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Glad more and more guys are realizing it's all a numbers game. Even when you got a gf, keep a few girls in the pocket just in case.
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Glad more and more guys are realizing it's all a numbers game. Even when you got a gf, keep a few girls in the pocket just in case.
the only reason women don't do this is because they dont have to, they can break up with you today, and have a new bf tom if they want. As a man unless your like brad pitt, tyson beckford if a girl breaks up with you, women aren't going to be flocking to you, talking to you out of nowhere, flirting with you etc., if htere is one thing about relationships its amazing how they go, the woman wants you to give up your friends that are females, yhanging out with your close friends so they can dictate your life and destroy you when she ends it
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you really be gettin stressed over p*ssy tho?
nikkas need stronger resolve
Nah. What i'm saying is things are usually cool with a girl until sex happens. It just creates unnecessary stress. Especially when you're not sure of your long term plans for them. In my experience, once I have sex they go into overdrive with the emotions and guilt
this is the main reason for my saying, "its not every p*ssy you have to fukk."
if a girl is really really feeling me but i aint on the same wave i wont bother. i dont need that on my conscience nor do i wanna deal with the bs
Brehs the girl I treated like dung and treated me great I just got a email from her its been nearly 3 years (last girl I ever slept with)
I dunno why women do that. Nothing good comes out of it.
Absolutely golden!Almost every single woman I've been with has tried to come back at some point. Some I dumped, the others dumped me. Some of them have made multiple attempts of reuniting over the years. sometimes you just have to laugh.
One that stands out was my "second love" who dumped me. She was very hot
Any ways I had a mutual friend but never let her know that I did, and after she dumped me, tabs on her were kept just for entertainment value. She had no clue. I'd monitor her facebook and be kept up to date her latest lovers. I'd watch all of her relationships start out, see teh honeymoon period, the new pictures, see the infatuation grow, hit their peak, and then see the abrupt decline exactly like ours did. It usually played out in about 3-4months ( i dated her for 9 months, but after 3 it was hell). After each relationship ended, she would be single for about a month and find a new victim and start all over again. It was predictable to a tee.
Every time she would break up with whatever guy she was with I would start to get emails/texts wondering how i was doing. The first time I took the bait and we messed around for a little bit. The 3rd, 4th, and 5th time she tried to get back together I had finally smartened up. The more I rejected her, the harder she tried.
She was one of these types who always lived for the thrill of a new relationship and is constantly seeking self-validation to keep her fragile ego intact. She is now much older and allthough she is still hot, and a social media whore she is realizing that the fun days are drying up.
I checked the other day yeah i shouldnt have and saw her become infatuated with this new guy, funny she only messed and dated with black men before but now she's with some spanish dude for the first time ever. The new pictures are up the heart shaped, the whole same song and dance, t just like all the others.
Her mother went thru life much like she has. Imagine that. Now her mother lives a lonely life with her partner, the pervert partner who molested her daughter but she's to scared to leave Her mother often mentions how she made some bad choices with men and has lived a life full of regrets. Her mom in pictures i have seen looked
Another thing that was interesting was this girl goes to church from time to time and likes to put up a good front. She puts on such a good show that you wouldn't ever suspect it. She will even try and make you feel guilty for all the women you have been with. She questioned me about std's even though she gave me one. Basically she was just trying to paint me as the bad guy to make her self feel and look better. She never led on to all the men she had been with.
I hope any of you members or lukers that reead this can learn something about these types of women. This women was one of the hottest girl I had ever been with and I was pretty wrapped up in her. The good thing about her is I finally reached a point that an attractive girl is no more special to me than and ugly one. It gives you a lot of power in all your relationships when you truly Stop letting them get away with crap just because they are hot and you want to make them happy. I thank that selfish manipulating whore for teaching me that.
Like the old saying goes "not everything that looks good to you is good for you", I had a bad ass female myself, to the world she was a dime, but underneath was an insecure, constant validation needing, no father In the home, molested female I was dealing with. I did all that I could to make it work, but nothing was ever good enough. Some women will never be satisfied because they don't love themselves.
I was there and sad thing is I moved her and wanted the best for her but she literally drained me. And I came to realize why every guy left or cheated on her or just used her for sex, she had major major issues that she never dealt with.
Right now if anyone saw her they would be like, but she's on paxil, has no family who cares, school loans up to the next, battling depressing , manipulates and lies and always plays the victim role to a tee, but she's great in bed and has a body to die for so she will always have volunteers.
Right now if anyone saw her they would be like
, but she's on paxil, has no family who cares, school loans up to the next, battling depressing , manipulates and lies and always plays the victim role to a tee, but she's great in bed and has a body to die for so she will always have volunteers.
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Don't really mess with pua sites etc
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210962
What I've been saying for awhile
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210962
What I've been saying for awhile
Something I found
Obsessing with girls and forgetting your own life. (Serious).
This is for you guys out there who have goals, ambitions and dreams, if your goal is just to **** as many girls as you can whilst your alive then stop reading, if you can't read long posts then also stop reading because there will be no cliffs.
As much as guys obsess with the PUA stuff, a lot of guys still tend to focus on getting the girl, instead of focusing on what is always mentioned in most of the PUA schools about 'bettering yourself'.
When you are still under 30 and haven't yet accumulated a lot of responsibility your ultimate drive in life should be to be the best person you can be, and not spend countless hours fretting on 'girls who will complete you'.
I've reach the stage in my life where I honestly could careless about hooking up with model looking chicks, I know this sounds hard to believe and I am not a pimp with outrageous high numbers (had plenty opportunities but I am not the kind of guy who likes to rack up numbers) , but I know how easy it is to get one of these chicks, and the harder you think it is, the harder you make it for yourself to be successful with them, but this is not the point of my post.
My main point is that when you think that one girl is special, that she is 'different' and you start thinking up ways of to get with her, and she is on your mind more than an hour a day, you are wasting time that you could spend on yourself bro. Work on yourself while you are still young and have the time and energy. My only regret in life is not having had the mentality I have now back when I was more interested in scoring chicks, back before there were forums like these that were popular and can make your life much simpler.
I don't care what anyone says, there is no such thing as the 'perfect' mate for you. Even if you do find the so called perfect mate, I guarantee you that if I presented you with someone with all your mate's positive traits and who was a tad bit sexier, your 'perfect' mate would no longer be perfect. That doesn't mean you should go around cheating or giving up on finding a woman to marry, what I am trying to drive home is it's not big deal if you did not get the girl you want/you're a virgin/have only slept with avg chicks, and so on. It only seems special to you because you haven't done it yet, but once you do it, you think "****, was that really worth all the time?".
Does having good looks help? Yes. Does being wealthy make it easier? Of course. Yet that shouldn't matter to you. You should not put pressure on yourself to attain these things quickly just because it will make it easier for you to get chicks. You're better off learning how to make money by doing your research, getting an education and finally getting where you want to be over years, as a opposed to taking a loan for a car today just to give off the image that you have wealth (fortunately I was never dumb enough to do something like that).
All you guys in high school and college, take advantage of your less stressful lives to work on yourselves, find out what it is that really will make you happy in life and work for that. Don't forget your lives in pursuit of chicks all the time, parties and the hot girl are not going to develop your life for you. Stop trying to earn your confidence by which girl is interested in you. Your confidence should come from what you are doing to improve yourself, not who you can brag about to your friends and yourself about who you hooked up with. If you can work on yourself and get as many chicks at the same time, then that's great for you, but I know a lot of you just aren't like that. You will seriously be much happier down the line.