Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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What an analysis! And Qoves seems to be female targeted generally speaking.

An alternate hypothesis

One of my homegirls used to talk about how chicks with long hair would pull these cats - and then after marriage they'd do the "big chop".

She stops trying to look good/look sexy (and all that maintenance) when she locks a man down.

Just like she wonders what happened to that honey moon treatment during the first 3 months of a relationship, he wonders what happened to the looks that he turned in his player card for...

Gotta enjoy the leasing period.

Then after she stops trying to look good, she gets wandering eye and starts dressing up again for new prey lol or someone shes already been involved with.
 
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I gotta say this. We gotta stop blaming dudes for female behavior.

They are always getting bored. They need constant novelty, always something new.
  • They don't have good relationships with their friends.
  • They can have terrible relationships with their mothers, aunties, sisters, and cousins.
  • They hate the celebs they follow
  • There's always an issue at work.
  • They're the first ones to want to be in a relationship, and the first ones that want to be out.
When you look at the stats - Lesbians have the highest divorce rate out straight couples and gay couples.

Hoes get bored. All of them.

It's their very nature.

When you give them money and status - they think they deserve better.

Dude could be slanging D, coming up with all types of bedroom scenarios, stacking chips, beating up other dudes, cleaning the house, taking care of the kids, career counseling - all that stuff that says he's the man - all the stuff that made her stalk him and get him to commit ...but then the chick will look over at Tupac and wonder about Suge Knight.

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^Broads see this and wonder how she can be next.

"When you give 'em everything, they only want more" (c) Kanye

"What have you done for me lately" (c) Janet Jackson - who filed for a divorce a day after the prenup ended....
wait..... what???? :ohhh:
 

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wait..... what???? :ohhh:

Pardon me, I misspoke

There were rumours of a split within days of her son’s birth, when she was seen in public without a wedding ring but these were discounted at the time.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4393934/Janet-Jackson-splits-Qatari-tyc00n-husband.html
 

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If she's not offering a bridge (or possible compromise / reschedule) after declining your plans, move on.

If you haven't smashed before a "wyd" is potentially a character check.

You are having chicks say they dont want to go to a place you suggest?

lol thats a sign to just delete the number with no response.
 

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Met off Hinge in '22 ... Having created a special bond with her son ,she's now a couple months away from giving me my first child :ahh:

Stay positive, there's somebody out there for everyone.
Also take the advice you get in this thread with a pinch of salt , dudes where Def hating 4years ago :wow:
 

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You are having chicks say they dont want to go to a place you suggest?

lol thats a sign to just delete the number with no response.

Matched with her on Hinge, moved it to IG back in October, but nothing really happened. Fast forward, earlier this week, I'm dropping off a package and randomly see her standing in line. I’m like, “Yo, don’t we follow each other on IG?” We end up walking a few blocks together, just chopping it up, then she has to head back to work. Vibe was solid.


Later she hits me on IG, we talk a bit, I give her my number, she’s hype, texting me right away. I tell her to pull up for Japanese food at my spot. Mind you, it’s pouring rain and im not really tryna go out, been moving around a lot this week. She goes, “I love Japanese food, that sounds fire, but I don’t go to strangers’ houses.” I’m like, “All good, next time.”

The fukk, im not chasing and suggesting a new plan. My mood was to chill at the crib and eat. She can either join or give a bridge. But this is one of those @Ohene types, educated BW types, great t*ts, but she like 28, which i found out which is like ehhh. Plus her Bday is next week & V day in a month, im good to fall back.
 

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Then i had another joint, the coffee shop bbl joint hit me, around 10pm, i knocked out didnt see the text til around 11:32pm, she said "Wyd" i said chillin rn, you?" she goes "restless" i say "yeah that happens, anything in particular?" she tries to call me / not tryna talk. i text her "was in the middle of something everything good? / no reply

Concluded that she was tryna character check see if im A. thirsty B. one of them fixer simps C. bend to her will with that phone call.
 

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Matched with her on Hinge, moved it to IG back in October, but nothing really happened. Fast forward, earlier this week, I'm dropping off a package and randomly see her standing in line. I’m like, “Yo, don’t we follow each other on IG?” We end up walking a few blocks together, just chopping it up, then she has to head back to work. Vibe was solid.


Later she hits me on IG, we talk a bit, I give her my number, she’s hype, texting me right away. I tell her to pull up for Japanese food at my spot. Mind you, it’s pouring rain and im not really tryna go out, been moving around a lot this week. She goes, “I love Japanese food, that sounds fire, but I don’t go to strangers’ houses.” I’m like, “All good, next time.”

The fukk, im not chasing and suggesting a new plan. My mood was to chill at the crib and eat. She can either join or give a bridge. But this is one of those @Ohene types, educated BW types, great t*ts, but she like 28, which i found out which is like ehhh. Plus her Bday is next week & V day in a month, im good to fall back.
gotcha, I can't knock her not wanting to go to the crib, me personally I prefer public places for first encounters just because I want to vet certain energy before I allow it in my home. I was assuming more so you suggested a public place and she was like nah, then yeah thats some on to the next.In my younger years the 1st encounter at the crib situations were those I escalated in advance but at this age I'd divert to a hotel or some shyt lol
 

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Lol inbox the ig
First link you can’t be mad at her for not wanting to come over. If she looks good and the vibe good schedule something for a later day at a sushi spot
Matched with her on Hinge, moved it to IG back in October, but nothing really happened. Fast forward, earlier this week, I'm dropping off a package and randomly see her standing in line. I’m like, “Yo, don’t we follow each other on IG?” We end up walking a few blocks together, just chopping it up, then she has to head back to work. Vibe was solid.


Later she hits me on IG, we talk a bit, I give her my number, she’s hype, texting me right away. I tell her to pull up for Japanese food at my spot. Mind you, it’s pouring rain and im not really tryna go out, been moving around a lot this week. She goes, “I love Japanese food, that sounds fire, but I don’t go to strangers’ houses.” I’m like, “All good, next time.”

The fukk, im not chasing and suggesting a new plan. My mood was to chill at the crib and eat. She can either join or give a bridge. But this is one of those @Ohene types, educated BW types, great t*ts, but she like 28, which i found out which is like ehhh. Plus her Bday is next week & V day in a month, im good to fall back.
 

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Lol inbox the ig
First link you can’t be mad at her for not wanting to come over. If she looks good and the vibe good schedule something for a later day at a sushi spot

I got you

True. But if she was interested, a bridge would’ve been there. Atleast a “I’m not comfortable, but you wana grab a drink real quick?” Or “how bout coffee tomorrow?”

She just gave up after I said “I feel you, maybe next time”

I’m not gona overcorrect the behavior. The hinge point was established, she gotta meet me half way.
 
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