Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I've been absent from this thread for quite a while. Slowly caught up on about sixty or so pages that I've missed. Glad things are still progressing in here. Things have been great for me for the past few months. Just been focusing on achieving top conditioning both physically and mentally. Life is good. Stay strong fellas.
Two dangerous combinations. Thirst and pretending. When your thirsty, you begin to pretend. You pretend to like that girl, you pretend care what she talks about only because you want that flesh. Be very careful
OfTheCross
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I've found that the way to combat this is with options... Whether or not you're actually getting to bang the females... talking to several and having the potential to bang keeps the thirst quenched...
Yesterday really showed me God is telling me need to be single for a min.
Had someone i trust try and put me on this chick, and he knows his shyt when it comes to a quality woman so i got her name and # ... Of course i find her facebook before i call to see whats good. Come to find out she went to school with my sis and is an AKA.
I hit my sis asking if she knew ol girl and shes like "yea she was really cool with (my ex of 3 years)"
Had to dead it right there
Had someone i trust try and put me on this chick, and he knows his shyt when it comes to a quality woman so i got her name and # ... Of course i find her facebook before i call to see whats good. Come to find out she went to school with my sis and is an AKA.
I hit my sis asking if she knew ol girl and shes like "yea she was really cool with (my ex of 3 years)"
Had to dead it right there
absolutely.. Having a roster/options is necessary when your single, it helps you avoid dealing with nonsense and falling into simp mode.
Even those in relationships keep a few in the deck
yes, man I used to talk to just one girl at a time and when she wouldn't text back or acting funny i'd be going crazy.
now i'm talking to like 4 or 5 girls and shyt is just a lot better. i got some girls number a couple weeks ago and hit her up and she aint text me back but I don't give a fukk, got other girls I can get at on deck. the old me would've be going crazy.
the dreaded oneitis
Yesterday really showed me God is telling me need to be single for a min.
Had someone i trust try and put me on this chick, and he knows his shyt when it comes to a quality woman so i got her name and # ... Of course i find her facebook before i call to see whats good. Come to find out she went to school with my sis and is an AKA.
I hit my sis asking if she knew ol girl and shes like "yea she was really cool with (my ex of 3 years)"
Had to dead it right there
if you believe in God, you will realize sometimes he removes you from poisonous situations for the betterment.
anytime a girl rejects me or it doesnt work i realize in due time it was for the best
Yea man, im just going to focus on whats important... Improving mentally, physically, emotionally and financiallyif you believe in God, you will realize sometimes he removes you from poisonous situations for the betterment.
anytime a girl rejects me or it doesnt work i realize in due time it was for the best
the funny thing i've noticed in life the good relationships I have had, when I wasn't looking , not concentrating on women, not even caring is when someone just popped out of nowhere.
@kevm3
Isn't it funny how a man MYSTERIOUSLY(side eye) becomes a no good nucca after YOU slept with him, without any type of security or requirements? I mean we love to talk about the extra weight we have to carry when we are on our own, but damn if that "weight" didn't feel good when we were on our backs huh?. In the words of Gangstar(RIP to my man Guru) "Who's gonna take the weight?" ummm YOU ARE. Instead of telling a man to be a "man about it" be a woman about yours. If you can't deal with the consequences that may follow when you rise, then maybe you should rethink "lying down.
^^^ a post on that nojima reflects page on facbeook you discussed before...im sorry breh but lets be serious...after that comment thrown in about "guru" and the way she said it "RIP to my man Guru" im convinced its not a woman with this facebook page...
Isn't it funny how a man MYSTERIOUSLY(side eye) becomes a no good nucca after YOU slept with him, without any type of security or requirements? I mean we love to talk about the extra weight we have to carry when we are on our own, but damn if that "weight" didn't feel good when we were on our backs huh?. In the words of Gangstar(RIP to my man Guru) "Who's gonna take the weight?" ummm YOU ARE. Instead of telling a man to be a "man about it" be a woman about yours. If you can't deal with the consequences that may follow when you rise, then maybe you should rethink "lying down.
^^^ a post on that nojima reflects page on facbeook you discussed before...im sorry breh but lets be serious...after that comment thrown in about "guru" and the way she said it "RIP to my man Guru" im convinced its not a woman with this facebook page...
Beerus
Banned
Let's get a lil run down of the times where I could easily had a girlfriend this year.
