Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I'm wondering how much a chick can be feeling you without being up on you or even have your number, and how you should act. An example: I go to this coffee shop often and I always see these 2 women who are friends and they're always holding conversations with me. The first 1 I met heard me talking about getting a job at Adidas to a friend and so she interrupted me, asked for my email address and said she'd give it to one of the people that she works for that works for Adidas. Anyway weeks later (yesterday) I see her friend with some other friends who came from California and she's chatting me up again. Also she started the convo and initially said 'hi' first.

Things like this make me wonder..

 

[Turbulent]

I'm wondering how much a chick can be feeling you without being up on you or even have your number, and how you should act. An example: I go to this coffee shop often and I always see these 2 women who are friends and they're always holding conversations with me. The first 1 I met heard me talking about getting a job at Adidas to a friend and so she interrupted me, asked for my email address and said she'd give it to one of the people that she works for that works for Adidas. Anyway weeks later (yesterday) I see her friend with some other friends who came from California and she's chatting me up again. Also she started the convo and initially said 'hi' first.

Things like this make me wonder..

it's impossible to read people's minds. you'll go crazy trying to.

as far as how you should act, it depends on what you want from her.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

it's impossible to read people's minds. you'll go crazy trying to.

as far as how you should act, it depends on what you want from her.

That makes sense.

In all honesty it'd depend on what she'd want, because I don't want to waste time chasing a chick.

 

[Turbulent]

That makes sense.

In all honesty it'd depend on what she'd want, because I don't want to waste time chasing a chick.

if you'Mre not sure what you want from her, let it marinate a little bit. What you want from her shouldn't depend on what she wants from you cause then you're letting her will dictate what you should want from her.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

if you'Mre not sure what you want from her, let it marinate a little bit. What you want from her shouldn't depend on what she wants from you cause then you're letting her will dictate what you should want from her.

Yeah, but if I don't know what she wants then how am I to decide whether to make a move or not? I think I want her phone number, but I don't want to make things awkward, that's why I'd rather wait for a sign.

 

[Turbulent]

Yeah, but if I don't know what she wants then how am I to decide whether to make a move or not? I think I want her phone number, but I don't want to make things awkward, that's why I'd rather wait for a sign.

that's cool. i'm not saying to go in blind. i was more speaking on when you said "it depends on what she wants". this is a very dangerous mindset to have. Never compromise on what you want. keep it real with yourself and go after what you want regardless of what she wants (or what you think she wants). She probably wants the moon breh. Maybe she wants your attention and dedication to her. maybe she wants you to devote all your time and ressources to her cause. Or maybe she just wants to hook you up with a job because her friend needs an employee. What she wants doesn't matter in the big scheme of things. Figure out what you want, why you want it, and what she is offering. If she's not offering what you want, you can either play the game of what she wants in order to eventually get what you want (and maybe play yourself in the process) or KIM. We all play the game to some extent. The trick is to be conscious of it and establish boundaries of how far you will go and sacrifice before you cut your losses.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

that's cool. i'm not saying to go in blind. i was more speaking on when you said "it depends on what she wants". this is a very dangerous mindset to have. Never compromise on what you want. keep it real with yourself and go after what you want regardless of what she wants (or what you think she wants). She probably wants the moon breh. Maybe she wants your attention and dedication to her. maybe she wants you to devote all your time and ressources to her cause. Or maybe she just wants to hook you up with a job because her friend needs an employee. What she wants doesn't matter in the big scheme of things. Figure out what you want, why you want it, and what she is offering. If she's not offering what you want, you can either play the game of what she wants in order to eventually get what you want (and maybe play yourself in the process) or KIM. We all play the game to some extent. The trick is to be conscious of it and establish boundaries of how far you will go and sacrifice before you cut your losses.

I understand, but this is the friend of the friend that was talking about Adidas. Anyway, you make a good point I think, figure out what you want and then go for it, but how do I figure out what she's offering?

