Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Sheeeet, don’t let the cute, petite thing fool you, a lot of Asian women RUN those households. Once they get comfortable, it’s a whole different vibe.
And yeah, they’re about their money. Always.
Honestly, the FOBs or overseas ones are usually easier to deal with. It gets tricky with the westernized ones, or ABGs, especially if she grew up privileged, dad’s a CEO type, Ivy League background, all that. Different expectations, different game.
Lot of dudes cry about American women but go searching for a new Slave Master rather than someone they actually can work with. Sooo many white dudes in SE Asia Or even here looking like straight overgrown kids with their asian chick and only time he can do anything is when its time to pay a bill
Some of those SF white dudes are going through it
Lose lose lol id rather deal with a headache from my culture than take on the headache of another group. The local men from the womens culture laughing at these dudes. This why i never glorify anyone because people all the same, theh only do what the laws allow
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Sometimes its easier to deal with the devil you know than with the devil you don’t know
Familiar vs foreign .
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And on top of that if you aren’t employed by the top five (Samsung,LG, etc), you are done in Korea. It’s too expensive to raise a family unless you move to the countryside out there.
Scenario 1: Went out with an really attractive older woman, 53, how I ended up with that happening was pretty smooth. Quick version is I walked into a spot in my area, and saw two women at the bar, they looked at me, I looked at them, and sat down. The first one said something, and a minute later we are all talking. I move closer, but the one that I really want, tattoos, expensive purse, bracelets is one seat down. She just gave me that sexual look. But, I wasn't sitting next to her, and could only really talk to her for a second or two. So I was tired, and it was late, and I just walked. Said goodnight. Saw them both out a week later, and we just clicked right away. Went out the next night, and were making out really crazy, she's sending me tennis skirt pictures, and then she just dropped off. Annoying that a woman who is almost 15 years older than me acts like the 23 year old.
Scenario 2: Another older woman, about 52, balling pretty hard. Does something with an investment bank. We had a couple of interactions, she gave me like the look back walk away, and I said the next time I see her, I'm asking her out. She's older, and I just went straight for it, like "We should have a drink sometime" and named a hotel. She gave me a pretty knowing look. But, when we texted she was like "well I have to figure out this situationship before anything, and I am very flattered". That a 50 something woman is using a made up word like situationship is just wild social media era shyt. Didn't that start from a Fabulous song?
Scenario 3: A woman I have probably seen 15 times in my neighborhood. She's black/half black, has a video girl body, walks a pitbull around, and just gave a really closed off/stern demeanor, walked fast, head up, interacting with no one, but one morning she rounded the same corner, and mouthed good morning, without saying anything. So, next time we just started talking, and now we are like into each other. She's my exact age, and from the same area. I just wonder what she would be open too. She def. gave me the career woman resume run down already, and is little self important, but mostly very cool. @WIA20XX, the highly educated black, professional woman who is unmarried at 40 is much more in your city. What can I expect if I ask her out?
Scenario 2: Another older woman, about 52, balling pretty hard. Does something with an investment bank. We had a couple of interactions, she gave me like the look back walk away, and I said the next time I see her, I'm asking her out. She's older, and I just went straight for it, like "We should have a drink sometime" and named a hotel. She gave me a pretty knowing look. But, when we texted she was like "well I have to figure out this situationship before anything, and I am very flattered". That a 50 something woman is using a made up word like situationship is just wild social media era shyt. Didn't that start from a Fabulous song?
Scenario 3: A woman I have probably seen 15 times in my neighborhood. She's black/half black, has a video girl body, walks a pitbull around, and just gave a really closed off/stern demeanor, walked fast, head up, interacting with no one, but one morning she rounded the same corner, and mouthed good morning, without saying anything. So, next time we just started talking, and now we are like into each other. She's my exact age, and from the same area. I just wonder what she would be open too. She def. gave me the career woman resume run down already, and is little self important, but mostly very cool. @WIA20XX, the highly educated black, professional woman who is unmarried at 40 is much more in your city. What can I expect if I ask her out?
The hell you giving grannies attention for? They get off on that shyt and use it as validation for their delusion.
Sounds like grandma #1 froze emotionally age wise. She just wanted to feel hot, experience a fantasy, probably wanted to see if she still got it (which she does and has since she was younger). She wasn’t confused. She just let the moment run until it stopped being convenient or safe for her.
Grandma #2 was interested, but you represented optionally, not urgency. This could be fun someday vs I need this now.
Boss babe wasn’t flirting, she was checking to see if you were safe and giving you “take it or leave it energy”. She’s evaluating the fit and qualifying you. Sounds like high friction if anything. I’d say go for it, but make sure you’re leading her or she’ll lose attraction.
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I’m definitely in with this girl; but she isn’t moving to my city until April. I’m trying to balance keeping in touch/flirting and not messing things up
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again,
Gen Z women are literally a diff breed of human.
It’s like in blade 2 when the vampires and humans had to team up to fight that other breed of monster.
I used that quote when telling a story about a Gen Z who walked out pre date with me.
@Ahadi, good breakdown. My qualifiers are a lot less heavy than some. If they are attractive to me, and not the wrong kind of dangerous, I'm down. But, I also approach all these like they are going to be down to have a escalating heavy sexual/romantic affair, because that's essentially what I want. Intellectually, I know that this is often not what these women want.
The older, refined divorcees I like, because they know more of what they want, and get less of it. The #1 told me something like that, she was like I'm not seeing anyone but there's one person. She has some older man she's working.
The one with the pitbull, yeah I got that from her. I'll 100% take my shot, but she does have that kind of ego/arrogance. I can also tell she's interested. I'd love to have someone to sleep with a few times a week and listen to old school R&B with. Maybe I can just say that to her, at least get it in the open.
You’re clear on what you want, which is good, however with these women, it seems like you’re aiming with clarity a little too hard and those older women, move slower and value control.
The older divorcees aren’t confused, they just want desire without pressure and excitement without fallout. They want discretion & When it stops feeling discreet or safe, they dip. The banker didn’t reject you, she just slowed you down. “I’m flattered” means you passed, but she’s not blowing up her life for intensity without direction. Which is why she’s taking up the older man. You want to move with circumspection.
The pitbull woman is actually the best shot if you don’t overplay it. She’s not arrogant, she’s guarded and evaluating. Don’t announce the end goal or pitch a situationship. You just lead calmly: ask her out, keep it intentional, let the tension build.
Say to her: “I like you. I don’t date casually forever, but I also don’t rush things. Let’s get a drink and see if we actually enjoy each other”
That way you don’t lose polarity. You frame and she steps in. You’re good at this & know this. Boss babes want to just “let go” & “turn their brains off”
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