All from this summer basically
1.black chick from my 2nd job, she into me, I think but I never tried anything because I think she got a baggage that I dont want, and she older than me by 5 years old(im 23 she like 28) she cud get it. Since she older she might have wanted a relationship on some grown people shyt. i.e. going to her fams house meeting her moms, her going to my house meeting my fam, now this shyt cant happen cuz basically I live in a broken home and I pratically hate everyone there, and I guess that's not a good look.
2. Other chick from my 1st job, just turned 18. Ok I admit I kinda lead her on on some playful flirting, I mean just to keep my game in shape, had a few times where she threw the ball at me. Not on some obvious, but some subtle shyt in whic each time I put the friend zone shield up cuz basically... i mean she 18, she aint really got nothing going on in life, and plus there's always that freshman 15th. Oh yeah bigger reason, she's at my job, so if I fukk and dash or something goes wrong=bad job environment and I don't want that.
3. Other chick met at my job, everything was going fine and dandy was about to ask her out, but went on a trip and came back. Was going to ask her out(she aint working at my work anymore) but i was like ehh lazy. Crazy thing is she was probably the best chance I had out of all 3, but I just charged it to the game, and school was starting anyways.
Oh yeah came back from my trip and enforced a strictly no dating or messing wit chicks from my job policy and the types of chicks there
Idk why I keep going after difficult chicks when I could easily coulda got easy ones.
Welllllll gon ask this other chick wats up this upcoming week with that date
oh yeah she muslim, and man her parents might be on that shyt, and plus i aint no god damn muslim so that might be even bad.
I love my dating life shyt likes a bad movie. I might get it on with this chick or not and then it gon be on to the other chick and another season might open up. shyt even some projects I put on hold cuz they know that chick that im supposed to go out with and they live in the same area been extra careful to the point that I ain't even ask for their numbers. OH YEAH this other asian chick from my job asked me for my digits outta nowhere she nice but ima have to do my best to avoid that <_<
All from this summer basically
1.black chick from my 2nd job, she into me, I think but I never tried anything because I think she got a baggage that I dont want, and she older than me by 5 years old(im 23 she like 28) she cud get it. Since she older she might have wanted a relationship on some grown people shyt. i.e. going to her fams house meeting her moms, her going to my house meeting my fam, now this shyt cant happen cuz basically I live in a broken home and I pratically hate everyone there, and I guess that's not a good look.
2. Other chick from my 1st job, just turned 18. Ok I admit I kinda lead her on on some playful flirting, I mean just to keep my game in shape, had a few times where she threw the ball at me. Not on some obvious, but some subtle shyt in whic each time I put the friend zone shield up cuz basically... i mean she 18, she aint really got nothing going on in life, and plus there's always that freshman 15th. Oh yeah bigger reason, she's at my job, so if I fukk and dash or something goes wrong=bad job environment and I don't want that.
3. Other chick met at my job, everything was going fine and dandy was about to ask her out, but went on a trip and came back. Was going to ask her out(she aint working at my work anymore) but i was like ehh lazy. Crazy thing is she was probably the best chance I had out of all 3, but I just charged it to the game, and school was starting anyways.
Oh yeah came back from my trip and enforced a strictly no dating or messing wit chicks from my job policy and the types of chicks there
Idk why I keep going after difficult chicks when I could easily coulda got easy ones.
Welllllll gon ask this other chick wats up this upcoming week with that date
oh yeah she muslim, and man her parents might be on that shyt, and plus i aint no god damn muslim so that might be even bad.I love my dating life shyt likes a bad movie. I might get it on with this chick or not and then it gon be on to the other chick and another season might open up. shyt even some projects I put on hold cuz they know that chick that im supposed to go out with and they live in the same area been extra careful to the point that I ain't even ask for their numbers. OH YEAH this other asian chick from my job asked me for my digits outta nowhere she nice but ima have to do my best to avoid that <_<
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Almost every single woman I've been with has tried to come back at some point. Some I dumped, the others dumped me. Some of them have made multiple attempts of reuniting over the years. sometimes you just have to laugh.
One that stands out was my "second love" who dumped me. She was very hot
, great body, great in bed, but she had alot of emotional issues (broken home/was molested). She was early twenties when we first dated and had already been in so many relationships red flag i know.
