Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Here's the thing.. You gotta know if a girl is on your level or not. If you're a nerd and butt ugly you shouldn't be expecting a 5+ Female especially if they've never paid attention to you before. That guy has himself to blame. He shouldn't have been as easy as naive. If a girl comes upto me and within 6 months wants support and all that I'm giving her the :camby:

I have to somewhat disagree. People transform themselves all the time. In fact, recently I had a job in the city in a big department store and this good looking, confident chick (that ass was :ohlawd:) was my point of contact. Chick could easily pass for a model. My colleague who has been going to this particular site for a few years now said that just a year ago, this broad was overweight, dressed frumpy, and could barely hold a conversation. Now she's totally unrecognisable and is turning male customer's heads. I even started a thread a while back about a dude who was heavily obese and used to get dissed mercilessly by females and had nothing going for him, now he's a fitness instructor himself.

Personally, I don't like that kind of talk about a woman not being on a "level" or "league"...says who? What makes any broad so special and better than the next person? Cos she's a dime? Cos she has money? The baddest chick will age and develop wrinkles and grey hair one day and still has to take a shyt and picks their nose in private like everyone else. Besides, a new broad turns 21 every single day while these same dimes get older and lose their looks. Halle Berry was once "untouchable", now she has baggage, mileage, emotional issues and couldn't hold a relationship to save her life.

This man in the article obviously has money, but his single greatest enemy is his low self esteem/lack of confidence. I mean, seriously......"Poor me, I know I'm not good looking or fit but I have a good heart" Really brah? :what: Who the fukk wants to be around someone who talks like that? Honestly. :snoop: You obviously got money, so hit the gym and get a personal trainer, attend confidence workshops etc. In this country, especially in this city you have an abundance of shyt that can help you physically, holistically, mentally, emotionally etc. especially if you have the money which he obviously does. A defeatist attitude is really off putting, and someone like him is the ideal golddigger's prey.

He needs to shape up, ditch the 'woe is me' mentality, get some fire in his energy and be less trusting/naive and be more wiser. He also needs to realise this namby pamby "I'm a good and generous person" doesn't fly in the 21st century with females anymore. The only woman you should give freebies too should be your mother or grandmother. Anyone else, GTFOH.
 

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there is no such things as leagues in terms of attractiveness in my part, everyone women and men have their own view of what is attractive.


I remember this hot :wow:, Argentinian girl I was talking to, i never knew she liked me I was like 17. Skinnier than I am now and im skinny now, i just met her online and she lived in ottawa but was coming to my city for the weekend and wanted to meet me. So i met her and wow, big azz big titties, beautiful face 10/10
I WAS LIKE :wow:, i did nothing i was a shy little loser, it wasnt till after she text me like I wanted to kiss you to bad :noah:

even with my ex fiance she looked like anna kournikova but had bigger t*ts :banderas:< i remember everyone saying how did you get her and i was like :manny:

you never know if a woman finds you attractive stop thinking of yoursle low
 

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another point, dudes need to stop trying to be cute to females hoping girls will be blown away by how thoughtful they are and be touched. simping simply doesn't work.

"i'm gonna by her that CD because it's "our song" and it's the main song of the first movie we went to see together. Once she realizes how far i went to make her happy her heart will melt and she will stop seeing me as just a friend" :rudy:

stop trying to be cute brehs. stop buying gifts in hope to convince a chick of anything. stop doing stuff for them in hope. that shyt doesn't work. it simply doesn't.

yup, tyrone just showing up on the 27th with a tin of cookies from the pharmacy and proceeds to blow that girl back out
 
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Well I'm an idiot. I got into an argument with my ex about my money. I knew I shouldn't have texted her but I had to know about the money.

She obviously lied again about the money. She's waiting for her bonus so I threatened to cut her line. I told her I don't have to give no notice and I can just cancel right away.

This quickly changed her tone and she started begging and crying and saying it's not fair for me to so that to her .. LOL .. Cause I'm not giving her time.

It ended with me having a meeting with her Sunday night. I won't be surprised if she cancels it giving me some bs excuse.

Only reason I got in touch was cause I didn't wanna be the bitter person. But that's exactly how it ended up. fukk I'm an idiot ....
 

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just sent it by email

a weight has been lifted off my shoulder that i have been carrying since 2009

to be freed :blessed:

I'll miss and always love my god son but my sanity and my life is more important

I don't even care about my money anymore id rather get a part time job than to still have a tie to this person.
 

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just sent it by email

a weight has been lifted off my shoulder that i have been carrying since 2009

to be freed :blessed:

I'll miss and always love my god son but my sanity and my life is more important

I don't even care about my money anymore id rather get a part time job than to still have a tie to this person.

Freedom is underrated
 
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breh its like i was her mom or something for 4 years, always breaking my neck for her due to my godson, sacrificed time and time agan and just got spat on and disrespected

well no more :blessed:

like the prodigal son ppl gotta learn on their own

God son means you have no blood ties with the kid so why did you even care that much? Where was the dad or the ex-bfs?
 

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God son means you have no blood ties with the kid so why did you even care that much? Where was the dad or the ex-bfs?

I've known the kid all of his life, like i stated before if it wasn't for me he would have been aborted.

ex bfs just pumped and dumped, current bf doesnt even know the kid yet.

Dad wanted a abortion and lives two hours away just started a few months ago seeing the kid
 
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