Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs I feel like a huge burden has been off my shoulder.

I told my ex everything she didn't wanna hear. I said she should stop thinking she's the shyt. She got two kids has no education and works min wage. I told her that the p*ssy is loose as shyt and isn't anything special. Whoever gets that better know what they've gotten themselves into cause there are better women out there with 0 baggage.

At this point I don't think I'll be getting my money back. I threatened her about it anyway. Told her if she don't pay me up, I'm going to her work and telling them how much of a deadbeat she is.

I'm done with this bytch for good. There are so much quality women out there that have no kids, that it'll be an upgrade no matter what I go for. Life is too short to worry about one deadbeat. Acquire money and knowledge and the women will come by themselves. Now I know I will never think about her as my ex again. We used each other basically. That's the way life goes. I'll never love another woman again. She needs to be a high quality girl with morals and principles. It might take a while to find a decent one, but whatever gotta fix yourself first.
 
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yes, man I used to talk to just one girl at a time and when she wouldn't text back or acting funny i'd be going crazy.

now i'm talking to like 4 or 5 girls and shyt is just a lot better. i got some girls number a couple weeks ago and hit her up and she aint text me back but I don't give a fukk, got other girls I can get at on deck. the old me would've be going crazy.

Glad more and more guys are realizing it's all a numbers game. Even when you got a gf, keep a few girls in the pocket just in case.
 

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Glad more and more guys are realizing it's all a numbers game. Even when you got a gf, keep a few girls in the pocket just in case.

the only reason women don't do this is because they dont have to, they can break up with you today, and have a new bf tom if they want. As a man unless your like brad pitt, tyson beckford if a girl breaks up with you, women aren't going to be flocking to you, talking to you out of nowhere, flirting with you etc., if htere is one thing about relationships its amazing how they go, the woman wants you to give up your friends that are females, yhanging out with your close friends so they can dictate your life and destroy you when she ends it
 

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:what::what::what: you really be gettin stressed over p*ssy tho?


nikkas need stronger resolve :snoop:

Nah. What i'm saying is things are usually cool with a girl until sex happens. It just creates unnecessary stress. Especially when you're not sure of your long term plans for them. In my experience, once I have sex they go into overdrive with the emotions and guilt
 

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Nah. What i'm saying is things are usually cool with a girl until sex happens. It just creates unnecessary stress. Especially when you're not sure of your long term plans for them. In my experience, once I have sex they go into overdrive with the emotions and guilt
this is the main reason for my saying, "its not every p*ssy you have to fukk."

if a girl is really really feeling me but i aint on the same wave i wont bother. i dont need that on my conscience nor do i wanna deal with the bs
 

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Almost every single woman I've been with has tried to come back at some point. Some I dumped, the others dumped me. Some of them have made multiple attempts of reuniting over the years. sometimes you just have to laugh.

One that stands out was my "second love" who dumped me. She was very hot :noah:, great body, great in bed, but she had alot of emotional issues (broken home/was molested). She was early twenties when we first dated and had already been in so many relationships red flag i know.

Any ways I had a mutual friend but never let her know that I did, and after she dumped me, tabs on her were kept just for entertainment value. She had no clue. I'd monitor her facebook and be kept up to date her latest lovers. I'd watch all of her relationships start out, see teh honeymoon period, the new pictures, see the infatuation grow, hit their peak, and then see the abrupt decline exactly like ours did. It usually played out in about 3-4months ( i dated her for 9 months, but after 3 it was hell). After each relationship ended, she would be single for about a month and find a new victim and start all over again. It was predictable to a tee.

Every time she would break up with whatever guy she was with I would start to get emails/texts wondering how i was doing :heh:. The first time I took the bait and we messed around for a little bit. The 3rd, 4th, and 5th time she tried to get back together I had finally smartened up. The more I rejected her, the harder she tried.

She was one of these types who always lived for the thrill of a new relationship and is constantly seeking self-validation to keep her fragile ego intact. She is now much older and allthough she is still hot, and a social media whore she is realizing that the fun days are drying up.

I checked the other day yeah i shouldnt have and saw her become infatuated with this new guy, funny she only messed and dated with black men before but now she's with some spanish dude for the first time ever. The new pictures are up the heart shaped, the whole same song and dance, t just like all the others.

Her mother went thru life much like she has. Imagine that. Now her mother lives a lonely life with her partner, the pervert partner who molested her daughter but she's to scared to leave Her mother often mentions how she made some bad choices with men and has lived a life full of regrets. Her mom in pictures i have seen looked :noah: as well in her youth.

Another thing that was interesting was this girl goes to church from time to time and likes to put up a good front. She puts on such a good show that you wouldn't ever suspect it. She will even try and make you feel guilty for all the women you have been with. She questioned me about std's even though she gave me one. Basically she was just trying to paint me as the bad guy to make her self feel and look better. She never led on to all the men she had been with.

I hope any of you members or lukers that reead this can learn something about these types of women. This women was one of the hottest girl I had ever been with and I was pretty wrapped up in her. The good thing about her is I finally reached a point that an attractive girl is no more special to me than and ugly one. It gives you a lot of power in all your relationships when you truly Stop letting them get away with crap just because they are hot and you want to make them happy. I thank that selfish manipulating whore for teaching me that.
Absolutely golden!

Like the old saying goes "not everything that looks good to you is good for you", I had a bad ass female myself, to the world she was a dime, but underneath was an insecure, constant validation needing, no father In the home, molested female I was dealing with. I did all that I could to make it work, but nothing was ever good enough. Some women will never be satisfied because they don't love themselves.
 

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I was there and sad thing is I moved her and wanted the best for her but she literally drained me. And I came to realize why every guy left or cheated on her or just used her for sex, she had major major issues that she never dealt with.

Right now if anyone saw her they would be like :noah:, but she's on paxil, has no family who cares, school loans up to the next, battling depressing , manipulates and lies and always plays the victim role to a tee, but she's great in bed and has a body to die for so she will always have volunteers.

Absolutely golden!

Like the old saying goes "not everything that looks good to you is good for you", I had a bad ass female myself, to the world she was a dime, but underneath was an insecure, constant validation needing, no father In the home, molested female I was dealing with. I did all that I could to make it work, but nothing was ever good enough. Some women will never be satisfied because they don't love themselves.
 

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Nah. What i'm saying is things are usually cool with a girl until sex happens. It just creates unnecessary stress. Especially when you're not sure of your long term plans for them. In my experience, once I have sex they go into overdrive with the emotions and guilt

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Went to a wedding last night, one of the bridesmaids, a thick ass sista was eyeing me up all day, choosing up on a brotha. I kept it cool for a couple hours till we hit the dancefloor.On the dancefloor I approached her, took her hand and we danced, she whined on me, backed that ass up on me etc. She left me a couple of times to do her bridemaids duties,but she kept on coming back, for a dance and small talk off the dance floor.

At the end of the night, before leaving, I looked for her and asked for the number. She said "my boyfriend wouldnt like but mmmmmmm here is my number we can talk"

What am I supposed to do, Coli fam?


Don't bother man. Women alwaaaays want attention. Throw the number out
 
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