Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Update on my situation:

I spoke to my girl last night about everything and she tried to flip everything on me. Saying things like "I've found out that you're not willing to compromise for me. Not even a little bit."

I won't lie, I was getting heated and I literally just gave up there on the spot. I told that I really wanna be with her but I'm too young to deal with this stress and bullshyt. I said to her that I'm done and that she probably won't hear from me but I'm not gonna do stuff like delete her number and block her on whatsapp.

She then tried to turn it on me again saying things like "See, this is what I get for going against my gut feeling and getting with a younger guy." I swear these girls are selfish and/or irrational. I had to tell her about herself and I told her that she's the only reason this is happening because I've done nothing wrong...and she agreed with me :upsetfavre:

The she said that she knew our relationship wasn't gonna last because I said I would struggle to stand by her if I knew she was killer. (I know I could have just humoured her and lied but we ain't Bonnie & Clyde, she can miss me with that shyt :pachaha:)

I slept it off and I feel a bit weird. Hopefully a good workout will make me feel better.

Dash her to the bushes, bruv. :camby:

I could even understand if you guys were in your 30s, but you have your whole life ahead of you, so WTF is she chatting about? :heh: "I know it feels right" lol. Ten years ago, some of the shyt I did cos it "felt right" were things I later regretted.

Yeah it probably "feels right" to her because Denise and Charlene down the road are throwing little birthday parties for their kids and she wants what they've got. Don't let her railroad and coerce you into something as serious as having kids you're not ready for, because it ain't like buying a new car at Glyn Hopkin, this is a lifetime ting. She don't sound all that mature anyway, stomping her foot like some five year old whose mother won't buy her a happy meal lol. You don't want someone like that in your life for 18 years and over, because trust me it won't end there. Let her be some next man's headache.
 

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You got some women who even blame their own kids for their? :huh: LOL their really gone.

What I do hate to see is women harshly speaking to their little children for simply being children. It's almost like they have a point to prove. These are the same women who are using vulgar language and scrapping in public right in the vicinity of theirs and other people's children with no sense of class and dignity whatsoever. You can watch any fight video to see that. Back in the day, if something was about to go down the mother would at least tell their kids to go in the other room, now they just don't care. Yet they expect these same kids to behave like little angels?? :snoop:
 

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Quick one. Work with her.

Told i liked her got her to go see a movie (this took bout 3 months, red flag 1)

Everything went good and she said we will do this again. Hasnt happened since.

Flirting happens alot etc etc etc

Her friend starts working under me and tells me its obvious i like her (never met the friend before last week). and i dont spread my business.

Then she texts me that people are teasing her that I like her and im a kind person and she likes me as a friend.

bytch, you coulda BEEN said this and at least had the decency to tell me to my face. That= disrespect. :camby:
My first response was why couldn't she tell me to my face. So; I never replied to the text and deleted her number. Bushes. :camby:

fukk that shyt :banderas: Lil bytch. I will not tolerate that type of disrespect.
 

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Dash her to the bushes, bruv. :camby:

I could even understand if you guys were in your 30s, but you have your whole life ahead of you, so WTF is she chatting about? :heh: "I know it feels right" lol. Ten years ago, some of the shyt I did cos it "felt right" were things I later regretted.

Yeah it probably "feels right" to her because Denise and Charlene down the road are throwing little birthday parties for their kids and she wants what they've got. Don't let her railroad and coerce you into something as serious as having kids you're not ready for, because it ain't like buying a new car at Glyn Hopkin, this is a lifetime ting. She don't sound all that mature anyway, stomping her foot like some five year old whose mother won't buy her a happy meal lol. You don't want someone like that in your life for 18 years and over, because trust me it won't end there. Let her be some next man's headache.

It's madness. I can't even deal with this right now 'cause I'm in my last year of uni and my state of mind is totally fukked up right now. All I've done today is work out in the morning and then sleep all day. I need to get myself together because my productivity has flown out the window right now.
 

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It's madness. I can't even deal with this right now 'cause I'm in my last year of uni and my state of mind is totally fukked up right now. All I've done today is work out in the morning and then sleep all day. I need to get myself together because my productivity has flown out the window right now.

Rocky relationships can have you feeling like you're in the Twilight Zone sometimes, I've been there.

Just look at it as a lucky escape, cos trust me you'll look back in the near future and realise this could have been a whoooole lot worse. The fact you're in uni and she's bringing all this emotional blackmail and pressure shows she's not a forward thinker and is just plain selfish. She acts like a 16 year old. Life is too short to deal with shyt like that. Cry on someone's shoulder if you have to, but in the meantime focus on your studies.
 
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how do yall brehs feel about being roommates with a chick that you're not dating

she's fine as shyt too :lupe:
 

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You ever see those women out with a little child whether their own child, a grandson or grandaughter, neice or nephew,etc.......and they throw a tantrum when the child does something as small as walking 2 steps? I remember one time in this Burger King this women who looked like a grandmother kept going too hard for no reason when the little boy she was with was moving in a little in his seat. The little guy wasn't even being loud or cursing or anything like that to warrant a response....I noticed alot of them do this.

@Turbulent :salute: going to try to learn to handle people like her. Your right though I have had @sshole male customers before its just that we know the ratio is extremely lopsided lets be honest. If you were to ask female cashiers what gender if they had the chance to deal with on one given day if they had the chance 9 out of 10 would say men.

You remember the Jay z line "You dont buy me Reeboks no more,throwing tamptrums on the floor". Thats some women.Those will be the women if you was to argue in their face they would start throwing things.Just like a child who is mad.I always said this.Your weakness or flaw as a child GROWS in you and doesnt change with age. Those women who threw tamptrums did it towards their fathers to get what they want,so of course they will do it towards you.
 

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how do yall brehs feel about being roommates with a chick that you're not dating

she's fine as shyt too :lupe:

Dont do it.She will be bringing men over which would make you jealous.She will try to get out of rent.She may be fne,but looks can deceive you.She knows she is beautful and will put you thru alot of stuff.... Alot of drama so proceed with caution
 

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i do wanna fukk :whoa: but at the same time its not like i need to fukk.. i got other chicks :manny:

might i add she also my plug :snoop:

hmm doesnt sound like itd be too bad. the crib would be kind of hot depending on how she moves. hopefully yall dont get raided
 

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Dont do it.She will be bringing men over which would make you jealous.She will try to get out of rent.She may be fne,but looks can deceive you.She knows she is beautful and will put you thru alot of stuff.... Alot of drama so proceed with caution

i feel you. i keep that in my head. but i legit know this chick too, and she aint a fukk nikka like that :manny: ill probably do 6 months anyway. i think i can co-exist with a chick in the crib.
 

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Dont do it.She will be bringing men over which would make you jealous.She will try to get out of rent.She may be fne,but looks can deceive you.She knows she is beautful and will put you thru alot of stuff.... Alot of drama so proceed with caution

i can see it now

I'm short 300 for rent this month but there are other ways i can pay :shaq:,
then dude will be short money every month for a handjob, blow job or sex.
 
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