 

[Turbulent]

I understand, but this is the friend of the friend that was talking about Adidas. Anyway, you make a good point I think, figure out what you want and then go for it, but how do I figure out what she's offering?

she'll make it clear. it's like you said, she'll give you the signs. or she'll even ask you directly.

EDIT: or she'll just give it to you straight up. but if she wants something in exchange of her giving you something later, you might get played cause that's playing the game as well. you're basically trusting she'll take care of you after you will have taken care of her.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

she'll make it clear. it's like you said, she'll give you the signs. or she'll even ask you directly.

EDIT: or she'll just give it to you straight up. but if she wants something in exchange of her giving you something later, you might get played cause that's playing the game as well. you're basically trusting she'll take care of you after you will have taken care of her.

Hm. I'll have to see how this all works out. Only see her and her friend like once a week anyway so f it. Thanks though.

 

[DaRealness]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/351683/Life-is-wrecked-by-gold-digger

Spoiler

I'VE never been the most confident guy but now I feel totally worthless.

And it's all due to a scheming gold-digger who has set out to ruin me.

I should have realised that such a sexy girl would never be interested in me.

I was flattered when she came up to me in a club a year ago.

I've never been chatted up by a girl before but she was so sexy and she seemed so sincere that I never doubted her for one moment.

It seems, however, that she was just after my money. And she nearly got it.

My mates were all amazed when I started going out with this cow because I'm a skinny nerd and I've spent all my time working on computers.

When I was 21, four years ago, I started an IT company and I've made a lot of money.

After we'd been together for two months she asked to move in and I ended up buying her a sports car, as many clothes as she wanted and fantastic holidays.

I really thought she loved me, but one day I came home early and heard her on her mobile talking to some bloke about me.

She told him that I was setting up a joint account for her, that she was going to clear it out and it wouldn't be long before she was with him.

I stood in the doorway listening and felt sick and shaky.

Once she realised I'd heard her she admitted what she was up to. It seems she's been seeing this guy for years and had planned from day one to fleece me so she could bankroll him.

She asked me if I really believed that she would have fancied me and that every time we made love she felt sick.

She said I'd been pointed out to her in that club as a very wealthy guy.

I chucked her out and she drove off in the very expensive car I'd bought her with as many clothes as she could carry.

Now I feel like a total prat for ever believing that any girl could find me attractive. How am I ever going to trust anyone ever again?

Just trust any ole chick and buy cars, clothes and jewelry for a woman you barely even know brehs.

 

[Beerus]

Wanted to ask her out a 2nd time for some time now, first time well like I said before here i only knew her for like 3 weeks first time I tried in March, and she just said well im working
I really think I had a window when she brought me some of her food(jokingly said she should bring me some, and she did) last month, but only reason why I did not ask was mainly because I had to study that weekend for school. I see her from time to time we talk n shyt(like make her laugh and all) I really don't text her cuz there ain't no reason to do it if I ain't tryna get a meetup like a date like asap.

But i'm gon be done with this semester like on the 14, prob will try to ask her out whenever I see her.

Man she is fukking nice, like everytime I see her I can't stop thinking bout her afterwards. Im good when I dont see her she rarely is on my mind but the days I do
and no I don't put all my eggs in one basket with her if I see someone else like the opportunity arises I go at it.

But her brehs when I see her SHE GOT ME fukkED UP I need to ask her out so I can end this shyt and either she down with me or she and i won't be all fukked up after I see her on some Drake shyt

 

[kevm3]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/351683/Life-is-wrecked-by-gold-digger
Just trust any ole chick and buy cars, clothes and jewelry for a woman you barely even know brehs.

As men, we are dealt with fighting against our social programming as well as our inherent nature of being the protector. The guy bought her all this stuff and she didn't appreciate it. Instead, she decided to fleece him. Keep your money in your pockets and don't allow women to manipulate you. As soon as you start paying for her school, for her hair and nails, for her rent, etc., you're just paying for a free ride for the next man. If she doesn't want to deal with you off of personality alone, she's out the door.

 

[Boy C]

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i agree