Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My ex called me today telling me that she misses me and wants to chill but just as friends. I told her that I don't think it's a good idea and that I can't look at her as a friend. She was getting upset about it and kept asking me why I can't be her friend and I snapped and literally told her exactly how I feel. I told her that I feel a combination of resentment, anger, rejection and acceptance...and now she feels some type of way about it.

I feel terrible, not because I made her feel bad but because I promised myself that I was gonna put an emotional wall up between me and her when she broke up with me but I had a moment of weakness. The feeling of vulnerability is a bytch.

she's mad at you for expressing your honest feelings.

she's mad at you for being mad at her.



seems logical. :ehh:
 

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*Update*

I just woke up to a missed call and text from ol girl stating that she sorry that she missed my call from Monday. She also states that she left her phone in her friends car and she just got it back last night.

:patrice:

Don't know what to do fellas. It seem plausible and this is not typical behavior from her from as i know from her so far but still a part of me....:comeon::aicmon:

breaking appointments/being late kills responsible people, really weighs on them. even if she left her phone (and didn't know yours [very possible] and had no other way to contact you [:aicmon:] she was still in the wrong and should try and make amends. i wouldn't even try and set something else up - let her bring up possible solutions
 

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my meeting is shortly
i dont know if i should bring up everything or just say a few words like and cut it ot

or just get everything off my chest finally cut the cord and live a glorious life
 
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my meeting is shortly
i dont know if i should bring up everything or just say a few words like and cut it ot

or just get everything off my chest finally cut the cord and live a glorious life

I think say what you have to say without getting emotional. I mean like don't get angry or cry. Don't talk about the relationship, or what could have been. If you can do that then it's closure for you.

If you can't do that then say the important stuff don't give her the chance to reply and dip
 
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its sad tahts why you dont help out women
loyalty is not one of their traits

Here's the thing.. You gotta know if a girl is on your level or not. If you're a nerd and butt ugly you shouldn't be expecting a 5+ Female especially if they've never paid attention to you before. That guy has himself to blame. He shouldn't have been as easy as naive. If a girl comes upto me and within 6 months wants support and all that I'm giving her the :camby:
 

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What ya'll think about a female that's been in a relationship for a while saying shyt like " I'm gonna leave you" then saying she was just joking right afterwards when the mans reaction in like"go then".

Don't know what the convo was about before she said it but i don't think it had nothing to with them breaking up.
 
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