Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Say brehs... :patrice:

I'm considering celibacy for the new year. Reason why is that I realize that most of my stress derives from having sex with a girl. It changes everything.

But I have some questions. What do you guys do when you get the urge? Masturbate? No homo, I just wanna a know how far you take it.

@George Gooney @His_Excellence_Reincar

:what::what::what: you really be gettin stressed over p*ssy tho?


nikkas need stronger resolve :snoop:
 

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Say brehs... :patrice:

I'm considering celibacy for the new year. Reason why is that I realize that most of my stress derives from having sex with a girl. It changes everything.

But I have some questions. What do you guys do when you get the urge? Masturbate? No homo, I just wanna a know how far you take it.

@George Gooney @His_Excellence_Reincar
Pretty much breh(no homo). But it got to a point where I was disgusted by it. I did no fap a couple of times and made it to about 2-3 months each time but that urge breh :wow:. But instead of the headache of dealing with a chick you know you just wanna fukk and never see again I would fap and go about my days(which were very productive). Try it out and see how you like it. I broke my celibacy about 2 months ago :sadcam: I can't see myself going back...
 

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Pretty much breh(no homo). But it got to a point where I was disgusted by it. I did no fap a couple of times and made it to about 2-3 months each time but that urge breh :wow:. But instead of the headache of dealing with a chick you know you just wanna fukk and never see again I would fap and go about my days(which were very productive). Try it out and see how you like it. I broke my celibacy about 2 months ago :sadcam: I can't see myself going back...


ive been celibate for 3 years and was a major sex addict prior, im talking about random one night stands, chubby girls, girls i met off the internet like the day before, no protection, chlyamydia, trichomonsis just a filthy filthy life
 

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ive been celibate for 3 years and was a major sex addict prior, im talking about random one night stands, chubby girls, girls i met off the internet like the day before, no protection, chlyamydia, trichomonsis just a filthy filthy life
Word breh you told me... I did three years too. Keep fighting the good fight breh. I remember how good it felt knowing that I didn't need a woman for nothing.
 

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Word breh you told me... I did three years too. Keep fighting the good fight breh. I remember how good it felt knowing that I didn't need a woman for nothing.

the funny thing is whenever women found out many got silent, or never heard from them or got angry, or thought i was lying. When they know they cna't control you with sex or their vagina :heh:
 
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2014 will be my year. By the end of the year I have set some high goals, but still achievable.

Here's to a great 2014... I'm going to put less focus on girls and women, and focus on myself. The girls will come after that.
 

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Has anyone ever dealt with this kind of needless and nonsensical bullshyt from a chick? Lawd have mercy. :dead:


yeah, who hasn't?

equal parts "please feed my ego" and "I have a Perfect Ideal World where things will go exactly as I want. Why are you acting contrary to how you act in my Perfect Ideal World?"

I learned to just say "Okay." and then hang up the phone, walk off or whatever. Why play games? shyt ain't een important.
 

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Been single two years now and I've really enjoyed myself. The first year was rough mainly because my ex broke the no contact rule and we spoke for like 3 months but I reached a point where talking to her was annoying so it's been a year since we last spoke. Im in the best shape of my life and breaking up when we did couldnt have worked out better as I think we would probably be miserable together with kids long term.

I'm happier than I thought I'd be and being able to just do what I want is nice. I've grown a little cold hearted towards women and use them now but there is one that I posted about that I'd pursue a relationship with since she's an upgrade in every way. I'm a little apprehensive about pursuing her since it could get messy in my social circle and also because she's the marrying type basically she's the end game and that is terrifying.
 

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while I'm here,

if a woman thinks you should clean her car, inside or out.... drop her.

She has a looooooong list of things that she's too lazy to do that's "A Man's Job" in her mind.

By "man", I mean anybody else that's do it for her because she's a woman. That includes paying kids.


My last ex used to go on and on about how it was such a travesty that people would get pets and then simply neglect them or tie them outside to get rained on. " If they weren't up to the responsibility of taking care of them, then what was the point of getting them?" she'd say. "because it's trendy? Because people on TV have them? Just to have one?"

I agree, yah. She had a big heart. Lot of women do.

Too bad they don't apply that same mode of thinking to their cars, apartments, (I need money to get my) hair (done), phones, etc. etc....
 

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the funny thing is whenever women found out many got silent, or never heard from them or got angry, or thought i was lying. When they know they cna't control you with sex or their vagina :heh:
:ohlawd: i'm not gonna front like i'm celibate or as disciplined as y'all but i'm still pretty selective on who i sleep with and that shyt is so true. I don't do it to play games but it's still crazy how they're not used to that. it's like they have no power over you so it makes them go through all sorts of emotions. they hate it but love it at the same time.
 

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Went to a wedding last night, one of the bridesmaids, a thick ass sista was eyeing me up all day, choosing up on a brotha. I kept it cool for a couple hours till we hit the dancefloor.On the dancefloor I approached her, took her hand and we danced, she whined on me, backed that ass up on me etc. She left me a couple of times to do her bridemaids duties,but she kept on coming back, for a dance and small talk off the dance floor.

At the end of the night, before leaving, I looked for her and asked for the number. She said "my boyfriend wouldnt like but mmmmmmm here is my number we can talk"

What am I supposed to do, Coli fam?
 

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Went to a wedding last night, one of the bridesmaids, a thick ass sista was eyeing me up all day, choosing up on a brotha. I kept it cool for a couple hours till we hit the dancefloor.On the dancefloor I approached her, took her hand and we danced, she whined on me, backed that ass up on me etc. She left me a couple of times to do her bridemaids duties,but she kept on coming back, for a dance and small talk off the dance floor.

At the end of the night, before leaving, I looked for her and asked for the number. She said "my boyfriend wouldnt like but mmmmmmm here is my number we can talk"

What am I supposed to do, Coli fam?

tell her boyfriend his girl is a hore
 

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yeah, who hasn't?

equal parts "please feed my ego" and "I have a Perfect Ideal World where things will go exactly as I want. Why are you acting contrary to how you act in my Perfect Ideal World?"

I learned to just say "Okay." and then hang up the phone, walk off or whatever. Why play games? shyt ain't een important.

It's the lack of validation that gets to them. They want you to display signs of thirst and fawning all over them, but the man in the video had a nonchalant "whatever" type of vibe and it got her mad because she knew he wouldn't have been bothered about it either way whether she came to his house or not. A lot of chicks know that dudes want p*ssy so badly, so when they come across that rare dude who isn't too fussed about it, it drives them crazy - which is what some of the previous posts have alluded too.

That's why I've always said one of the worse punishments you can dish out to chicks is to withdraw your attention from them. They HATE that.
 

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Went to a wedding last night, one of the bridesmaids, a thick ass sista was eyeing me up all day, choosing up on a brotha. I kept it cool for a couple hours till we hit the dancefloor.On the dancefloor I approached her, took her hand and we danced, she whined on me, backed that ass up on me etc. She left me a couple of times to do her bridemaids duties,but she kept on coming back, for a dance and small talk off the dance floor.

At the end of the night, before leaving, I looked for her and asked for the number. She said "my boyfriend wouldnt like but mmmmmmm here is my number we can talk"

What am I supposed to do, Coli fam?

Nothing. She's an immature chick who likes to play games. They love doing that shyt. They'll do damn near everything but fukk you, but as soon as you take the next step, then suddenly they bring up some boyfriend they're seeing. It's just dumb, playground nonsense.

This is why I don't care about females dropping 'hints', unless I know for for sure that you're real, I'm not fukking with you. I'm too old for that b.s.
 
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