Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr Hate Coffee]

"what do you do when you get that feeling of emptiness inside you and you just don't want to approach or close or even look at girls at all cuz you feel so empty and this makes you sad and lost in thoughts. what do you do when you are in this period of your life?"

find something to do that helps me cheer up, even if it is just eating pizza and watching American Movie with my friend

then I pick a day to quit being a bytch and move on

then I follow thru

I read this on reddit and chuckled. The bolded is something I gotta remember. Not even when it comes to gettting at women but for life in general. I get depressed from time to time.

 

[philmonroe]

Bruh, I'll be real. I think one of the best things in the world is having the arms of your lady wrap around your shoulders while she gives you a peck on the cheek to tell you it's going to be alright after you had a day from hell. Epitome of a woman holding a man down.

Simp or not, I want to look forward to seeing my woman.

I think a lot of people want this but are so jaded with all the games people playing on both sides so it gets harder and harder to find esp as you get older it seems. I saw some young couple that will probably break up because they want to "explore" others but that probably be one of their last relationships where one or both parties aren't jaded in some way.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Another girl

Lol everyone on this board thinks about my ex fiance more than I do.

And well she didn't really care which is what I expected.

The last girl I'll ever love

Doesn't matter if she cared or not tho. You did it for yourself. At least you didn't expect her to care. If you go into those situations hoping for a certain reaction then you're fukked because you're seeking validation. That's why I don't engage in any type of games with women. Even some of the "rules" in this thread. If I want to answer a girl's text immediately I'll do it. Because it's what I want to do, not because I care how they perceive it.

But yeah I'm glad you closed that chapter of your life.

My EX of two years who got married within a year of us breaking up just re friend requested me on facebook i been her friend on there for a few days. cracking up at her faux lovey dovey status with her husband of 4 months.

THEN i saw her status about how she missed college. but guess who she was with or trying to get with all of college. ME!...... My EGO tellin me that she actaully misses me ...................only because i miss her sometimes

Women are fukking weird yo. Like I'll never understand them. I'm convinced they look at getting married like we look at new p*ssy. Something deep inside them forces them to chase it even if it's not with the ideal person. I see so many girls I'm friends with getting married to all kinds of guys they wouldn't give the time of day in their prime. Then they put it all on Facebook. Watching them flip the switch like that is amazing.

But on the real she probably does miss you but it's a fleeting feeling. Once she's gotten her fix by being your fb friend and prying into your life she'll retreat back to her happy home. Like I said, women are weird. They be mentally cheating like a mofo. The best I can compare it to is like a horny man sending texts to a chick saying all this sweet shyt but when he comes to his senses be like "WTF was I thinking? I don't even like this girl." Meanwhile the girl thinks the guy really likes her.

 

[MikelArteta]

But how many quality faithful women are out there doing that?

Bruh, I'll be real. I think one of the best things in the world is having the arms of your lady wrap around your shoulders while she gives you a peck on the cheek to tell you it's going to be alright after you had a day from hell. Epitome of a woman holding a man down.

Simp or not, I want to look forward to seeing my woman.

 

[DaRealness]

Another thing to look out for is women that look good on PAPER. By paper I mean a woman who has all the education,credentials,best job etc in the world.Yet as time goes on that doesnt mean a hill of beans in terms of MATURITY.These women are dangerous and arsingle for a reason.Fellas dont let what a woman has distract you.Education is education.She may have a doctorate degree and still be a hoodrat an educated one.

I've never understood why a lot of women talk about their education and credentials as to the reasons why they'd make a good partner. That's never made any sense to me.

That's like me saying being certified as an server/storage engineer makes me a good person. Apart from finances, WTF does that have to do with relationships and building a family???

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I've never understood why a lot of women talk about their education and credentials as to the reasons why they'd make a good partner. That's never made any sense to me.

That's like me saying being certified as an server/storage engineer makes me a good person. Apart from finances, WTF does that have to do with relationships and building a family???

It's validation for them and their life decisions. They're thinking they can be like men. For men it makes sense to talk about credentials, since we are by default the breadwinners. What women gotta understand is that never in history has a man been turned on by a woman's finances or achievements. We all joke about smashing Oprah but nobody really means it. On the other hand, women really do get turned on by that.

Also, women have to understand that they have EVERY SINGLE INHERENT ADVANTAGE when it comes to doing well in school. Think about it. If you have a set of siblings the girl almost always does well in school growing up. While the boy has a harder time, is a knucklehead, etc. Then when you look at college enrollment rates its like 65-75% women. So of course you're not gonna be impressed just cuz a woman has an education. It's laid out there perfectly to get one.

