Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What ya'll think about a female that's been in a relationship for a while saying shyt like " I'm gonna leave you" then saying she was just joking right afterwards when the mans reaction in like"go then".

Don't know what the convo was about before she said it but i don't think it had nothing to with them breaking up.

could be just a test, and then she got a reality check.


the thing that bothers ever female is a man who is not afraid to lose her,
 

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no risk no rewards, if a girl likes you you'll know, no text games etc. will make her more attractive to you or whatever.

if you text her now and she says nothing she wouldnt have said anything on the 23rd as well
Not necessarily we all have days you just dont wanna talk to a soul no matter how hot they are lol
 
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"He who loves least controls the relationship. If you want to control the relationship, don't fall in love with her so quickly! Don't toss the ball in their court, control the ball at all times. And you've got to be relentless -- you can't afford to be lazy"


"I see all these dumb guys arguing with their women. I don't argue with them. She can do whatever she wants and so can I. You see, if you argue with them then you're a p*ssy. It's my way or the highway. When you argue, you are telling her that you need her to act in a certain way or see something from your point of view in order for you to be happy. If you love someone set them free."


"I don't fight over p*ssy with other men. If you need her that bad, you can have her. And the fact that you are so desperate for her means that she will eventually get rid of you anyway. If you catch your girlfriend in bed with another guy, why should you be pissed at him? She probably lied to him anyway. But our male egos, which are nothing more than a distorted illusion that we carry around in our heads, makes us angry and makes us want to beat up the guy. If you ever catch your girlfriend or wife in bed with another guy, do yourself a favor and keep your cool. Have the confidence to say, "I hope you two will be happy together" and just walk away. Go to the next girl. While you guys are busy beating each other up, I'll be fukking them."

"Men who are not needy establish strict boundaries because they value their own time and happiness more than receiving the attention from a woman."

"The percentage of women who are Receptive to you will increase proportionally to the quality of your lifestyle, your social status and your looks."

"anybody who’s actually struggling, lemme give you the game from someone who went from 0 to 100 with it. JUST STOP CARING. dont care about the results or how a joke went wrong or how bad you choked. when i told myself ” i gotta bag 5 numbers 2nite no matter what or how bad she looks”, progress was automatic. built the confidence up from the scrub chicks to approaching packs of bad bixxhs in a group and then picking who i wanted. its all a sales pitch like dude said above and when u can pitch it to anyone without hesitation, youre good. if they reject, just get the fck outta there. no need for these creative lines. “oh ok. well nice meeting you.” and then ghost. keep it pimpin"

“Tell the beautiful girls they’re smart and tell the smart girls that they’re beautiful.”


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Should I cut anything out?

All I have to say is that I've been disrespected time and time again, but I always turned the other cheek.

The words and disparaging comments I said the other day were in a heated moment and I apologize for that.



However it’s now time for me in my life to look out for myself and surround myself with people who respect me.



Whatever you may think of me, just remember that when no one else was there for you, I was....time and time again, and when no one else cared, I did.

I wish you and your son the best in life and hope you two find happiness and joy.



God Bless.
 

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Should I cut anything out?

All I have to say is that I've been disrespected time and time again, but I always turned the other cheek.

The words and disparaging comments I said the other day were in a heated moment and I apologize for that.



However it’s now time for me in my life to look out for myself and surround myself with people who respect me.



Whatever you may think of me, just remember that when no one else was there for you, I was....time and time again, and when no one else cared, I did.


I wish you and your son the best in life and hope you two find happiness and joy.



God Bless.
i'd cut this part out
 

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I could but its not that simple.

There is deep rooted family ties, her son calls my sister auntie and my mom grandma.

I'm usually the die slow never hear from Mr again bit this time I want to leave without anger bitterness malice or anything .

I'm even going to just forger about the money
Like o did my engagement ring with my ex fiancé.

I'll leave like a player who was cut after being loyal to a team thanking them and wishing them well

This one time


honestly breh, don't even send her anything. treat it as if y'all were together and she showed major disrespect. cut her off completely with no fukks given if she cares or not, if she thinks you're a bytch or not, if she feels she won, if karma will teach her or not etc. fukk all that.
 

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I could but its not that simple.

There is deep rooted family ties, her son calls my sister auntie and my mom grandma.

I'm usually the die slow never hear from Mr again bit this time I want to leave without anger bitterness malice or anything .

I'm even going to just forger about the money
Like o did my engagement ring with my ex fiancé.

I'll leave like a player who was cut after being loyal to a team thanking them and wishing them well

This one time
yeah, seems like a tricky situation with the fam and all.

do what you feel is right as long as you don't expect or hope for a certain outcome. don't hope for her to read your message and be touched by it or see the errors in her ways. she won't because she's a user. she acts like a sociopath. just keep it cordial if you must interact with her and don't speak a word behind her back (good or bad).
 

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:ufdup:Hope you brehs ain't out here buying Xmas gifts for females who aren't fam or wifey.
another point, dudes need to stop trying to be cute to females hoping girls will be blown away by how thoughtful they are and be touched. simping simply doesn't work.

"i'm gonna by her that CD because it's "our song" and it's the main song of the first movie we went to see together. Once she realizes how far i went to make her happy her heart will melt and she will stop seeing me as just a friend" :rudy:

stop trying to be cute brehs. stop buying gifts in hope to convince a chick of anything. stop doing stuff for them in hope. that shyt doesn't work. it simply doesn't.
 

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I was on the fence, and leaning towards the 'don't' side, but I came in her and saw that post, (Re xmas gifts) and it's nothing I don't know, but seeing it, just settled my internal debate. Saved me $300 or so. I got her something for her birthday in that range, and this is someone I'm not involved with…I can't make her feel something she doesn't, $300-1000, whatever…even guys like Jordan Belfort (Wolf Of Wall Street) can't buy someones love, even with millions in cash, houses, jewelry, every extravagance, they left as soon as the money did.
 

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I was on the fence, and leaning towards the 'don't' side, but I came in her and saw that post, (Re xmas gifts) and it's nothing I don't know, but seeing it, just settled my internal debate. Saved me $300 or so. I got her something for her birthday in that range, and this is someone I'm not involved with…I can't make her feel something she doesn't, $300-1000, whatever…even guys like Jordan Belfort (Wolf Of Wall Street) can't buy someones love, even with millions in cash, houses, jewelry, every extravagance, they left as soon as the money did.
:whoa:

That is a little too much for someone that you are NOT involve with. If you decide to get something, do something cheap like some stuff from bath and body works and call it a day. Girls love that shyt and it cheap. For $300, I hope ol girl is sucking and fukking you dry until ya'll make it official or whatever.
 
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