Any ways I had a mutual friend but never let her know that I did, and after she dumped me, tabs on her were kept just for entertainment value. She had no clue. I'd monitor her facebook and be kept up to date her latest lovers. I'd watch all of her relationships start out, see teh honeymoon period, the new pictures, see the infatuation grow, hit their peak, and then see the abrupt decline exactly like ours did. It usually played out in about 3-4months ( i dated her for 9 months, but after 3 it was hell). After each relationship ended, she would be single for about a month and find a new victim and start all over again. It was predictable to a tee.
Every time she would break up with whatever guy she was with I would start to get emails/texts wondering how i was doing
. The first time I took the bait and we messed around for a little bit. The 3rd, 4th, and 5th time she tried to get back together I had finally smartened up. The more I rejected her, the harder she tried.
She was one of these types who always lived for the thrill of a new relationship and is constantly seeking self-validation to keep her fragile ego intact. She is now much older and allthough she is still hot, and a social media whore she is realizing that the fun days are drying up.
I checked the other day yeah i shouldnt have and saw her become infatuated with this new guy, funny she only messed and dated with black men before but now she's with some spanish dude for the first time ever. The new pictures are up the heart shaped, the whole same song and dance, t just like all the others.
Her mother went thru life much like she has. Imagine that. Now her mother lives a lonely life with her partner, the pervert partner who molested her daughter but she's to scared to leave Her mother often mentions how she made some bad choices with men and has lived a life full of regrets. Her mom in pictures i have seen looked as well in her youth.
Another thing that was interesting was this girl goes to church from time to time and likes to put up a good front. She puts on such a good show that you wouldn't ever suspect it. She will even try and make you feel guilty for all the women you have been with. She questioned me about std's even though she gave me one. Basically she was just trying to paint me as the bad guy to make her self feel and look better. She never led on to all the men she had been with.
I hope any of you members or lukers that reead this can learn something about these types of women. This women was one of the hottest girl I had ever been with and I was pretty wrapped up in her. The good thing about her is I finally reached a point that an attractive girl is no more special to me than and ugly one. It gives you a lot of power in all your relationships when you truly Stop letting them get away with crap just because they are hot and you want to make them happy. I thank that selfish manipulating whore for teaching me that.
One that stands out was my "second love" who dumped me. She was very hot
, great body, great in bed, but she had alot of emotional issues (broken home/was molested). She was early twenties when we first dated and had already been in so many relationships red flag i know.Any ways I had a mutual friend but never let her know that I did, and after she dumped me, tabs on her were kept just for entertainment value. She had no clue. I'd monitor her facebook and be kept up to date her latest lovers. I'd watch all of her relationships start out, see teh honeymoon period, the new pictures, see the infatuation grow, hit their peak, and then see the abrupt decline exactly like ours did. It usually played out in about 3-4months ( i dated her for 9 months, but after 3 it was hell). After each relationship ended, she would be single for about a month and find a new victim and start all over again. It was predictable to a tee.
Every time she would break up with whatever guy she was with I would start to get emails/texts wondering how i was doing
. The first time I took the bait and we messed around for a little bit. The 3rd, 4th, and 5th time she tried to get back together I had finally smartened up. The more I rejected her, the harder she tried. She was one of these types who always lived for the thrill of a new relationship and is constantly seeking self-validation to keep her fragile ego intact. She is now much older and allthough she is still hot, and a social media whore she is realizing that the fun days are drying up.
I checked the other day yeah i shouldnt have and saw her become infatuated with this new guy, funny she only messed and dated with black men before but now she's with some spanish dude for the first time ever. The new pictures are up the heart shaped, the whole same song and dance, t just like all the others.
Her mother went thru life much like she has. Imagine that. Now her mother lives a lonely life with her partner, the pervert partner who molested her daughter but she's to scared to leave Her mother often mentions how she made some bad choices with men and has lived a life full of regrets. Her mom in pictures i have seen looked
as well in her youth.Another thing that was interesting was this girl goes to church from time to time and likes to put up a good front. She puts on such a good show that you wouldn't ever suspect it. She will even try and make you feel guilty for all the women you have been with. She questioned me about std's even though she gave me one. Basically she was just trying to paint me as the bad guy to make her self feel and look better. She never led on to all the men she had been with.
I hope any of you members or lukers that reead this can learn something about these types of women. This women was one of the hottest girl I had ever been with and I was pretty wrapped up in her. The good thing about her is I finally reached a point that an attractive girl is no more special to me than and ugly one. It gives you a lot of power in all your relationships when you truly Stop letting them get away with crap just because they are hot and you want to make them happy. I thank that selfish manipulating whore for teaching me that.