asked me out?".

 

[Apollo Creed]

If i get someone's number, I ask them out in person, and the first text I send is almost always asking them out. Don't bother with the banter. Low return on investment. Everyone is going to have them own approach and style, but I usually say something like "I'd love to go out tomorrow night" and name a spot. Just put it on the table like that.

This text and talking period shyt is fukking the game up lol

Some brehs rather do temp checks to make sure they are not going out in public with a weirdo though. Id say there is a fine balance

 

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Some brehs rather do temp checks to make sure they are not going out in public with a weirdo though. Id say there is a fine balance

I actually have a Gen Z story perfect for this, from a week ago. Went out with a 22 year old.

If I meet someone in person, and spend around 10 minutes talking to them, that's enough for me, but it's basically are they attractive to me and are they reasonably cool and functional, and do we connect on something, It could be food, just pure attraction, books, whatever.

 

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The Gen Z story: someone said on here like a month ago, GEN Z are like a different type of human.

I read a lot. Like i could sit in Ivy league english lit classes and not be out of place, I read dozens and dozens of books a year.

Meet some girl out in public, sober, daylight, we start talking, she's doing her post grad in London, goes to 'school in Boston', studying literature, and we have about a 15 minute conversation about novels. She's nerdy, but she's cute. She's like the Gen Z academic type. Anyway, so she's like I'm town for 3 nights and I'm free the whole time, and so I say let's go out for a drink. She says for sure. She knows I'm older, I have like salt and pepper hair on the sides. People still think I am younger, but not 15 years younger.

So the next night, taking her to a tasteful luxury SD hotel bar. We are walking and just talking about travel, about whatever, and I say something like I need to eat first, I missed dinner. We start talking about London, and she narrows in the specifics, like When was that trip? How old were you then? And I answer. She can do the math and see I'm about 39/40. After a minute or two, she says I need to use the bathroom. And she gestures towards like a ugly public bathroom. And I was like yeah if you want to wait 5 minutes, the lobby is a lot nicer. She declines. So, I watch her walk in the bathroom, and I'm already like something weird is happening. I wouldn't go in that bathroom.

So, like 2 minutes later, I watch her goofy ass sneak out and walk the other way. 1 minute later, I get a text. And she says, in a longer message "I'm so sorry, I said yes on impulse, but you are out of my age range. Have a great life!!". Any rejection stings, but I met some super bad stripper that same day, just to say I meet women all the time. BUT, if I didn't, and if I was her age, or a guy she knew from school and she did some shyt like that, I can see that really bruising someone's self esteem, esp if he really liked her, worked up the courage to ask her out, and then THAT? For some other reason, looks, career, his major, whatever. You'd go straight to the red pill/black pill material.

I admit my fantasy involved a few hours of literary convo and an all night stand with a nerdier looking Numi Zarah, but in all honesty we could have just talked books for 90 minutes and called it a night. There are no stakes at all.

 

[Apollo Creed]

The Gen Z story: someone said on here like a month ago, GEN Z are like a different type of human.

I read a lot. Like i could sit in Ivy league english lit classes and not be out of place, I read dozens and dozens of books a year.

Meet some girl out in public, sober, daylight, we start talking, she's doing her post grad in London, goes to 'school in Boston', studying literature, and we have about a 15 minute conversation about novels. She's nerdy, but she's cute. She's like the Gen Z academic type. Anyway, so she's like I'm town for 3 nights and I'm free the whole time, and so I say let's go out for a drink. She says for sure. She knows I'm older, I have like salt and pepper hair on the sides. People still think I am younger, but not 15 years younger.

So the next night, taking her to a tasteful luxury SD hotel bar. We are walking and just talking about travel, about whatever, and I say something like I need to eat first, I missed dinner. We start talking about London, and she narrows in the specifics, like When was that trip? How old were you then? And I answer. She can do the math and see I'm about 39/40. After a minute or two, she says I need to use the bathroom. And she gestures towards like a ugly public bathroom. And I was like yeah if you want to wait 5 minutes, the lobby is a lot nicer. She declines. So, I watch her walk in the bathroom, and I'm already like something weird is happening. I wouldn't go in that bathroom.

So, like 2 minutes later, I watch her goofy ass sneak out and walk the other way. 1 minute later, I get a text. And she says, in a longer message "I'm so sorry, I said yes on impulse, but you are out of my age range. Have a great life!!". Any rejection stings, but I met some super bad stripper that same day, just to say I meet women all the time. BUT, if I didn't, and if I was her age, or a guy she knew from school and she did some shyt like that, I can see that really bruising someone's self esteem, esp if he really liked her, worked up the courage to ask her out, and then THAT? You'd go straight to the red pill/black pill material.

I admit my fantasy involved a few hours of literary convo and an all night stand with a nerdier looking Numi Zarah, but in all honesty we could have just talked books for 90 minutes and called it a night. There are no stakes at all.

I have dates a ton of gen z women from other countries and they arent sped status yet like USA lol

 

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I have dates a ton of gen z women from other countries and they arent sped status yet like USA lol

That story speaks to your point on the do some back and forth to see if they are a weirdo

also speaks to my point, as in the stakes are so low, I'd rather just go out with someone and have a weird 2 minutes, then screen them out through annoying text messages for a week.