 

[MikelArteta]

Pretty much!

It's validation for them and their life decisions. They're thinking they can be like men. For men it makes sense to talk about credentials, since we are by default the breadwinners. What women gotta understand is that never in history has a man been turned on by a woman's finances or achievements. We all joke about smashing Oprah but nobody really means it. On the other hand, women really do get turned on by that.

Also, women have to understand that they have EVERY SINGLE INHERENT ADVANTAGE when it comes to doing well in school. Think about it. If you have a set of siblings the girl almost always does well in school growing up. While the boy has a harder time, is a knucklehead, etc. Then when you look at college enrollment rates its like 65-75% women. So of course you're not gonna be impressed just cuz a woman has an education. It's laid out there perfectly to get one.

 

[Mr210]

Bruh, I'll be real. I think one of the best things in the world is having the arms of your lady wrap around your shoulders while she gives you a peck on the cheek to tell you it's going to be alright after you had a day from hell. Epitome of a woman holding a man down.

Simp or not, I want to look forward to seeing my woman.

my girl does that for me, great feeling

 

[Turbulent]

Another thing to look out for is women that look good on PAPER. By paper I mean a woman who has all the education,credentials,best job etc in the world.Yet as time goes on that doesnt mean a hill of beans in terms of MATURITY.These women are dangerous and arsingle for a reason.Fellas dont let what a woman has distract you.Education is education.She may have a doctorate degree and still be a hoodrat an educated one.

very true.that's why when ever there's a thread on "what you look for in a woman" my answer is always the same: loyalty, honesty, obedience, trust in me.

all these other things like education, money, skills, that look good on paper are also great and ideally you want them as well. but they are like icing on the cake. I still need the cake though. If it comes down to it, i'd rather have an ignorant broke chick with those 4 qualities than to have an educated chick who's lacking in those same qualities. If a chick is ignorant, you can give her knowledge. if she's educated, you can educate her or help her educate herself. Good luck teaching a chick to be loyal or honest. Even if you manage to pull it off, her honesty and loyalty will only be a facade that she will keep on as long as she needs you...

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Kiss your woman goodbye when you leave the house every day as a ritual. Its a good barometer for how yall are feeling in the morning. When shes getting on your nerves, dont. Typically she'll ask why you didnt kiss her goodbye. Disconnecting that bond will often help yall work the issue out sooner then later.

 

[twan83]

Bruh, I'll be real. I think one of the best things in the world is having the arms of your lady wrap around your shoulders while she gives you a peck on the cheek to tell you it's going to be alright after you had a day from hell. Epitome of a woman holding a man down.

Simp or not, I want to look forward to seeing my woman.

it sure is when you both are on the equal wavelengths too

 

[twan83]

very true.that's why when ever there's a thread on "what you look for in a woman" my answer is always the same: loyalty, honesty, obedience, trust in me.

all these other things are also things that look good on paper are great and ideally you want them as well. but they are like icing on the cake. I still need the cake though. If it comes down to it, i'd rather have an ignorant broke chick with those 4 qualities than to have an educated chick who's lacking in those same qualities. If a chick is ignorant, you can give her knowledge. if she's educated, you can educate her or help her educate herself. Good luck teaching a chick to be loyal or honest. Even if you manage to pull it off, her honesty and loyalty will only be a facade that she will keep on as long as she needs you...

c/s too the fullest. I'm more or less same way as you when looking for a partner. sure i wouldn't mind a sexy looking partner but give me a average looking chick with those qualities and I'm

a dime piece missing that aint shyt and is a damn headache too deal with i been thru it too many times

which why looks is not the biggest priority too me. people can say what they want too me bout while they unhappy with that trophy wife i be with my average looking one which in return makes her even more attractive in my eyes

cuz that average female with those qualities starts too look even better cuz she held you down and respect you and stayed loyal too you

 

[DaRealness]

These are the kind of women these days raising kids and the kind we're supposed to take on to prove we're 'real men':

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Kiss your woman goodbye when you leave the house every day as a ritual. Its a good barometer for how yall are feeling in the morning. When shes getting on your nerves, dont. Typically she'll ask why you didnt kiss her goodbye. Disconnecting that bond will often help yall work the issue out sooner then later.

Good shyt!

 

[twan83]

Kiss your woman goodbye when you leave the house every day as a ritual. Its a good barometer for how yall are feeling in the morning. When shes getting on your nerves, dont. Typically she'll ask why you didnt kiss her goodbye. Disconnecting that bond will often help yall work the issue out sooner then later.

c/s