Pretty much breh(no homo). But it got to a point where I was disgusted by it. I did no fap a couple of times and made it to about 2-3 months each time but that urge brehSay brehs...
I'm considering celibacy for the new year. Reason why is that I realize that most of my stress derives from having sex with a girl. It changes everything.
But I have some questions. What do you guys do when you get the urge? Masturbate? No homo, I just wanna a know how far you take it.
@George Gooney @His_Excellence_Reincar
. But instead of the headache of dealing with a chick you know you just wanna fukk and never see again I would fap and go about my days(which were very productive). Try it out and see how you like it. I broke my celibacy about 2 months ago
I can't see myself going back...Pretty much breh(no homo). But it got to a point where I was disgusted by it. I did no fap a couple of times and made it to about 2-3 months each time but that urge breh. But instead of the headache of dealing with a chick you know you just wanna fukk and never see again I would fap and go about my days(which were very productive). Try it out and see how you like it. I broke my celibacy about 2 months ago
I can't see myself going back...
Word breh you told me... I did three years too. Keep fighting the good fight breh. I remember how good it felt knowing that I didn't need a woman for nothing.ive been celibate for 3 years and was a major sex addict prior, im talking about random one night stands, chubby girls, girls i met off the internet like the day before, no protection, chlyamydia, trichomonsis just a filthy filthy life
Word breh you told me... I did three years too. Keep fighting the good fight breh. I remember how good it felt knowing that I didn't need a woman for nothing.

Has anyone ever dealt with this kind of needless and nonsensical bullshyt from a chick? Lawd have mercy.![]()
the funny thing is whenever women found out many got silent, or never heard from them or got angry, or thought i was lying. When they know they cna't control you with sex or their vagina![]()
i'm not gonna front like i'm celibate or as disciplined as y'all but i'm still pretty selective on who i sleep with and that shyt is so true. I don't do it to play games but it's still crazy how they're not used to that. it's like they have no power over you so it makes them go through all sorts of emotions. they hate it but love it at the same time.Went to a wedding last night, one of the bridesmaids, a thick ass sista was eyeing me up all day, choosing up on a brotha. I kept it cool for a couple hours till we hit the dancefloor.On the dancefloor I approached her, took her hand and we danced, she whined on me, backed that ass up on me etc. She left me a couple of times to do her bridemaids duties,but she kept on coming back, for a dance and small talk off the dance floor.
At the end of the night, before leaving, I looked for her and asked for the number. She said "my boyfriend wouldnt like but mmmmmmm here is my number we can talk"
What am I supposed to do, Coli fam?
yeah, who hasn't?
equal parts "please feed my ego" and "I have a Perfect Ideal World where things will go exactly as I want. Why are you acting contrary to how you act in my Perfect Ideal World?"
I learned to just say "Okay." and then hang up the phone, walk off or whatever. Why play games? shyt ain't een important.
Went to a wedding last night, one of the bridesmaids, a thick ass sista was eyeing me up all day, choosing up on a brotha. I kept it cool for a couple hours till we hit the dancefloor.On the dancefloor I approached her, took her hand and we danced, she whined on me, backed that ass up on me etc. She left me a couple of times to do her bridemaids duties,but she kept on coming back, for a dance and small talk off the dance floor.
At the end of the night, before leaving, I looked for her and asked for the number. She said "my boyfriend wouldnt like but mmmmmmm here is my number we can talk"
What am I supposed to do, Coli fam?
Went to a wedding last night, one of the bridesmaids, a thick ass sista was eyeing me up all day, choosing up on a brotha. I kept it cool for a couple hours till we hit the dancefloor.On the dancefloor I approached her, took her hand and we danced, she whined on me, backed that ass up on me etc. She left me a couple of times to do her bridemaids duties,but she kept on coming back, for a dance and small talk off the dance floor.
At the end of the night, before leaving, I looked for her and asked for the number. She said
"my
boyfriend wouldnt like but mmmmmmm here is my number we can talk"
What am I supposed to do, Coli fam?