After that happened, I just went solo to some new spot in La Jolla, had a great dinner. Some people would have spiraled out, called the girl, whatever. I just shrugged it off. Cost of doing business. All I responded to her was Age range for drinks?

Not all college girls are like that obviously, this girl was pretty nerdy and if I was guessing doesn't go on a lot of dates, but a lot of those Gen Z girls are too uptight and rigid for the kind of old school older men lust shyt from like 90's movies.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That story speaks to your point on the do some back and forth to see if they are a weirdo

also speaks to my point, as in the stakes are so low, I'd rather just go out with someone and have a weird 2 minutes, then screen them out through annoying text messages for a week.

After that happened, I just went solo to some new spot in La Jolla, had a great dinner. Some people would have spiraled out, called the girl, whatever. I just shrugged it off. Cost of doing business. All I responded to her was Age range for drinks?

Not all college girls are like that obviously, this girl was pretty nerdy and if I was guessing doesn't go on a lot of dates, but a lot of those Gen Z girls are too uptight and rigid for the kind of old school older men lust shyt from like 90's movies.

Yeah I don’t even want to do a disservice to Autistc people but these young chicks are weird as fukk where idk if it’s a new age of what we considered air heads back in the day or what, and the femcels get smashed but have never been seen as a potential mate which is why you have chicks knocking 30 that ain’t virgins and never been on a date

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

I said this in a different thread in response to a breh saying you should just always oay for p*ssy. But it's important.

Simping and tricking is not the way to go.

If a woman actually likes you, you can just text her and she'll come over to fukk. Or she'll text you wanting to fukk. And y'all fukk like wild animals. She will even cook for you afterwards. She doesn't need money because you actually turn her on and she gets genuine enjoyment out of you fukking her.

If a woman really likes you, you can tell her that you like XYZ thing and she will do XYZ thing for you with no hesitation.

Women make things transactional when they feel like they need to be compensated.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I said this in a different thread in response to a breh saying you should just always oay for p*ssy. But it's important.

Simping and tricking is not the way to go.

If a woman actually likes you, you can just text her and she'll come over to fukk. Or she'll text you wanting to fukk. And y'all fukk like wild animals. She will even cook for you afterwards. She doesn't need money because you actually turn her on and she gets genuine enjoyment out of you fukking her.

If a woman really likes you, you can tell her that you like XYZ thing and she will do XYZ thing for you with no hesitation.

Women make things transactional when they feel like they need to be compensated.

Dudes never ask themselves "Why am I wasting time with someone that doesn't like me or enjoy spending time with me" lol

If a woman never takes initiative to do anything or contribute anything you need to bounce. The only exception to that rule is if you got chicks you have "warm" relationships with where they live else where and when you are in town you link up, but in that case you better not perform any emotional labor.

 

[The ADD]

I said this in a different thread in response to a breh saying you should just always oay for p*ssy. But it's important.

Simping and tricking is not the way to go.

If a woman actually likes you, you can just text her and she'll come over to fukk. Or she'll text you wanting to fukk. And y'all fukk like wild animals. She will even cook for you afterwards. She doesn't need money because you actually turn her on and she gets genuine enjoyment out of you fukking her.

If a woman really likes you, you can tell her that you like XYZ thing and she will do XYZ thing for you with no hesitation.

Women make things transactional when they feel like they need to be compensated.

What about the brehs that can’t find women that like them

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

What about the brehs that can’t find women that like them

Every man can find a woman that likes them. Putting in the work to improve yourself improves the likelihood and quality of women who like you

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

What about the brehs that can’t find women that like them

They got to reconcile with their Truth and get in where they fit in.... .... the frustrations arise because they are aiming higher than what is at their level... ......

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Every girl I have gone out on a date with has huge t*ts I am trying to stop this pattern.

About to go out on a date with this girl on Hinge, before the date she tells she has a confession, got two young kids and pregnant with another I was shocked . She was a real cool ass chick too based on her vibe.

I went out with a country girl, she real cool, I know she is feeling me. I am honestly feeling her. We had spoken on the phone for two hours and went out. I am already planning on keeping her . Great t*ts too!

 

[The ADD]

They got to reconcile with their Truth and get in where they fit in.... .... the frustrations arise because they are aiming higher than what is at their level... ......

 

[WIA20XX]

She was a real cool ass chick too based on her vibe.

I've never dealt with a single mom that didn't pull out her cool ass chick game. Nothing like having kids to humble a broad.

Single mom game is up there with

1) Asian chick before marriage and
2) I just moved to the USA game.

The few times where a chick actually tries to impress you with feminine qualities outside of looks.

Aka nice girl game. Or new to dating game.

Regular females only pull out the "possible wifey" stuff if you're handsome gang OR you break through all her social programming BS and she realizes that she actually likes you but thinks you might leave.

One of my homies from Florida was speaking on straight from Colombia chicks versus America latinas - basically the paisas - even when they're actually genuine at first, the mask eventually comes off. Then they are just like Latinas born here.